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In the world of feelings, in fact, relationships that start too quickly often do not go to the end.
A good relationship is always slow. In love, if you pour everything in at the beginning, it is easy to get hurt.
Love is not as beautiful as imagined, there will always be all kinds of problems, a brain to pay, is the most vulnerable to injury.
When you get used to the presence of the other person, the other person suddenly leaves, and the heart will collapse.
Therefore, the way to make a person inseparable from you is to slow down the rhythm and get along slowly, not to please, but to delay the satisfaction of the other party, so that the other party can slowly get used to you and cannot do without you.
Slow down the rhythm of your feelings and stay steady
In fact, feelings are something that cannot be rushed, and they are anxious to have it at the beginning, and often they can't get anything in the end.
Love is always gradual, and you have to get along slowly to understand each other.
Going too fast in love is not a good thing, and before you have time to enjoy it, it may be gone, which will put you at a disadvantage in the relationship.
If you want the other party to care about you, you must learn to hide your own heart, expose your heart too quickly, and often be pinched by the other party.
In the feelings, we must always maintain our own rhythm, slowly advance, only mutual understanding, in order to recognize each other's intentions.
The more bland you behave, the more the other party may not be able to understand your thoughts, and the more energy will be spent to understand you and get your heart.
Delay meeting the other person and let the other person pay attention to you first
Feelings are actually a process of equal strength, and if you know how to grasp the measure, you can grasp the psychology of the other party.
At the beginning, you will dig your heart and lungs, blindly pay, and the other party will not cherish it.
Many times, the more you do, the less you care about the other person.
Love that is too easy to get will not be valued. Often many times, your efforts just move yourself.
Love this thing requires skill, don't just think about giving, you must know how to exude your own charm to attract each other, feelings rely on common attraction.
If you want to be a person who can't do without you, you must first make yourself a person worthy of being loved, and learn to love yourself.
Keep each other's rhythm and let the other person can't do without you
In fact, regardless of men and women, the most feared thing is habit.
When a person is used to your existence, there is no way to leave you, because he has long been accustomed to having your life, and you become an indispensable part of his life.
Love is a process of mutual habituation, maintaining the rhythm and state between each other, enjoying the process of two people getting along, which will make each other enjoy this state, and slowly will like this feeling.
When a person already likes this state, naturally they will get along with each other very happily, at least not want to leave, but cherish each other.
summary:
Feelings actually want to understand, as long as you use your heart to operate, keep a distance appropriately, don't pay anything.
Love is better maintained in the right way.
At any time, don't be too humble, it will only make yourself cheap.
Therefore, love still has to know how to grasp, each other will go better, there is no good feelings for no reason in this world, only two people who know how to cherish and maintain each other.