In the eyes of many people today, the most important point in finding a partner is to look at the right eye, which is what many young people often say.
The boy is handsome and handsome, the girl is beautiful and generous, such a combination is a pair made in heaven and earth, and it is also the most suitable look in people's eyes.
However, in the era of our fathers, the appearance of mom and dad seemed to be difficult to get right, either beautiful women with beasts, or handsome men standing next to an "ugly girl".
Didn't their love at that time pay no attention to appearance at all?
In this old photo of her parents posted by netizens, although her father does not look like a talent, he is also decent, but the mother around her makes it difficult for her to accept.
I saw that my mother was wearing the same blue pants as my father, the same white shirt, and even the same hairstyle, just a left point, a right point.
Is this the legendary couple outfit?
The netizen asked without breaking down: Dad, are you interested in your mother's money?
After all, this photo does not look like a couple, but like a pair of brothers, no wonder the child can not calm down.
Another netizen soon posted a photo of his parents when they were young, and had to say that it was another pair of brothers.
If it were not for the netizens who specifically stated that the one on the right is the mother, it is estimated that many people will really recognize his mother as a boy, because it is really heroic.
What is more important to love in the age of parents?
1. Character
In the past era, people's material requirements were far less high than they are now, and everyone was poor and white, but this did not affect the feelings between boys and girls.
In their view, character is the most important, and a kind and filial person is far more attractive than a person with a net worth of tens of thousands.
Therefore, those who are not good-looking must have their shining points, they often win internally, even if the appearance is not satisfactory, but they can still harvest true love.
2, In charge
In the previous era, most people were very simple, did not dress themselves with beautiful clothes and expensive cosmetics, and often showed their truest side.
In such a big environment, the appearance is naturally less important, in contrast, everyone pays more attention to the other party's responsibility and whether they have a sense of responsibility for the family.
After all, people's lives are very long, and no matter how good the skin bag is, it will age. And a person with a sense of responsibility will inevitably be a person who cares for the family, and naturally is a person worthy of entrusting for life.
How should parents guide their children to establish a correct view of love?
1. Teach by example
Parents are the mirror of the child, but also the child's role model, the family atmosphere of the child's growth, the emotional situation between the parents, will have a great impact on the child invisibly.
A happy child, their parents must be loving.
In the life of parents, children can know that true love has nothing to do with material things, but respects each other as guests, understands each other, and respects each other, so that love can go long.
2. Pay attention to the inside
Nowadays, many young people have high requirements for each other's appearance when looking for a partner.
This may be for the sake of the next generation, but if you pay too much attention to a person's appearance, it is easy to ignore their inner.
But compared to the outside, the inside is the most important.
Therefore, parents should let their children know what kind of love is reliable and worth fighting for, and must not be blinded by the outside, thus missing out on true happiness.