Sharing a thing with others is a very happy thing, from a psychological point of view, and this is also a way and appeal for emotional release in each of us.
So what is the desire to share? And how can we better use the desire to share in life to make us harmonious and comfortable with others and with life?
01 What is the desire to share
When we have something in our heart, there is a strong desire to share something with someone.
For example, today's work performance exceeded the standard, and the company rewarded cash red envelopes. We can't help but feel the pleasure of sharing this news with friends or family.
It can be understood very popularly as an overflow of emotions or inner emotional desires, which may be most manifested in many cases is a female friend. Because women are born to be more emotional, their emotional appeals may be more abundant, and more often in their hearts, they will need emotional filling. In life, they crave emotional dependence more than men.
02 How to reasonably share your "desire to share"
As the saying goes: "Things change with the situation, people turn with the heart" The same thing, with different people, the result is completely different. And when we choose who to talk to, we also need to be selective, not to say it to everyone.
Colleague Xiaoli said that a few days ago, she shared one of her things with her girlfriend. She thought that the girlfriend who did not say anything would comfort herself and relieve her worries, but to her surprise, the girlfriend only had a faint expression after listening to it, and if there was nothing, she said three words and two words.
Not all flowers in this world bloom in the spring! All people and things need to be seated together, because the choice is always greater than the effort!
03 The most critical response to the "desire to share"
One day, when I was tired of walking, I sat down on the steps on the edge of the square and rested for a while. Shortly after sitting down, a cute little girl sat down with her parents in a chair not far away. The little girl told her parents about her performance at school that day with two cute little braids, and the teacher praised herself! At this time, she also wanted to get a reward from her parents and wanted to buy a gift that she liked. Only to see the mother with a serious face said to the child, to learn to be modest... But the father on the side smiled and said: "The child should be more encouraged, and more spiritually to meet her, so that she can grow up healthily, and she will be more active in learning in the future", at this time, the little girl on the side happily clapped her hands and hugged her father, and the family happily went away.
In fact, the adult world needs more support and encouragement, perhaps in the other party's affirmative eyes, we will suddenly change our mentality; in a warm sentence, the mood is instantly open!
Send people roses, leave the afterscent in your hands! Everyone tries to share their happiness with the people around them! Some people say that in the adult world, you can only be sad and happy! But not everything can be crossed. It is necessary to have the ability to moderately and selectively combine reality to make your life comfortable.
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Spanish: Love words, love music, share emotional beauty with you every day, let your troubles disappear with words, willing to grow with everyone, welcome to pay attention to Oh!