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The famous educator Tao Xingzhi said:
"We must liberate children's minds, hands, feet, space, and time, so that they can fully enjoy a free life and a real education from a free life."
Deeply.
Life is education, and the indoctrination of knowledge is not limited to the campus and classroom. If you want your child to grow up, be sure to take him to these 5 places.
01
Go to the fields and experience the hardships of farming in the labor.
I often hear jokes that children who learn well recognize wheat as shallots, do not know that carrots grow in the soil, and think that peanuts are hanging on trees...
In fact, this can not blame children, most of them grew up in reinforced concrete, fields and farming, is indeed too far away and strange existence.
So much so that the mouth carries "When the day of hoeing is noon, the sweat drops fall into the soil." Who knows that the chinese food on the plate is hard", but the mind must understand the true meaning of this poem.
So, how to let children experience the difficulty of labor?
Huo Qigang and Guo Jingjing gave the answer.
They took their 6-year-old son Huo Zhongxi to the farmland to experience planting seedlings, a move that won countless netizens' praise. In response, Huo Qigang responded on Weibo:
"Today's children grow up in a happy era, not hungry, picky eating and waste have become habits, they need to know where food comes from, learn to cherish, learn to be content!" 」
Pictured: From Huo Qigang's Weibo
I have to say that such parents are very far-sighted.
"Zhu Zi Jia Xun" Yun: "A porridge and a meal, when thinking is not easy to come from; half a silk and half a wisp, constant thinking and material strength are difficult." ”
Take the children to the field to see how the farmer's uncle sows seeds, fertilizes, removes insects, irrigates, loosens the soil, harvests, and of course, allows the children to participate in it and do some work within their reach.
I believe that the real teaching on the spot can make the children better understand the difficulty and hardship of farming under the experience of withstanding the scorching sun, muddy mud and sweating.
02
Go to the gymnasium and perfect personality education in the competition.
On the Olympic Hill, a Greek sports mecca, the phrase is inscribed: "Do you want to get healthy?" Just go for a run. Do you want to get smart? Just go for a run. ”
Nowadays, fun electronic products and heavy schoolwork burdens occupy most of children's time, so that many people have become "little fat mounds" or "bean sprouts" because of insufficient exercise.
Therefore, it is necessary to take the growing and developing children to the gymnasium to do sports.
Not only can it exercise, strengthen the body, promote brain development, but more importantly, it can also hone the will and enhance self-confidence.
Educator Cai Yuanpei believes that complete personality, the first is in sports.
Studies have shown that physical exercise can not only help children promote development, but also allow children to obtain higher "physical self-esteem", and people with this trait are far more likely to achieve academic and career success than ordinary people.
Think about it, all kinds of sports and competitions in the stadium reflect life: in order to achieve results and win games, we must prepare in advance, go all out in the process, and cooperate with the team members under the premise of abiding by the rules and format, and more importantly, to have a "friendship first, competition second" mentality.
In the small venue, in a short period of time, the highs and lows, the good times and setbacks experienced by the children are actually condensed life conditions.
03
Go to the library and fall in love with reading in the smell of books.
Yang Hongying, a writer of children's literature, said: "The library is a good place, a place that benefits people for life. Don't let the kids sit in the classroom and take them to the library! They will thank this man for the rest of their lives who took them into the library. ”
Indeed it is.
Someone once did a study of 35 big names in various fields around the world and found that their childhood has two common characteristics: one is a good parent-child relationship with their parents; the other is that they are often taken to the library by their parents to cultivate an interest in reading.
Reading is an important way for children to understand the world, and it is also the main channel for understanding society and the natural world. The library is the first stop to help them develop their reading interest and reading habits.
First of all, the library is an exclusive space, which only has books, no electronic products, toys and small friends who laugh and play, away from temptation, children in a specific environment, can carry out ritual reading;
Second, the library is a quiet space, everyone holds a book and reads quietly, this good reading atmosphere can invisibly drive the active children to quiet down and put their concentration on the books;
Third, there are many kinds of books in the library, which can satisfy children's curiosity and desire to explore, so that they can immerse themselves in it, and they can always choose their favorite books.
Fourth, libraries are also suitable for parent-child reading. If parents usually have little time to accompany their children, then they may wish to go to the library, one big and one small two people, choose books together, read books, and then talk about the stories in the books, say their own feelings after reading, not only harvest knowledge, but also exchange parent-child feelings, killing two birds with one stone. Of course, the discussion should be quiet and not destroy the environment.
04
Go to the university campus, feel the campus atmosphere, and set reading goals.
Maybe these questions are the question marks in every child's head:
What is reading for?
What kind of person will I be in the future?
Where do I go and what preparations do I have to do before I become an adult?
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At that time, the child was still a small grass, young and ignorant, and as parents, we had the obligation to tell them that the answers to these questions could be found on the university campus.
Campus of Tsinghua University
Because there is a passage on the Internet that says: "The beautiful campus scenery, the strong learning atmosphere, and the rich club activities in the university can not only bring visual enjoyment to children, but also bring spiritual touch to children." ”
Yes, if you want your child to gain insight, take him to visit places of interest;
If you want to cultivate your child's sentiments, then take ta to the rivers and mountains of the motherland;
But if you want your child to feel the campus atmosphere and set the goal of reading, then the university campus is the best choice.
Here, there is erudition, hard work, perseverance, freedom, bravery, and vitality, which is the place where everyone has arrived after ten years of hard study, the harbor for building dreams, and the place of learning before stepping into society.
Parents can take their children on a tour while introducing them to the characteristics of the school and alumni achievements. Inspires ta's yearning for the sacred university life of freedom.
05
Go to the place where your parents work and learn about the social value of your family members.
There was a very popular primary school student essay on the Internet, the title was "My mother is a useless middle-aged woman.".
In the essay, the child said that his mother "shouts tired every day" and "doesn't know anything":
"Xiao qing's mother can drive, she (referring to her own mother) can't; Xiao Lin's mother will accompany Xiao Lin to play table tennis, she can't; Xiao Yu's mother can draw; Yao Yao's mother makes clothes that look good." I was envious of dying, but she wouldn't do anything. ”
In just a short paragraph, he exhausted the child's dislike for his mother.
We do not care about the truth, falsity and beginning and end of the matter, but it is certain that children lack a comprehensive and objective understanding of their parents.
Most likely, we are bitterly chanting:
I work very hard, you have to be sensible;
I have suffered a loss of no culture, and I will not know anything, so you have to study hard...
But in the eyes of the child, this is nothing more than a meaningless nagging.
So, if conditions permit, take your kids on a tour of where we work.
Here, children can get a rough idea of what we are doing, what pressures we are under to cover the family's expenses, and how much effort we have made to realize our social value. Wait a minute.
Love is synonymous with "seeing."
Letting children "see" us is not only conducive to the benign development of parent-child relationship, but also conducive to enriching their experience and stimulating their empathy.
06
A writer once said:
"It is better to let the child walk in nature for a day in a hundred aesthetic lessons; to teach a hundred hours of architectural design, it is better to let the student touch a few ancient cities; to talk about the skills of literary writing a hundred times, it is better to let him dirty his pants in the market." 」
Practice produces true knowledge, and life is education.
In order for children to see, learn, do, experience, and wake up, take them to these 5 places for a walk.
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