A line from Oneday: "I can't control my unforgettable nostalgia for you, but I don't expect anything about you anymore." ”
This sentence portrays the disappointment and chill of women in love very appropriately.
A woman can love a man with her heart and lungs, but if you repeatedly disappoint her and break his heart, she can also give up on you. Men have to remember that no woman is going to get upset with you for no reason, and it must be because you hurt her that she will feel cold. 、
Don't say that women are too desperate, in fact, before she decides to be cruel to you, she has given you many opportunities, and you can only blame yourself for not cherishing.
A woman's heart can be very soft, but once she is disappointed, she can also become desperate and fierce, and even if you apologize repeatedly, you can't save her heart. Many men do not know how cruel their wives who have been chilled will be until they are old.
Ignore you
Everyone's energy is limited and women will only give precious time and affection to the man they love deeply. Because she loves you, she is willing to take care of you.
A woman who truly loves you because she has you in her heart, so she will care about you and care about you. A woman who ignores your life and she begins to drift away from your circle means that she is mostly cold to you.
A woman's feelings are precious, and if you lose them, you will never have them again. Don't say that women are desperate, it's just because you don't know how to cherish. When a woman feels cold to you, she will withdraw her thoughts and energy from you, and will no longer care about your warmth and safety.
Because she no longer has you in her heart, she will become more and more cold to you. She will treat you like a stranger, whether you are good or bad, and will no longer care, indifferent to you.
Too lazy to talk to you
The real chill of a woman is not to cry loudly, but to become very silent and desperate.
She used to care about you, but then she was really tired, mourning more than heart death, and once a woman's heart was cold, she would become silent.
In front of you, she no longer coddles, no longer relies on you, no longer communicates with you, no longer talks to you about the bittersweet and bittersweet of life, she is indifferent to anything you say, and she doesn't even bother to argue with you.
There is nowhere to complain, only to be speechless, desperate to a certain extent, will choose silence. Silence is a woman's silent protest, and it is also the most decent way she chooses to break with you, not tearing, not accusing, not saying evil words.
No longer willing to pay for you
Women are kind, but women are never easy to mess with. A woman gives everything to be with you, but just hope that you can also love her.
For a woman, when she pays with all her heart and treats you wholeheartedly, if you make her chill, stop fantasizing that she can still pay for you.
Once a woman has a cold heart, even if she loves again, she will not pay for you in the slightest. Especially when women once their hearts are cold to the limit, they often choose a desperate way to protect themselves.
Because she is hurt and cold, she will no longer be enthusiastic about you, even if you are dedicated to her, she will always turn a blind eye. In her heart, you have become a dispensable being.
brief summary:
Men don't want to end up in a desolate evening, and when they are young, they should not chill their wives' hearts.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "The hurt of a man to a woman is not necessarily that he is in love with someone else, but that he disappoints her when she has expectations." ”
No woman will easily be desperate, and even if there is, it is because the hurt and despair that men have brought to her are too great, making her completely cold. Men do not know until they are old that their wives who are chilled will have much desperation.
The woman holds you in the palm of her hand, you are a cup, if you make the woman chill, the woman abandons you, gives up, you fall to the ground, it is a pile of glass ballast.
Therefore, men do not want to live a desolate life in their old age, not to be cared for and loved by their wives, they must cherish the woman who loves you, and do not let her chill.
Because when a woman feels cold to you, it means that your feelings have developed a deep rift and can never return to the way they were before.