Whether it is better to have children early or later has always been a very controversial topic.
Let's first look at the personal feelings of these people who have come here.
@ Angie gives birth to a child early, goes out to be a sibling or sister, has a child late, and goes out may be a grandchild.
@Qingkong I was also hesitant to have children so early. But considering that while her husband and herself are still young and in good health, work and baby can be grasped with both hands. Even if the work is too busy, both parents have the energy to help.
@ Yuzu It is best to have a child early, take a child in your twenties, your energy is also allowed, and you can also be cruel to the child, and what is wrong can be managed immediately. If you take a child after you are older, on the one hand, people are very tired, on the other hand, they are also cruel to their children, and over time they will get used to bear children, and may even ruin the child's life because of coddling.
@ Qinghuan Within the scope of physical health allows, the later the child is born, the better, whether it is family or economic, most young parents are not ready to raise children, on the one hand, it will take up energy and time, on the other hand, the career that is in the rising period will also be affected.
@ Feike Personally, I think it is better to have a child later, of course, in the case of physical condition, it is best to be after the age of 28. Because at this time the family already has some economic foundation. At the same time, the personalities of the husband and wife are more mature and can better raise children.
@ Delicate Snail I was 20 years old pregnant, 21 years old to give birth to a baby, and now the child is two years old, completely can not see that I have become a mother, and eighteen or nineteen years old girl is almost the same. I myself learned to dance, and I didn't grow meat after I got pregnant and gave birth, and my figure recovered very quickly. Now the in-laws and parents are also young, no pressure, and often help me with children, so that I can be much more relaxed, and I can also live a two-person world with my husband, happy as if it is still the life when I am in love.
@ It's like rich and mature people can be born early. If you don't have money, you have to have children later, both mature and immature. If a child is born in a poorer and more loveless environment, it is better to let him come into this world later.
@ Junjie From the perspective of career, it is good to have a child early, on the one hand, there is no delay, even if the mother is delayed for two or three years, there is a possibility of returning to the workplace. On the other hand, having a baby in the family is the biggest motivation for the mother to work hard after giving birth, and the child also brings infinite joy to life. And the process of raising a baby is also very exercise, making people more responsible and stronger.
In fact, after watching the personal experience of these mothers, different stages of giving birth to children have different feelings and experiences, and there is no absolute say which is good or which is not good.
Of course, having children early and having children later, both physically and professionally, does have some impact.
From a medical point of view, the best age for a woman to have children is between 20-34 years old. Women in this age group have fully matured their physiological conditions, the quality of their eggs is high, their hormone levels are relatively stable, and the risk of complications after pregnancy is relatively low.
Moreover, the physical fitness of the mother who gave birth to the child during this period is also better, the birth is safer, and the postpartum recovery is also fast. In terms of bringing up children, you may also have more energy.
But the disadvantage is that this time is also the time when most women fight for their careers, and their careers may have just started, but you may have to get pregnant and have children within two or three years, which will definitely have some impact on your career.
There is also the fact that most women at this age may still be a child themselves, not so mature in psychology, facing a baby who cries all day, and can collapse in an instant.
Mothers who have children late, especially after the age of 35, are already elderly mothers, and both mothers and babies will face some greater risks.
But this situation is not absolute, many modern women even if they have passed the age of 35, the physical fitness is still relatively good, and at this time the mother is more mature in both psychological and economic aspects, can give children better educational conditions.
Therefore, whether it is better to be born late or early, no life can be defined as "correct", only the one who suits themselves is the best.
As long as you really like children, want a child, but also have the ability, have a certain economic foundation to provide a stable living environment for children, whenever you want children is good.