Are you used to blaming children?
How can you do this!
You did this wrong, you know!
You're stupid!
Do you feel comfortable when you hear something like that?
A person, accustomed to accusations, will be addictive.
Because every time he accuses, it means that he is right, he is on top, this feeling is very narcissistic, very enjoyable.
But
If a person is accustomed to such accusations, judgments, denials, and suppression of children, he is teaching children that they are not good enough, so that this is not good enough, they will enter the subconscious of their children and become a part of their lives.
This is also the reason why many children, the more they teach, the more stupid they are, because they are constantly proving that this child is not good enough.
In fact, what you want is not to blame the child, but to teach the child what to learn.
If you are just picky and accusatory, but forget the church, or that your parents themselves will not, then you are not satisfied with your children, but yourself.
It seems that I am talking about children.
In fact, the touch bypass, in life, in the interaction of relationships, is the same.
What you want is not to blame the other party, but to guide the other party to see, which they have not seen before, more choices and scenery.
In the interaction of the relationship, what is wanted is not to blame the other party, but to guide the other party to see, which he has not seen before, more choices and scenery.
2022.4.25 5:52
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