Life is a long river, and it is fortunate that people who have to point out the direction are lucky; life is like a big book, and deep reading can be enjoyed in it.
First, insufficient awareness is more worrying
Lack of knowledge and difficulty in making decisions will lead to overthinking, worry and suspicion, and insecurity. So sometimes, a life of much thought and trepidation is not given to us by the outside world, but caused by our own shallow knowledge.
If you want to change this situation, you must enrich yourself and broaden your horizons. "Reading the Bible is long learning, reading history is long insight" - read more excellent books of predecessors, learn from the wisdom and experience of predecessors, encounter things naturally and open-mindedly, and know how to deal with them.
Second, if there is insufficient power, it is angry
Weed is not convincing enough to get angry. Some people use anger to build prestige, but it will actually backfire, because anger exposes the lack of virtue. Prestige comes from virtue, and the power of morality can subdue all the masses.
The truly learned and moral person must show humility, respect, and approachability, and where can anger be used to attract the resentment of the people?
Third, if the faith is insufficient, it is more than enough
People with insufficient credit, who speak in disbelief, usually go to great lengths to say more. The words of the Ji people are widowed, and the words of the manic people are many. Sometimes the lack of a person's credit is shown from the side, so it is very important to be trustworthy.
Four or eight sentences, sixteen words, the essence of the ancestors' life in the world
Standing tall: An Shi, the king of the Northern Song Dynasty, said: "Do not be afraid of floating clouds to cover your eyes, only because you are at the highest level." "The floating clouds in the mountains can cover the eyes of climbers, and how many "floating clouds" in our lives are "covering the eyes". Not only all the old stereotypes, but even those gossip may become "floating clouds" that obscure our vision and prevent us from recognizing the direction. When the floating clouds in nature dissipate, the "floating clouds" in life need to have a higher realm to see and ignore.
Only by having lofty ambitions and having a broad mind will we not be trapped by selfish distractions and burdened by fame and fortune. Only when we are in the high realm can the soul be pure and beautiful. Positioning determines status, and the mood transcends hardships.
Looking far: As the saying goes, "Take one step and look at ten steps." "You can see how far you can go; without foresight, you must look for short-sightedness, and there is no tomorrow for quick success and short-term profit." Life is like a stage, if you stick to the dry well, then your life will not improve, because the world in your eyes is only a palm-sized place; If you want to make your future stage more colorful, then you must break the mentality of being satisfied with the status quo and take a longer-term view.
The ancients said: "The rivers and seas do not compete with the kanjing for their clarity, and the thunder does not compete with the birds and finches for their voices." "The reason why the rivers and seas are vast and the reason why the thunder causes heavy rain is that they know what they should do and their horizons are wide. Without a broad vision, even people who have the ability will be mediocre and do nothing.
Widely heard: The ancients said: "The more discerning one has a wide range of knowledge, and the exporant has a grand heart." "A person who has seen more of the world, more experience and experience, has a broad knowledge and rich experience."
Ouyang Xiu of the Northern Song Dynasty said: "Strong learning and exposition are enough to pass through ancient and modern times." "The more people who read books, the more they read, the more they read, their hearts must be much broader than others. If people want to have knowledge, experience, and a broad mind, then they must read more books and study, observe society more, and participate in social practice. What you see and hear makes a lifetime, and ignorance buries a lifetime.
Cautious words: one word to rejuvenate the country, one word to lose the country. Say the words, splash out the water. Careless language can intentionally or unintentionally hurt people's self-esteem and affect interpersonal relationships. For individuals, if the words are not careful, they will be humiliated at worst, and they will lose their lives. Therefore, we must be cautious in what we say, especially to humiliate others, ridicule, accuse, demean, and so on, and it is even more important not to say it easily.
Words must be timely, words must be appropriate, words must be moderate. Don't talk much, don't talk nonsense. It is better to tell the truth than to talk about dialogue, and it is better to talk about dialogue than to say good things.
Heart wide: The ancients cloud: "The heart is nothing and a bed is wide." "If the heart is calculating, there are complaints everywhere; if the heart is relaxed, it is always peaceful." How big the heart is, how big the world will be. Nine times out of ten things are not satisfactory in the world, people who can be obedient to you, after all, there are very few things that can make you get your wishes. If you are calculating, nothing will satisfy you. Only by measuring breadth can we win people, and selflessness is the realm.
The heart is one inch wide, the road is one inch wide; the heart is as wide as the sea, and the wind and waves are calm. Smile and watch the flowers bloom, quiet and joyful; quietly enjoy the flowers falling, and follow the fate.
Shen Ding: Su Dongpo of the Northern Song Dynasty said: "There are great brave people in the world, who come without being alarmed, and who are not angry without reason." "Don't be immediately upset, impetuous and nervous, overwhelmed when you encounter something unpleasant, and don't be overwhelmed when you are in a good situation, and look like a villain.
Lao Tzu said, "Misfortune and happiness depend on, and blessings lie on", there are many things in the world that are often blessed by misfortune, because blessings and misfortunes are constantly alternating, and everything in life is unpredictable. A person who knows how to live, his personality is full of confidence and open-mindedness, even if he encounters difficulties, his heart is not chaotic, his mind is not bothered, he keeps his head clear, calmly deals with it, and calmly copes.
Yijian: Success depends on faith, not conditions. Tenacious will is a reliable guarantee of achieving dreams. Only with a tenacious will can we not be intimidated by difficulties and not succumb to adversity. Without a tenacious will, we can only linger in the face of misfortune and stagnate in the face of adversity.
Firm will is the characteristic of all people who achieve great things. Labor is not enough to discourage them, difficulties are not enough to discourage them. No matter what the situation, they can always persevere and endure. They are powerful at heart, and the gods are hard to come by.
Qi: I am born to be useful. The confidence is very strong, that is, self-confidence, but not blind confidence, but after making sufficient preparations, it is confident. Confident people are rich in their hearts, have poetry and bookish self-glory in their abdomen, and have hills and mountains in their chests. Confident people are pure, do not care about the boring views of others, can correctly handle the relationship between themselves and the world, and calmly treat gains and losses in life, right and wrong at work.
Confident people dare to be the first in the world, change their fate with knowledge, win applause with sincerity, get respect with wisdom, impress people's hearts with kindness, and write life with true feelings (materials from the Internet).
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