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With the continuous development and progress of society, the level of science and technology continues to rise, and Internet technology has entered thousands of households. It's now the age of information, and people are able to socialize online.
With the continuous development of information technology, the speed of information dissemination is getting faster and faster, and the channels are getting wider and wider. WeChat has become an indispensable social software in people's lives.
In addition to meeting people's communication needs, WeChat can also meet people's sharing needs. Now the circle of friends has become a platform for people to record their lives and share their beautiful lives. In addition, people will also post a lot of information in the circle of friends.
With the continuous development and progress of science and technology, smart phones have been fully integrated into people's lives. Most people are already unable to leave their phones in their lives. The many functions on the mobile phone also make people often look down at the mobile phone, so a new type of group "low-headed family" has also been born.
Even so, we can't deny that smartphones have brought us a lot of convenience to our lives, compared to 10 years ago, people can now go out and even take only one mobile phone, she has been able to meet most of the needs of our lives.
Moreover, social software similar to WeChat also greatly saves the cost of communication between people, using WeChat to communicate, neither going out, nor spending too much money, or even just lying at home, brushing the mobile phone can complete many social activities.
Through the dynamics in the circle of friends, we can also understand the social circles of the people around us and the general trend of life, however, although this social method has many advantages, there are also some drawbacks.
For example, civil servants on the mainland are public officials of the state, working for the state and the government, and representing the image of the country and the government. When you see the title of the article for the first time, you may wonder why you should stay away from civil servants who do not send a circle of friends, and what is the connection between civil servants and the circle of friends?
The homogeneity between civil servants on the mainland is relatively strong, so as a group in society, the group between civil servants is a question worth pondering.
Publishing a variety of dynamic behaviors in the circle of friends is dispensable in the group of ordinary people, and there is no special significance, we can choose to freely publish our favorite content in our circle of friends, but for the civil servant group, taking the circle of friends as an example, their social platform is completely different from ordinary people.
If you have some close civil servant friends around you, please think back to the state of their circle of friends, I believe that most of them are only three days, visible or blank, and some of the content is only related to their own work.
Next, we will focus on the relationship between the civil servant group and the circle of friends. And the "stay away" mentioned in the article is not to make you completely cut off contact with your friends, but to hope that you can seriously consider the relationship between you.
Post the sociological significance of the circle of friends
In the ordinary people group, the circle of friends as a social platform and sharing platform, in which to publish a variety of content is a very normal social behavior. Therefore, from a certain point of view, the circle of friends is actually a public space in interpersonal communication.
Simply put, if a person posts a feed in the circle of friends, everyone in the social space, including themselves, will see the content as real and meaningful information.
However, there are always people who will publish some nutritious information in the circle of friends, and they use the circle of friends to publish various advertising information and voting information, which makes the value information in the social space of the circle of friends drop significantly.
And those who never post a circle of friends are mostly aware of this, they think that posting a circle of friends is a waste of time and meaningless, and they are not willing to show their lives in front of the public.
In any case, these people who never post a circle of friends have their own unique views on life. There may be more problems with interacting with such people than ordinary people, so you need to pay more attention to social distancing in the process of communication.
Characteristics of the civil service group
As state servants, the civil service group is usually more serious, because their work content is mostly related to national politics, so they are accustomed to applying their work attitudes to their lives. And their words and deeds will be more formal and decent.
Although they usually do not smile, they are not too rigid, in fact, as state officials, most of them are more talkative.
And the fact that vulnerable public servants have almost no dynamics about their lives in their circle of friends shows that they are more inclined to hide their real lives. Therefore, it is natural to pay special attention to social distancing when interacting with such people.
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Author | Tommida
Edit | Wan'an
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Reference: Jean Piaget Biographie. (2020, January 29).