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We always say that women should be cautious when getting married, because to find a suitable family, always tell women that their future in-laws are very important, but they do not know that men also need to look at the woman's family when they get married.
Because the family is the environment in which a person grows up, his own family is very important to each of us, after all, the family has shaped our person and personality, so what kind of family will cultivate what kind of person.
Smart men will look at each other's families when choosing their marriage partners, if they feel that the family is not good, then men will not continue, only stupid men will be obsessed, obsessed with their love
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What kind of family a woman comes out of, what kind of personality and temperament will be carried, for men, marriage is not a child's play, they need to find a suitable partner and form a new family with themselves.
Therefore, if smart men meet women from the following three families, they will refuse to marry them, because they know that if they are together, they will probably not be too happy, and only stupid men will be desperate to be obsessed.
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Pampered, not at all understanding of others
A good family is indeed very enviable, but no matter how good the family is, it is useless to have a good character, as the saying goes, the greatest wealth of a person in this life is not to have a huge property but to have a good and admirable character.
Miss Qianjin, who has a good family, does not understand the human condition and has been pampered and habitually raised since childhood, and she cannot withstand a woman who is poor but has a good character and understands the sophistication and understanding of people.
Therefore, if a smart man encounters a mixed princess who has a strange temper, has been spoiled since childhood, and does not understand at all, they probably will not marry such a woman, only stupid men will.
Spending money is lavish, and I don't know how to cherish it
There is a saying that you have to cherish what you have now, because he is what you have with your efforts, and all happiness and ease are not easy to come by, because it is what we have worked hard with sweat, so we must know how to cherish.
People who don't know how to cherish the hard work of others are not worthy of pity, nor are they worthy of deep friendship, so for those women who spend a lot of money, although they are not their own money, they are still wanton, probably few people will like it.
Smart men don't marry women who spend a lot of money and don't know how to cherish, because they know that sooner or later their hard work will be squandered by such women.
Families with poor family conditions and are not yet motivated
There is also a type of family, smart men will not choose, that is, the kind of pretentious family, obviously the family is very difficult and poor conditions, but still do not know how to work hard, just want to find a rich second generation to climb the family.
It is understandable that the poor family is poor, but the poor family has more reason to work hard to make money, in this world none of us can rely on, the only thing we can rely on is ourselves.
For such a family, if you choose to marry their daughter, then your life will be more and more difficult in the future, and the daughter from this family will probably not be too motivated.
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There is a saying on the Internet that boys should protect themselves when they go out, although it is a bit funny, but boys sometimes go out to learn to be reasonable and have a clear mind.
Smart men will choose a suitable girlfriend for themselves, they will not marry women from these three families, and only stupid men will be obsessed.