Love is mysterious, and when a person falls in love, he will suffer from gain and loss, and will be overwhelmed.
Every woman hopes to meet a man who reassures herself, but not everyone can do it, sometimes, it is she who pays too much, the other party's sincerity is not clear, and sometimes, the other party's mind is hidden too deeply, so that she does not know how to understand.
At this time, women often because of too nervous about the relationship, and there are some wrong practices, when the man goes out, she will ask for a report, the man comes home late, she will fidget, but the more nervous, the easier it is to make the relationship stiff.
Everyone needs a sense of space, and if the other person feels too tied up in the relationship, he will feel tired and slowly don't want to stick with it.
So, women want to know that the other party doesn't care about you, don't have to embarrass themselves like this, but disappear occasionally, and look at his attitude towards you, such a temptation is more real.
In fact, how important you are in a man's heart, look at his reaction after "disconnection", you will know!
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After disconnecting, will he look for you for the first time?
When a woman falls in love with someone, she will always put the other person first, as long as the other party is happy, she will be happier than anyone else, completely forgetting who she is.
You may think that only by sticking with each other is it called love, otherwise you will suffer from loss and loss, nervousness and helplessness, and fear that the other party will no longer love you.
But the more you stick to each other like this, the more the other party will not cherish, it is better to occasionally cold him, break off contact with him, see if he reacts, and see if he will find you at the first time.
If a man has you in his heart, he will definitely go to you at the first time, even if he can't contact you, he will contact his friends around him to see where you are.
He is too afraid of losing you, and he is even more afraid that you will sneak away when you encounter things and not let him know, so he will take the initiative to find you and not allow you to disappear around him.
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After disconnection, he will not be very nervous about you
In fact, a man's attitude can best reflect whether he loves you, a person's joy and sorrow can not be hidden, when you break off contact with him, his reaction is also the most real.
If you are important in his heart, on the first day of separation, he will be very nervous about you, afraid that you will leave him from now on, and will not be able to eat or sleep for this reason.
And if you are dispensable in his heart, he will feel that it does not matter, anyway, it is just to leave for a few days, always want to come back, what is there to be nervous about?
Although it is true, his cold attitude will still disappoint you, after all, what you want is the care and love of the other party, not indifference and disregard.
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After breaking off the connection, he will not give up on you directly
There is also a situation that can judge whether he has you in his heart, that is, after breaking the connection, see if he will delete and block you, or directly choose to give up.
Maybe you will feel that men are too stingy to do this, but some men are like this, he will feel that you left him first, he can't stand your departure like this, so he directly blacked out, and the two never see each other again.
It is also possible that he has long wanted to separate from you, has not been able to find the right opportunity, you broke off contact with him, just gave him an excuse, so he will directly choose to give up.
In fact, from this point, it can also be seen whether he has you in his heart, and the person who has you will not do this to you, at least he will ask why you disappeared, and even reflect on his own problems, rather than not saying anything and directly abandoning the relationship.
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Conclusion
In a relationship, women are easily insecure, especially in the case of not being sure whether the other party loves themselves or not, it is easier to fall into this emotion and cannot extricate themselves.
If you want to judge whether you are important in the other person's heart, it is actually very simple, you only need to occasionally "disconnect" with him, see his reaction, and you can also know the answer.
If he is not in a hurry at all, will not want to find you, or even take the initiative to give up on you, then this person is not worthy of your love, just separate.
And if after the disconnection, he went to you for the first time, and at the same time he was very nervous about you and worried about what happened to you, then you should understand that you are very important in his heart, and he cannot live without you.