Every child is a seed, and I would like to be the sunshine and give them warmth; I would like to be the rain and dew to give them moisture; I would like to be the soil and give them vitality.
Children are the hope of every family, in the process of children's growth we will encounter various problems, children do not obey when the elderly often say to make rules from an early age.
But there are too many rules to be established, and which rules are necessary and must be established from an early age?
The first point: when you meet someone, you must say hello.
This is the most basic courtesy. A polite child must be liked by everyone, no matter how naughty the child, as long as he understands politeness, it is not expensive to do something offensive.
After all, the child's mind is still very simple.
Second point: Don't influence others in public.
The volume of talking is as small as possible, in fact, empathy vaguely knows that we sometimes feel particularly annoying when we hear children who are screaming and screaming when they are outside.
The third point: No matter what kind of secret, if you are not willing to tell your mother, tell your father, and if you are not willing to tell your father, tell your mother.
Don't hide it in your heart, today's children are small and big, and many of the secrets in your heart are unimaginable to you.
It is important to be able to speak out the dissatisfaction and secrets in your heart, and let the parents know the reasons and enlighten the child. This requires parents to communicate with their children more often.
Fourth point: Don't lie.
Lying is the beginning of losing trust and friends, honesty and trustworthiness are rare and valuable, do not lose this innate value.
And lying is a habit that will become, slowly you will feel very unnatural when you tell the truth, and lying will be more real.
Fifth point: Punctuality.
Punctuality should be cultivated from an early age, and you would rather wait for others for a while than let others wait for you.
Punctuality is often an important measure of success, don't take it for granted that others are waiting for you. There are not so many things in this world that are not taken for granted.
Sixth point: Take the initiative and be brave enough to admit mistakes.
Doing the wrong thing is not terrible, because everyone will do the wrong thing, and bravely admitting mistakes is the best way to solve this problem. Getting forgiveness from others will make you feel relieved as a whole.
Seventh point: Don't waste food.
None of the food fell from the sky, they were all planted by the hard work of the peasant uncle. After processing, it became what it is now.
Every process is hard, and we can't ignore the fruits of other people's labor in this way.
Eighth point: Go all out for what you want to do.
It's not the age when the process doesn't have results, so what's the use of having a process if it's not for that result?
Point Nine: Learn to be tolerant.
If others accidentally hurt you, learn to treat others with a tolerant person, allow others to make mistakes and temporary careless kindness is an urgently needed quality in this society, and it is also the best way to treat yourself kindly.
Tenth point: In times of danger, one can abandon all principles, and no principle is more important than life.
Some people think these things are easy to say but difficult for children to do. I would say that these rules are not just about asking children.
It is also asking us adults, adults to set an example by example, and children will slowly learn in a subtle way.
If we really don't understand and don't understand, we guide it, society is changing, and our children will also change.
They will be the fresh blood of this society, and they will also play a leading role in what the future society will look like.
Therefore, among the many rules, these ten points are the starting point and foundation of the child's rules.
Everything else is built on these and slowly developed. So parents must first change themselves, and then change their children.
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