Some people say that middle age is a door, divided into two stages of life.
In the previous life, rushing and busyness were the main themes of life, and in the second half of life, trade-offs and advances and retreats became important topics.
After middle age, it is not everything that is known, but that it is clear and white. Those past experiences, stories, or wealth, all depend on whether you know how to precipitate.
These life tips, I hope to inspire you.
Never give up on learning
Learning here refers to two aspects.
On the one hand, we must continue to polish our own skills.
No matter what age people are, they have to face the fact that the elimination zone is expanding wildly, and there is no comfort in the comfort zone. Self-renewal is always the best investment.
On the other hand, read more books. Only by absorbing multi-dimensional knowledge can we grasp the underlying logic of society and life. Taking a step back, the pleasure that reading itself can bring us is enough.
Don't be a prisoner of desire
Human desire is a very strange thing.
When you were a child, a few cents of soda could make you happy. Later, I slowly had a lot, but I became more and more unsatisfied.
Of course, the pursuit of moderation is understandable, but people are prone to greed. There is no moderation in eating, drinking, and pleasure, and the red light is lit up morning and evening on the physical examination report; only with fame and fortune in the heart, people live into machines that are out of control at any time; feelings do not know self-discipline, and marriage becomes a dangerous building.
Remember, don't take it easy to enjoy what you can't afford.
A person who can control himself is precisely the freest.
Establish inner order
Loss of control and anxiety are the key words that every middle-aged person cannot avoid.
How much income, the level of the position, the grade of the child, everything is stirring our nerves. Once the heart is out of balance, the days are only left with dissatisfaction and grievances.
Learn to put your attention on others and receive it from yourself.
Because of the effort, the effect follows the fate.
No matter how good other people's lives are, after all, they are other people's. Settling the heart well is the greatest consummation of life.
Spend more time with your family
When people are in their early twenties, they always feel that time is very slow and life is very long.
But in middle age, you will find that some times are just a blink of an eye.
Yesterday, the little doll that pestered you to shout "Mommy and Daddy" grew into a little adult; the parents who remembered to be omnipotent, did not know when to start, and were surrounded by bottles and cans of medicine.
Time is the most merciless, people reach middle age, stop ignoring parents and children.
On the way to the child's growth, his negligence and slackness are his sighs when he grows up. On the way for our parents to grow old, their bad temper and indifference to them will become regrets for the rest of our lives.
While everything is still too late, accompany and love hard.
Love yourself
Last but not least, love yourself.
Middle age is an age that is always holding an umbrella for others, busy all day, taking care of the family, but alone forgetting whether they are tired or not, whether it hurts or not.
Taking care of your body and living your own life is the most important thing for middle-aged people.
Middle age is the middle point of life, from a person to a home, less than three points of impetuousness, more than five points of quiet and determined.
Along the way, the world has given us a lot and sharpened us a lot.
The gifts of the years, the good and the bad are all received according to the order, and it is the maturity of people to middle age.
Afraid of what time is merciless, sigh what years are leisurely.
You'll have a better view ahead of you, even more so.
Source: Insights
Editor-in-Charge: Hao Duo
Editor: Chen Weiping Chen Jingchao