In the red dust.
Meeting is a wonderful thing.
In the cognition of many people, there will be such a concept: if each other, not because of fate, how can there be a chance to meet and hold hands? A word of fate, let countless couples feel relieved.
Two people have a relationship, there is a possibility of encountering, and successfully hold hands in the water.
As everyone knows, love or no love, how can it not be a premeditation?
Psychologically, on the way to growth, everyone will form a unique personality trait and develop their own way of behaving. These qualities give everyone a unique magnetic field and exude attraction in interpersonal communication.
When encountering people with similar magnetic fields, they will feel very happy with each other under the influence of attraction.
If the attraction is strong enough, the two people will also have the willingness to continue to associate. In the following time, the two sides will involuntarily move closer, until one day, they become lovers in pity for each other.
01
True love is mutual attraction.
A person who loves you will not be able to resist rushing to you.
For people with consistent magnetic fields, it only takes one chance to meet.
The feelings between the two sides can get the possibility of rapid heating up. From the beginning of the two people to see each other very happy, it is easy to have the idea of pity for each other, and the desire to stay together for the rest of their lives.
But everyone should understand that true love is two people running toward each other.
If a person does not love you, even if you do everything in your power, you will not be able to enter the other person's heart.
Similarly, even if someone moves closer to you, if they don't show signs of appreciation for you, purely to satisfy some aspect of themselves, it's clear that such a move closer is not really love.
In the world of love, there are sincere and beautiful, and there will also be hypocrisy.
There are even people who approach the other side just to pass the boring time. Once there is no freshness in the process of getting along, these people will find various reasons to leave, and then leave without looking back.
If you meet such a person, what will be the result?
You decide that the other person is your emotional destination, and that person is always ready to leave you. Such a mode of getting along, not only is there no consummation to speak of, but also makes people lose their fantasies about love in the scars.
02
If you don't love you, you will be so close.
Once upon a time, we all believed in fate.
Think that they have a relationship with each other, and once they meet, they can complete love in the water.
In fact, only those who appreciate each other can understand and tolerate the rest of their lives, and successfully pass unexpected tests when necessary. And such a two-sided is the attraction of the magnetic field, and it can be regarded as true love.
Some people approach you if never appreciate you.
Everyone should maintain a vigilant attitude and not easily fall in love.
Because it is very likely that the other party is only approaching you for personal gain. Once the other party, their own needs are met, feel that you have no use value, will not continue to cherish you.
In the age of love, how should we distinguish the authenticity of fate?
You may wish to grasp the details of the chat and see through the real psychology of the other party. For example, a person chatting with you, starting with these "topics", is often not because they love you. Don't think that you have met the other half of your life, in fact, these people do not love you.
03
It's been boring lately.
Have you met such people around you?
When he is proud of his life, he often rarely thinks of you, only enjoys his interpersonal relationships, and ignores your feelings.
Even if you initiate contact this person, he will choose to perfunctory you.
However, when this person is lonely and bored, he will suddenly contact you.
Maybe we'll be grateful and even flattered. However, when everyone calms down and combs through each other's relationship, it is easy to realize that the other party took the initiative to approach you, not because they cared.
Because of the other party, there is a need to pass the time.
Therefore, he will think of you temporarily, in other words, in fact, this person is entertaining you.
In the world of fate, everyone should not be affected by the temporary attention, thinking that this is their own love. In fact, in the other person's heart, never think so.
If you move your feelings first, you will become very passive in the next time.
04
I love it so much.
Everyone will have a need for material things.
For an independent person, when he likes an item, he usually relies on his own efforts to win.
If you want a man and a woman to get along, a person shows you that he likes something, what does this mean? In fact, it is easy for friends to think that this person is just changing ways and asking for it from you.
In fact, true love is often given with effort.
Falling in love with someone from the bottom of your heart, the most important thing everyone wants to do is usually not to ask for anything from the other person.
We will seize the opportunity to get along, give each other warm protection, and meet the needs of our loved ones when necessary. In this way, everyone strives to fulfill the love they want.
If a person, in the process of getting along, from time to time reveals the consciousness of taking.
Friends should understand the fact that in the hearts of the other party, they do not regard you as a real love object, but just want to obtain certain benefits through you.
05
Can you help me?
The more you care, the more cautious you are.
If a person loves you, it will not cause you any trouble.
Because you have a place in your heart, this person only hopes that in the passage of time, he can work hard to complete you, make your situation better, and make your heart less troublesome.
And that person, who only cares about himself, will continue to trouble others and relieve his worries.
In everyone's cognition, love is romantic and beautiful.
None of us want to let our feelings be dusted. If one day, when you meet the person you like, the most important thing everyone wants to do is to give up everything and fulfill each other's fate.
In the witness of time, you can write stories about each other with your loved ones.
If someone, when chatting with you, always asks you to help him, we must have this realization, the other party is not because they love you, will approach you, perhaps just to ask you for help, will maintain a relationship with you.
Fate, let people look forward to.
But I have to admit that sometimes love also wears a mask.
A person of the opposite sex approaching you will even break some of the bottom line of getting along, so between two people, is it love? Sometimes, you need to be cautious in order to see through the essence of this fate.
If someone approaches you because they are bored, approach you for the sake of taking, and ask you for help and please you, we must know that this is not love, but just a use of relationship.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.