Text/Wei Chen
A person can do without anything, but he cannot do without a grateful heart.
The biggest difference between humans and animals is that they have emotions. While emotion can sometimes lead to indecisiveness, it is also a shining point of human nature.
No one can move forward alone without social relations. In our lifetime, we need the help of others to a greater or lesser extent.
It can also be said that the most interesting thing in life is to help each other.
In the process of helping each other, people have established trust and deep friendship, and this feeling brings a beautiful experience that is unmatched by other things.
Therefore, we must remember it after receiving favors from others, and find opportunities to be grateful.
Ancient Man Yun: "The grace of dripping water, when the spring repays." "The contrast between a drop of water and a clear spring is very obvious, but it does not represent matter, but emotion.
Many people think that gratitude is to invite the other person to a meal to express gratitude. In fact, the benefactor does not have to invite him to dinner, and the following four ways of gratitude may be more appropriate.
Pass on the love and carry forward the spirit
One of the best ways to be grateful after being favored is to pass on this love.
As the lyrics say, "As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world." ”
The beauty of the world needs to be built together, and the grateful heart does not need to be only for one person, and creating beauty is the meaning of gratitude.
Love is a spirit, and what it needs is transmission. What makes a person happy is not that he helped someone, but how many meaningful things he did in this life.
The larger the pattern, the more people do not care about personal gains and losses, because they have the world in mind, so they prefer to see the gratitude that they want to see more than "love out and love back".
Do not simply invite the other party to eat a meal, kindness can not be measured by money, but more need is spiritual promotion.
Work hard and make a difference
There is never anything unprovoked in this world, and the person who gives favor to you naturally has his own reasons, but the reason here is more likely to be important.
It's like the relationship between Bó Lè and Maxima.
When a person is in a low point, someone can see your shining point and is willing to believe that you will eventually succeed.
There are only two reasons for others to reach out, one is emotional pain for you, and the other is trust in your ability.
The benefactor that people meet when they are in the trough must be the one who wants you to get out of the trough.
The best gratitude for them is never financial reward, but an affirmation of vision.
In life, no matter what, don't let people who look at themselves disappointed. Working hard and making a difference is the best reward for the benefactor.
Reciprocate by offering help
As we all know, the best way to love someone is never to get along with each other according to your own preferences, but to find each other's preferences.
The same is true for gratitude, if you really want to thank someone, be sure to make the other person feel useful or happy.
Inviting the other person to dinner is the easiest way to express gratitude, but it is also the most insincere way to make the other person feel insincere.
Someone else is not reaching out to eat your meal. More is to appreciate or favor you as a person, please eat will inevitably fall into the cliché, but also to the other party does not want to owe their feelings, as soon as possible to draw a clear relationship.
There are many ways to express gratitude, and "waiting for an opportunity" is a good one.
When there are difficulties in each other's lives, help each other and bring feelings closer.
Don't rush to return human feelings, you have to be useful to be perfect.
A lifetime of gratitude, remember the human feelings
There are always certain things happening in life, some people have the opportunity to be grateful, and some people never have the opportunity to be grateful after being favored.
It is not because this person does not have the ability to be grateful, but more because the benefactor is strong and hardly needs others to help.
In this case, the best gratitude is no longer material gratitude, but emotional recognition.
As the saying goes, "Don't forget the man who digs the well when drafting water." "If there is a kindness that cannot be repaid, then please remember it for the rest of your life and do not forget it.
A good life is often created by a grateful heart, and a grateful heart needs life to nourish it.
When you have a conscience, some things must be kept in mind.
You know, the most expensive thing in this world is human affection, and a meal can never be erased.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip] It is very easy to meet the author.
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.