Each child has its own unique personality, some children do wrong things and have not asked clearly to cry loudly, do not explain what they have done wrong, they know to cry, many mothers are angry to helpless, but also some children are different, emotions come fast, go fast, know where they are wrong, and apologize, rarely unreasonable trouble.
Why is the same child, the gap so large? My girlfriend, who was a teacher in kindergarten, told me about Dada, a 5-year-old student in her class, who was asked by the teacher, "What about your handmade picture book?" Why didn't you take it out? Dada stood up in a panic, did not say a word and cried loudly, in fact, the teacher did not have the intention of blaming, but Dada kept crying, and finally annoyed the teacher, had to let the assistant teacher lead Dada aside to coax, the teacher also continued to give lessons to other students.
On the contrary, a child performed very well, Xiaozhuangzhuang's handmade picture book forgot to bring, the teacher asked him the same, Zhuangzhuang stood up very steadily, and said to the teacher: "Sorry, I was wrong, I forgot this matter, tomorrow is guaranteed to bring" A simple dialogue, the teacher smiled and let Zhuangzhuang sit down, told the child to remember to bring it tomorrow, in this class, Dada because of crying can not go to class, and Zhuangzhuang is still very serious about listening to the class, and did not delay learning at all.
Compared with two children, the same thing, one is not in a hurry, can have a strong self-awareness, one is not even good at their own emotional management, do the wrong thing only know that crying is not OK.
Generally speaking, the child's brain is developing at the age of 2, this time is very suitable for training children's emotional control, improve the child's self-awareness of the critical period, at this time parents should pay attention to the child's temperament, even if the adjustment of teaching this matter is inappropriate, then the child has a certain "self-control", and gradually can develop into a strong self-awareness of the person.
The child is like a blank piece of paper, what you teach her, she may be what she is, the stronger the child's control over emotions, then even in the future, even if it is in the society, it will maintain a healthy and happy, carefree mood, calmly face everything and solve.
Parents can also accompany their children to read some children's books, such as this "10 children's reverse quotient training picture book" is very suitable for children to read, to help children learn the "self-awareness" related education as soon as possible
The content of this set of books are some daily scenes, are 2-8 years old children usually common scenes, when children usually can not control their emotions, can not accurately perceive the inappropriate behavior of the self, look at these picture books, you can grasp the correct practices.
This set of books has a total of 10 volumes, which are rich in content, children are not tired of watching, and can simulate exercises from children's emotional management to learning attitudes, encounter setbacks, etc., so as to improve children's self-awareness and tap children's potential, so that children can no longer only cry their noses.
If your child is self-aware and emotionally controlled from an early age, then the child will be more successful when he grows up, and everything will be calmly solved, and interested parents can prepare a set for their children.