I have to say that educating children is also a technology to a certain extent, which not only requires parents to pay enough patience for it, but also needs to pay attention to certain ways and methods.
If the method of educating the child is appropriate, then the child will not only listen to you, but also will not affect the relationship between parents and children. And if the method of educating the child is not appropriate, it may be counterproductive, and the child will not only not listen to you, but also show strong rebellious emotions.
"Looking forward to the son to become a dragon, hoping for the daughter to become a phoenix", many parents may be looking for ways and means to educate their children. So, what kind of method is a good way to educate children? Let's look at it with a practical example.
One day, an elderly father learned that his 14-year-old daughter had bought a pair of super shorts and was going to school wearing them. After learning of this situation, the old father decided to educate his daughter himself and prevent her from wearing ultra-shorts to school. Because wearing ultra-shorts to school is not good for her daughter, not only may not be conducive to her studies, but also may cause other classmates to discuss, ridicule, and other attempts.
In order to avoid his daughter's overreaction to his education, and to educate his daughter not to wear shorts to school, the old father came up with a clever trick. He put on his pants and went into his daughter's room and said, "Let's talk!" ”
Seeing her father's comical dress, the daughter covered her mouth with an unbelievable expression, trying to hide her laughter.
Next, the old father began his own education of his daughter. "Take your shorts out." "Let's see who's better." Both were rejected by their daughters.
Later, at the insistence of the old father, the daughter finally took out her own super shorts and put them on her body.
At this time, the old father said in a timely manner, "Whose is shorter?" Who's shorter? How can this be worn to school? "If you dare to wear this to school, I dare to wear these pants to pick you up at the school gate every day."
After the education of the old father, his 14-year-old daughter finally gave up the idea of wearing ultra-shorts to go to school, and it did not affect the father-daughter relationship between them, which can be said to be the best of both worlds.
In this regard, some netizens said: I like this way of education! Speaking peacefully and interestingly with you, it is much better than not being sure.
Some netizens said: Maybe we don't have this opportunity, even if there are girls, there is no chance, because only school uniforms are allowed to wear in China.
But think about it, if you were the old father, how would you educate your daughter? Was it to compulsively make her give up wearing super shorts to go to school? Or do you beat up your daughter and tell her that it's not allowed?
If you really plan to do that, try to think about your daughter's reaction! Will a daughter, who is in adolescence, revolt hysterically and then shout at you, "This is my own business, what does it have to do with you?"?
Therefore, when educating children, please pay attention to the ways and methods of education, and try to educate children in a peaceful and interesting way, because this is the best for children and for themselves. What do you think? Welcome to leave a message to discuss! Thank you also for your support in every like, comment, favorite and retweet of your friends! Thank you!