There is a popular saying on the Internet: Dad takes the baby, just live.
In fact, this sentence refers to an educational concept, a different kind of education method that Dad is used to adopting than Mom.
Some people are very protective of their children, and a little danger will be blocked in front of the child, creating a comfortable growth space for the child.
Some people are more laissez-faire to children, no matter how tossed, as long as there is no substantial danger, let the children feel more about the different environment, more conducive to the growth of children.
These are two different parenting concepts.
A video I saw today is a typical example of the latter parenting concept.
The video was taken by the child's mother, in which a young man and a two-year-old child are standing by the railing of the playground watching others play games.
This ride is a bit special, it is a torrent that young people love to play.
Anyone who has played this project knows that the project was very prosaic at the beginning, that is, sitting on a small boat, the boat slowly rose along the current, and as the boat got higher and higher, the fun of the game became closer and closer.
When the boat reaches the highest point, it will slide down violently, and the space difference makes the boat stir up the current, forming a waterfall in front of the boat, which is very exciting.
The man and the child were standing in front of the railing watching others play the project, and as the boat rose higher and higher, the boat was about to rush down, and the man foreshadowed the danger.
He knew that standing here would be splashed by boats that would wet their clothes.
Normally, at this time, he should leave with the child in his arms and flee to a place where the water is not reached.
However, he did not do this, but left the two-year-old baby and ran away!
Not surprisingly, the child was splashed by the current stirred up by the boat, and his face was not spared. The first time the child faced such a scene, he was scared and cried "wow wow". I looked back and found that my dad was gone!
I had to cry and turn around to find my mother, and my mother did not choose to protect the child for the first time, she was holding her mobile phone to take a video! This scene is recorded in its entirety.
The child's father laughed incessantly as if he had a prank on the side.
Netizens have complained: this daddy pit baby bar! What a strength pit baby!
Others say: What is a great mother? If the mother is there, she will definitely help the child to block the rain at the first time.
Netizens have replied: the child's mother is busy shooting videos! A pair of pit doll parents.
There are also netizens who hold different opinions, she said: I think there is nothing, this kind of thing will not really be hurt, this is just a part of life. Don't you think it's interesting to watch later? And as a child, he will be particularly impressed by this kind of thing.
What this netizen means is that this matter can give the child a long memory, and it will not really be hurt, and there is no need to make a fuss.
That's the difference between parenting.
Some people think: children are still young, need careful care, in case of getting wet with water and getting sick and catching a cold, what should I do?
Some people think that children do not have the squeamishness we think, and it is more beneficial for them to feel something different, which is more conducive to his growth.
The author believes that there is no absolute right or wrong in these two concepts, and it depends on which kind of education method is suitable for their children.
If the child is not in good health, she needs to be carefully cared for, and when she grows up, it is too late to see the world when her resistance is good, after all, healthy growth is the first.
If the child is in good health, it does not matter, let the child know more from an early age, let her know the diversity of the world, and it is good for his cognition and healthy growth.