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The various manifestations of an adult in society are inseparable from the education of his childhood. Many people have become a bad person or even jailed when they grow up, or they are very successful and are proud of all aspects, why is there such a big gap? In fact, it is related to the education of the parents behind these people. Business giant Li Ka-shing said that ninety-nine percent of the education of children is to teach them the truth of being a person, and only a rare time to teach them to do business. It can be seen how crucial it is for a person to be a person. So for our children, let's not talk about how they will be in the future, the first thing to do is to teach them how to be the right person.
Be sure to teach children to be happy
I meet a lot of people who think it's fun to communicate with them, but I also meet some people who feel depressed as soon as they see them. Later, after learning about their growth experience, it will be found that a child who grew up in a happy family is far more happy than a child in a family that often quarrels. I am also a mother, for this I also have a deep feeling, when I have a conflict with the child's father, the child's emotions are obviously tense, and even the expression is depressed, but when the family atmosphere is very good, the child's happiness can not be pretended, so creating a relaxed and happy environment for the child's noble sentiments and future marriages are very helpful, at least he is a person who can bring happiness to people.
Where there is small love, there is great love
Modern people are realistic, but does this mean that we don't need to have a kind heart to express our love for things? No, on the contrary, it is more needed. Usually in life, children must have this, starting from small things, small things can be helped by nobles in big things, if everything is based on themselves, then others will treat themselves the same. To be a person with small love will have the possibility of great love.
Be sure to have integrity
If there is a father, there must be a son, and if there is a mother, there must be a daughter, and such words are often heard in life, so the influence of parents' words and deeds on their children is very large. If you want your children to be very upright, not to cheat everywhere, to do what they say, every word and deed of their parents is very important, the parents themselves are very righteous, basically if there is no accident, his children will also be affected by them and become a person with the same character.
Be sure to teach children the courage to resist setbacks
Modern society has a lot of competitive pressure, always see and hear all kinds of news, so-and-so children jumped off the building to commit suicide due to the pressure of not being able to learn, or some adults in the society encountered some small problems to find death and life. These people are growing up too smoothly, and their parents don't put a little pressure on them or teach them how to face setbacks. After all, many things need to be solved by themselves, parents cannot protect their children for a lifetime, so if so, they must let their children receive some setback education from an early age, and help them grow up to have the courage to face the unhappiness in life.
Teach children to make a plan with goals
Some adults lack a plan both at work and in life, so that life and work are a mess, they are criticized everywhere at work, and there are various problems in life. Because there is no goal, no plan, parents can make their children a person with goals and plans through small things, such as learning to save, learning goals for the next stage, and so on.
Teach children the basic skills of life
You will see that the men and women in the current society get married and have children in time, but the two people really don't know anything about life, children will not bring it, even their own three meals a day also rely on the outside to solve, can not cook, clothes can not be washed, the room is disorganized, etc., in short, people feel that they do not want to get close. Although the conditions in all aspects of modern society are good, in this regard, we must also teach children from an early age, because this aspect is even more important than his future work.
It is not easy to be a person, this is a sentence that we adults often lament! Adults need to constantly learn to be human, so that we have the opportunity to teach a child who can be a human being.
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2020.11.03
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