Introduction: Although it is a double reduction policy now, but the children because of the pressure of the middle and high school entrance examinations, the coursework is not easy at all, recently, a father in Ningbo, Zhejiang Province, shared a video, which resonated with many netizens.
On April 12, a father in Ningbo, Zhejiang Province, shared a video: that day on duty at the unit, opened the camera and happened to see such a scene: the son was doing the question, suddenly slapped himself, took off his glasses and slapped himself, and after slapping, he put on his glasses to continue learning.
When Dad saw this, he immediately contacted his mother, who was tutoring her child with homework, and asked her what had happened at that time.
The mother said that at that time, she tutored her child to read outside the classroom, because it was more difficult, so she let him read it several times to deepen his understanding, and then she went upstairs to clean up, there was no contradiction.
The father said that as an old father, he had been thinking about his son's move all night, what caused it, and did not dare to ask him the next day.
Sharing this video on the Internet is in the hope that everyone can treat it correctly and pay attention to the communication problems with the children.
The author speculates that it may be that the child's learning pressure is too great, extracurricular reading is too difficult, he can't understand it for a while and a half, he is very anxious, so he fans himself continuously to vent.
And this father's approach I also think is a problem, the child has been forced to slap themselves, indicating that the problem is already very serious, at this time should intervene in time, and the child should communicate well, relieve the child's pressure, to guide, rather than "the next day do not dare to ask him." This is to escape the problem, and the next time, the child encounters a problem, he may punish himself in this way.
As some netizens shared: don't put too much pressure on the child, it is not a good thing, when my child was young, he used to hit himself on the head several times for no reason, very hard, scared me, and now the child is in junior high school, the temper is a bit explosive.
Rather than academic performance, we should pay more attention to the cultivation of children's personality, love the child more, and love him in the way the child likes, but be careful not to be too pampered and establish a sense of boundaries.
In this process, correctly guide the child, and correctly look at the child's learning and achievements! As a parent, even if the child is ordinary, it is enough to live a healthy, healthy and happy life!
Dear netizens, how do you think of your child's act of fanning himself with homework? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section.
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