Fate, with the magic of attraction.
If two people have a relationship, once they meet, they can't help but get closer.
If the spark of love is rubbed out between each other, the two sides will also make mutual rushing behavior under the supervision of the subconscious. I only hope that, under the witness of time, the fate of two people will be fulfilled.
In the red dust, it is a rare thing to meet.
Many people who attach importance to feelings will treat every encounter with an attitude of cherishing fate.
From the perspective of girls, they seem to be born for love.
At the inflection point of life, when meeting the boy of their choice, many women will do their best to complete the love they want under the drive of love, thinking that they can grasp the happiness of the rest of their lives.
As everyone knows, in the world of emotions, dependent origins and falls are a normal state. If you don't work hard, you can grasp each other's fate, or if you try your best, you will achieve what you want.
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In love, accompanied by running-in.
The beginning of fate, the encounter is beautiful.
Two people talk very happily, involuntarily, will stare at each other's advantages.
Especially for the opposite sex, in the process of mutual appreciation, it is easy for both parties to have feelings of admiration. At the same time, the fate between each other will also usher in the opportunity of sublimation.
If you fall in love, can you always get along happily?
There is such an old saying that may help everyone to better understand love.
A momentary impulse cannot support the happiness of the rest of your life.
For many couples, at the starting point of the encounter, two people can get along happily, and they will involuntarily enlarge each other's advantages, and there will also be the phenomenon of love house and Wu.
But it is undeniable that everyone has shortcomings, even if two people have really loved, it is inevitable that in more and more exchanges, from passionate to plain as water.
This means that every love will actually be accompanied by an invisible test. If both parties cannot achieve understanding and tolerance in the run-in, then it is likely to be disappointment and abandonment.
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There is a reason why girls are disconnected.
If you don't love, keep your distance.
If a boy is accepted, the woman is often prepared to be with her for the rest of her life.
From the perspective of love psychology, girls are easily in a weak position.
If the man really loves her, then the girl can be happier to be herself under the protection of the other party. If you meet a man with ulterior motives, then the girl will have to face a scarred ending.
Even if girls haven't been in a relationship, they often know what it means to be in love with a man.
Therefore, many girls will remain cautious before determining the relationship between the couple.
When accepting the pursuit of men, even if the girls do not say it, they will most likely have the mentality of "marrying the chicken with the chicken, marrying the dog with the dog". Women will look forward to, together with the man they love, to grasp the happiness of the rest of their lives.
It's just that the direction of love is really difficult to predict.
If each other, after holding hands, can keep the love business, how can the girl be willing to give up? She will only cherish the feelings in front of her more and more. Unless one day, the person that the girl cares about really disappoints herself, they will make a timely stop loss in the last resort.
Of course, it is not excluded that a behavior is that girls have not paid sincerity, just a playful mentality, and will easily give up in a relationship.
Girls break up with you? It is related to three reasons, how many people do not understand, do not take it lightly.
First: It hurts.
Loving someone is a happy thing.
If there is no expectation of happiness, who would want to hold hands in love?
In the minds of girls, fate is romantic and beautiful. For the rest of his life, writing the story of two people with his beloved boy can not only make life warm and happy, but also let the heart find a place to live.
However, there is often a big gap between reality and assumption.
Two people have the opportunity to communicate frequently, and the shortcomings of both sides will gradually replace the advantages and be magnified.
In a truly fortunate relationship, both parties will stand on a certain overall situation and change and improve for each other. If couples, in the process of running-in, do not have tolerance and patience, then it will only make people face more and more disappointments.
When the beautiful vision is broken by the cruelty of reality day by day.
Girls will often face emotional fragmentation. If one day, they are completely heartbroken, they will not have any expectations, and they will not make a fuss.
Even when leaving, girls will be silent.
Second: tired.
When pursuing girls.
Many men spare no effort to put each other in an important position.
In the face of men's pursuits, women thought that they had met someone worthy of trust.
Therefore, under the influence of this mentality, they will let down their psychological guard and choose to accept a person completely.
No matter how beautiful love is, it will move from a period of love to a period of dullness.
The way two people get along will also change from the original enthusiasm and initiative to plain and plain. Even, many men will change from the original initiative to the perfunctory in the later stage.
It is conceivable that girls will have what kind of psychology they will have in the face of such a change.
In the face of men's transformation, women are easily disappointed in love, and gradually they will also have tired thoughts about the feelings in front of them. If the way they get along with each other has not been able to change newly, then it is easy for girls to think that the love of two people has gone far.
Under the influence of boredom, girls will remind boys with broken links that if they are still disappointed, then girls will really choose to leave completely.
Third: Enough play.
For a lot of people, love is really attractive.
In the age of love, everyone is not ready, and they meet the people who are in love.
We might think that this is love.
As everyone knows, after a period of time together, everyone will gradually realize that the original relationship is at best a faint like.
In the world of emotions, many people love with a sincere attitude.
There are also some people who just have a playful attitude, just to eliminate the boring time in front of them, so these people will try to contact love.
In everyone's cognition, many men will do this, in fact, some girls who are confused by love, why not such a psychology? When they have played enough, these people will choose to "disconnect".
In this world, the human heart is difficult to predict.
Even in love, two people cannot clarify their hearts without going through the process of getting along.
After some couples hold hands, they can keep the original intention of fate and continue to love each other. There are also some people who may have loved each other, but walked and left.
No matter what kind of ending, I only hope that everyone can cherish the time they have spent interacting with each other.
If two people are destined not to be able to stay together, they may wish to say a blessing to each other; from now on, each of them will go light. For the rest of my life, I look forward to all my friends being able to grasp the love that truly belongs to you with a grateful attitude.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.