It is about to be time, but the child is still grinding and rubbing, and in the face of this situation, parents often can't help but urge the child, hoping that the child can improve his speed and complete the task as soon as possible.
In fact, many children often lack the concept of time, they do not understand the most basic concept of time, due to the lack of self-awareness of time, children are likely to miss the original wonderful.
Children who do not have a strong sense of time are likely to give a bad impression and lead to bad relationships. Parents should actively guide their children to further understand time, so as to actively manage their own time in order to better improve efficiency.
Children lack the concept of time, parents should understand these reasons
Excessive parental urging
Many parents often hope that their children can be faster, especially when they see children slowly, they tend to constantly urge their children, perhaps this is a very normal behavior in the eyes of parents, but for children, they tend to become lazy, and even rely on their parents' urging.
No matter what they do, they lack the minimum motivation, but wait for the parents to urge, if the parents do not urge, then the child will always play, do not know the correct way to deal with the problem.
Parents give their children too tight arrangements
Many parents arrange their children's lives too tightly, when the children have completed this task, seamlessly carry out the next work, in this state, children often think that they have busy things, so it is inevitable to take the initiative to reduce efficiency.
Parents should try to give their children more free time, allow children to arrange their own lives, only when the child improves the initiative from the heart, can complete the task at a faster speed, not only save time, but also exercise the child's time management ability.
Children lack the concept of time
Many children are still young, their understanding of time is insufficient, often do not understand how long half an hour is, they may think that the time is very long, so they take the initiative to relax, and even play non-stop, to the end of the task can not be successfully completed.
Parents should take the initiative to guide their children to understand time, improve their awareness of time, so as to further take the initiative to control their own behavior, and avoid being unable to successfully complete the task because of greed, thus losing faith in others.
What impact will a child's lack of time have on the future?
Affects academic performance
In the process of children's learning, there will often be a certain learning task, if the child can not complete their own learning tasks within the specified time, it is likely to cause learning efficiency is too low, can not grasp the content of learning in time, resulting in a decline in academic performance, often affect the child's self-confidence.
Parents try to improve their children's learning efficiency, in the same time, let the children master more knowledge, in order to stand out in the exam, so parents want to make their children's grades better, should try to start from the learning efficiency, so that children have more time to expand their knowledge.
Give a bad impression
When the child promises others something, often others will have expectations for the child, but because the child is not completed within the specified time, the child's behavior will often leave an impression of dishonesty, and in the future, the child will often be pulled into the blacklist and no longer cooperate with it.
Due to the child's blind lack of time management ability, the child does not complete the task in time, which affects the self-reputation. To change this impression, it is necessary to subvert the previous image, and children should start from self-time management and gradually improve their self-skills.
Lack of perseverance makes it difficult to succeed
Many children see that others have easily completed the task, and they are still in the initial stage, they will inevitably take the initiative to give up, due to the lack of perseverance, it is easy to lead to children being looked down upon.
Anything can not be achieved overnight, it is bound to experience a lot of setbacks, if the child gives up early, often can not reach the point of trance, it is difficult to achieve success, it is easy to lose the opportunity to succeed because of their lack of time concept.
To cultivate children's concept of time, parents can start from these aspects
Teach your child about time
Parents should let children understand the time from the details, understand how long the five-minute time is, let the child reasonably control their own behavior according to the time, avoid overestimating the time, reduce the efficiency, and fail to complete the task smoothly.
In the process of parents guiding children to understand time, we must give full patience, many children often like to ask why, in the face of this kind of question, parents should be patient to answer, in this way to stimulate the child's imagination, so that children can soar freely in the self-world.
Parents let go and let the children manage their own time
Many parents habitually manage their children's time, they are worried that the child can not complete the homework, more worried that the child will be late, because the parents help the child manage everything for a long time, resulting in the child habitually when the hand is thrown in the cabinet, they often do not know how to correctly control their time, so parents should learn to let go, let the child manage the time by himself.
In terms of children's learning, parents try to give their children more opportunities to make their children responsible for their own behavior, so parents do not have to worry about their children's failure to complete their homework, have the teacher's punishment, and believe that children will inevitably take the initiative to regulate their own behavior.
Parents give their children the opportunity to arrange freely
In our lives, many parents habitually arrange their children's lives to be full, in this situation, children will inevitably lose the opportunity to manage time, so parents should give their children more free space to arrange, so that children can reasonably control time according to their own needs.
In the process of the child's reasonable arrangement of time, it is bound to hit a wall, so parents should give more patience, do not blindly require the child to do perfectly, as long as the child continues to improve, parents can take the initiative to let go, I believe that the child will naturally arrange everything properly.
The author summarizes
The child's concept of time is insufficient, it is likely that it will not be able to successfully complete the task, so parents should pay attention to help the child establish a correct concept of time, so that the child knows how to actively adjust self-behavior according to the difference of time, improve self-efficiency, so as to complete the task within the specified time and improve self-recognition.
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