Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Women in the midst of feelings, the perception of happiness, are mostly the same. At the same time, after separating from men, the evaluation of men is also similar.
In this way, it is not difficult to see that in the relationship, most men have some of the same common diseases. If women can be familiar with these common diseases of men, then it is not easy to get along with them, it is not easy to worry about it, sad and hurt the liver!
Many women will be very stubborn to think:
Why study what's in a man's mind all day long? Why hollow out one's mind for a man all the time? Isn't it good to please yourself?
I just want to say that women who have such thoughts, if they have not really been hurt, have not really met a man who really wants to love for a long time and a long time.
Otherwise, those "do not consume energy and time for men" arguments, must not exist.
People, only for people or things that are interested, are willing to take time and energy. Especially when you meet a person you love deeply, even if you feel tired sometimes, but if you can get loved and the rest of your life, you will be tired and happy on a worthwhile day.
I once read a saying that if you want to be in love with your beloved man for a long time, you must learn to get along with him with a man's mind.
Deeply believed!
In fact, in the relationship, men have some "common diseases", as long as women use their hearts to understand, get along well, the relationship is long-lasting, it is not a problem:
1: Men are addicted to the "desire to conquer"
In real life, we have no shortage of such phenomena: the more women are good to men, the more active they are to men, and the more men care and are less satisfied.
A good woman who is too sensible will always cultivate a giant baby boy or a scumbag.
The cat likes to eat mice, but it is just willing to enjoy the process of chasing and stopping with the rats, hiding and hiding, bringing it pleasure.
The main reason why men are enthusiastic and active in their love to answer and dismiss women is mostly because "prey that has been conquered or is too easy to be conquered often makes men feel deeply bored..."
So, how do women respond to men's desire to conquer? The method is simple: keep the mystery going!
Some women, once in a relationship with a man, take the man as their whole thing. No secrets, enough to give, always pay...
In the early stage of the relationship, men will be passionate and touched, and they will feel satisfied with the woman's affection and dedication. However, a continuous force without transformation eventually makes men feel tedious and boring
If a woman wants to be around the man she loves and is always in the spotlight, she must learn to keep her own sense of mystery. To arouse the curiosity of the man, but also to occasionally suppress the sense of accomplishment brought about by his desire to conquer.
The game of tom and jerry is more suitable for male and female relationship management!
2: Even if they are separated, they want women to remember their "good"
When you have it, you don't know how to cherish it, and when you lose it, you start to remember it, which is the most common state for men when they face feelings. It is also the biggest reason why their predecessors and currents are stupid and confused.
For men, what they don't get is the best truth, and it is men who want to earn back their frustrated self-esteem.
Some men, in the relationship, will be overconfident and self-sufficient. He thought that the woman in front of him would not leave him no matter what. It wasn't until the woman who had been circling him at that moment had truly left that he suddenly felt what heartache was.
Men, most of them like to be the masters of feelings. He can allow himself to leave, but he will never allow himself to be left.
In particular, those women who have been together, even if there is no emotional relationship, men still hope that those women still have an important place in their hearts.
Men's confidence in their feelings is mostly overestimation of themselves! But often they are only acutely aware of this after being broken up.
So, some men, after being apart for a while, will try to get in touch with women again. When contacted again, once the woman rekindles enthusiasm and initiative, then the man begins to be bland and perfunctory. The purpose is achieved, and the man is relieved!
Therefore, in the face of the reunion between the man who once loved and himself, if the woman wants to continue the relationship, she must remember to "hold her breath"!
3: Men face feelings, are very realistic
For men, falling in love and getting married, it's entirely because the choice of reality determines a very different ending.
Men will fall in love with women who make their hearts or deeply loved, but they will definitely enter into marriage with life helpers.
When faced with survival and life, men will never choose a "burden" to walk the rest of their lives.
A man who can marry a woman at all costs as long as he falls in love is only a prince in a fairy tale.
In real life, a woman's appearance and figure are a man's face. Women's material conditions are a favorable way for men to climb up in the face of life. A woman's spiritual help is an indispensable dependence of a man's soul.
When a woman does not have the appearance, the figure, and does not have the spiritual and material help to men, even if she is gentle and virtuous, men will not choose her.
Unfortunately, some men struggle for a few years, often even the appearance and figure of women, only consider the spiritual and material help, bringing their own life management benefits. It's pathetic, and it's human nature!
Men, in the face of emotional unions, are mostly realistic. It's just that if you love him, you need to constantly improve your value, and your emotional relationship will last forever.
Women should be well aware of men's common problems in the face of feelings, and then "prescribe the right medicine" to make themselves indispensable to men.
Men's 3 common diseases, the third of which is "facing feelings are very realistic", it seems that women need to build themselves into more valuable people to keep feelings, in fact, this way to build themselves, but also really for their own better.
When you really become a very good woman, it is likely that the man in front of you, you will dismiss it! Because you know his reality well, and you know his real purpose of staying by your side. That being the case, the excellent you have the dominance.
Excellent you, you can choose to continue to be with this realistic man, you can also choose to leave him. Because, leaving a man who only looks at reality and doesn't love you is far more important than running yourself well.
A relationship that consumes all your energy, time and money, and when you can't get what you want, know how to let go!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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