How do you know if your homeschooling is successful?
In fact, there is no need to ask others, not even your own children, just ask yourself, after all, we all say that self-discipline is the most basic premise of parenting.
Don't underestimate the impact of your words and deeds on your child, because parents are the originals of the child, and children are copies of parents, and teaching by example is far more important than words.
1. Parents should have the role of role models
The little bit of education, cultivation, standardization and edification of the family is the process of shaping children and adults, and the importance of parents in family education is self-evident.
The influence of parents on children's adults is subtle, so becoming a child's role model and guiding the positive growth of children is the most important educational force for parents.
As the saying goes: "If there is a father, there must be a son", the core of family education is always to improve the quality of parents themselves, to lead by example, and grow up with their children.
2, parents should have a positive attitude
Today's family parenting, perhaps because of time, or because of the structure, has become gradually lacking, and parents have pinned most of their hopes for parenting on schools and teachers.
However, "adults" in the family, "talents" in school, "throwing hands" under the parenting attitude of children, not only difficult to become talents, but even difficult to adults.
Because the parents' parenting attitude is not positive enough or even lacking, the children lack the correct three views of cultivation and guidance, rebellion, lack of care has become the mainstream of their personality, such parents are hard to blame.
Parents must have a sufficient sense of responsibility, can not escape the rights and obligations of family education, and there is no way to transfer family education to others, and the attitude of child-rearing must be correct.
3. Parents should give enough respect
Recall, have you ever paid attention to the respect that children need?
Chinese-style parents have a certain degree of domineering in parenting, and the bondage of family affection is deeper, and they also prefer to influence their children's choices in the name of "I am for your own good".
This is actually a manifestation of the lack of respect for the child, and your disrespect for the child will also be learned by your child, forming a vicious circle that is not conducive to the growth of the child's personality.
Every child has their own independent personality, every child's personality needs to be respected, and if you want to become a qualified parent, it is crucial to learn to respect your child.