In the emotional world, because I like it, otherwise how can I meet that year, when I see that person, I think it is the person who will accompany me for a lifetime, and suddenly there are many pictures in my mind that have not appeared, and I think that life is very happy, but why can't the people I like always go to the end? Because I feel that that feeling is only a temporary impulse, or feel that that day is not so good, so I will feel that the long pain is not as good as the short pain, directly and quickly reject the feelings, is not because I can't bear it will want to give my love a future that may feel some good, so that this love can always live in the memory, rather than the current life, want to leave a good future for yourself, but forget, what you originally wanted, after we grow up, we want to go back to the past, Go back to the past and tell yourself, what exactly do you want, what kind of life you want, everything don't have to be too anxious, don't worry too much, the future stability really belongs to you, women treat you with these three attitudes, don't chase anymore, she doesn't love you at all!
In front of outsiders, dare not admit your relationship with him
Sometimes men will feel very strange, obviously with each other for a long time, feel that each other are in love, but the woman will not admit that she is her boyfriend in front of everyone. This is a bit irritating. In fact, a man should think about it when he calms down and thinks about whether a woman is superficially coping with you when she is with you, or that he does not invest in real feelings when he is with you. Because loving someone requires acknowledging each other, and even more needing to recognize each other. The name of this thing has been together for a long time, it is not optional, she is an affirmation of the other party, and she also expresses her willingness to be with the other party. If a man has been with a woman for a long time and the other person refuses to admit that you are talking about her boyfriend outside, then there is no doubt that the woman does not love you at all. Men should think about it, either to pursue the girl they love in another way, or to say goodbye to him and stop wasting time.
For her, you are dispensable
Many men have experienced such feelings, including the story of the reader at the beginning, and there is also such an element. When a man is truly in love with a woman, he will always think of giving everything for her, making her happy, and moving her. At this time, if a woman loves you, she will definitely give you corresponding feedback and will not let your heart be empty. A woman who doesn't love you, then it doesn't matter if you don't have you. No matter how much you do for her, she knows it, but it just doesn't matter, because you are just a dispensable character in her heart. When a man plays a dispensable role in a woman's heart, the woman's attitude is often hot and cold, always giving you hope, and then making you despair, and men will always have a feeling of "thanklessness" in the end. At this time, the man should not hold on to those so-called hopes, because she does not love you, and you do not have to continue to waste feelings.
Come and go to you
There are always such women in life, when they need you, they will show you the initiative to contact you, and when they don't need you, they kick away and call you to wave away. Such a woman doesn't love you, and the reason why she doesn't reject you outright is because you're still useful to her. In the relationship, both men and women, even if they like a person again, they must have dignity, if she really feels for you, she will not call you so much, euphemistically call friends, directly call "spare tire".
Emotional message: In the process of men pursuing women, if women have one of them for you, it means that women are not interested in you, don't be stupid to pay. To know that what you do will be meaningless, love needs to be happy with each other, no matter how much love is touched, she will be meaningless, in fact, love sometimes does not need to be deliberate, when you are good enough, strong enough words will come, what do you think?