Some people say that we know a lot of truths, but still have a bad life. But if we really apply these truths to practical life, we can actually bring us some enlightenment.
If girls can understand the following four truths as soon as possible, they can not only make their lives easier, but also attract the attention of others.
01, you can buy your own things, do not let others send
In middle school, there are always a few girls in the class who have a strong personality and go around telling everyone that they are going to have a birthday a few weeks before their birthday.
It's normal if you just want to invite everyone to her house for a cake or a chat, but some girls will directly ask for gifts from others.
Some girls will even tell others what gifts they want, just waiting for those classmates who have a good relationship or will not refuse others to fulfill their wishes.
This kind of girl gives others the feeling that she likes to take advantage of small things, there is no big pattern, and it is not worth the depths.
And this personality is difficult to change, and when in love with her boyfriend, she will also hint from time to time that the other party wants some gifts.
If two people are in love, or really like this girl, he will willingly give for each other.
But after the two people broke up, the other party had enough reasons to make some negative comments about the girl with others.
There is nothing wrong with girls pursuing a high quality of life, but they must rely on their own efforts to give themselves a better within their own capabilities.
Instead of thinking about who to rely on and having a better life through others, this kind of thinking will only make you live a very empty life in the end.
02, the more books are read, the temperament will really be different
There is a book aroma in the belly, and this sentence actually has a certain basis. We see some people, maybe the facial features are not amazing, but always feel that the other party has a strong academic temperament.
When people first come into contact with each other, they are always attracted to each other's appearance, and having a beautiful appearance may be the basis for maintaining contact.
After a long time together, we slowly understand each other's character and personality, which are the things that can really attract each other for a long time.
If you feel bored, read more books, let your impetuous heart gradually calm down, and make your words and deeds more stable.
03, do not deliberately cater to the eyes of others
Sometimes we care too much about how others see us, don't want to leave a bad impression on others, and don't want others to think that they are not kind enough.
Therefore, they will work harder to cater to others, dare not reject others, and think that as long as they are better to others, they can integrate into them.
But in fact, this will only make you live a very tired life, do a lot of thankless things, and finally get nothing.
Paying too much attention to the eyes of others will only make you very restrained, and you dare not pursue what you are really good at and want to do.
We don't have to care what others think, you can wear your favorite clothes and choose the career you love.
04, do not be moved by the little concern of others
Many girls always have a state of insecurity, because they don't know what true love is like, and what kind of performance will really love someone.
So when someone comes to show affection to themselves, they will feel that this is love, and they may not find someone who is better for themselves.
Maybe other people don't have much idea at all, just to politely help you open the car door and twist the drink, not to have other feelings for you.
But you will feel that he is showing favor to you, and you don't even understand whether you like him or not, and you want to give him a little response.
This kind of girl is easy to become the "love brain" of other people when in love, involuntarily take the other party as the center of her life, and be unconditionally good to others.
The most important thing for girls is self-respect and self-love, and it is the most critical thing to live a wonderful life, and they don't have to show others what kind of state.
If you can give yourself something better, do your best to fulfill your wishes, and if you can't, try harder.
You don't need to rely on who meets your material or spiritual needs, read more and exercise more, and spend your time on things that can see the rewards.
Accumulate luck and character for yourself, so that you can make others full of awe later in life.