Wen \ Kaleidoscope, Jiang Zuo Mei Niang
Guo Degang once wrote such a sentence in his personal biography "Just Lived":
"The poor stand on the cross street and play with ten steel structures, and they can't hook their relatives; the rich people play with knives, guns, and sticks in the deep mountains and old forests, and they can't beat the unrighteous guests."
Yes, when you run out of money, the relatives and friends who used to call you brothers and sisters have all disappeared without a trace, and you can only carry them alone, and you may also angrily scold yourself for looking at the wrong person.
However, in fact, this is the norm in the world, because life is the icing on the cake, and few people are willing to give charcoal in the snow.
When you have no money, you will understand these three truths, and you will completely understand them. 、
01. When there is no money, there are the most bad people
Mr. Yang Said:
"Only in the humble, the most organic to see the truth of the world." 」
When you are rich, the whole world has a temperature; when you are poor, you can only experience the heartache of "no one asks".
There's a show called "The Rich And the Poor, which lets the rich experience the lives of the poor.
Eric is a rich second-generation man in Hong Kong, and before participating in the show, his daily life was to ask friends to play golf and party with beautiful women on yachts.
After participating in the show, Eric only had 15 yuan a day to live a homeless life.
Eric looked for a job to survive, but none of them succeeded.
Later, finally there was a job of a takeaway brother willing to recruit him, 25 yuan per hour, Eric worked hard to deliver food.
As a result, after working for 5 hours, Eric was fired without any explanation.
Faced with such a sunny thunderbolt, Eric couldn't help but leave a sour tear.
The next day, Eric found a job delivering newspapers, and at the end of the day he only earned 10 yuan, and after work, he was so tired that he just wanted to lie down and sleep well.
However, Eric found that the "home" built on the side of the road had been demolished, and even the cardboard for sleeping had been picked up.
At that moment, Eric instantly understood that his past smooth sailing was because of his economic strength.
Eric, who stands at the top of the pyramid, is snubbed by everyone; but Eric, who has no identity and background, is like the lowest level of society, and even dignity can be easily stepped on.
Life is so cruel that when you are weak, anyone can come and bully you.
Writer Mr. Wang Er said:
"When you are weak, there are the most bad people, and when you are strong, the world is the fairest."
To get rid of the status quo, we need to run all the time, and every step up, there will be fewer bad people and more good people in the crowd we are in contact with.
When you reach enough heights, you will find that there are good people around you, and the whole world is a pleasant look.
02. The person you love the most will also think that you are poor
Everything in the world has unspoken rules, and the same is true of feelings.
The friendship between people has actually secretly marked the price for a long time.
I have seen the story of netizens' whispers.
Xiao Yan had a boyfriend in college, and the two of them went from college to work, and eight years of sweet time accompanied Xiao Yan's entire youth.
Friends are very optimistic about the couple, and Xiao Yan has been looking forward to her boyfriend's marriage proposal to him.
But every time Xiao Yan knocked on the side of the side to mention marriage, the boyfriend swallowed and spit and found an excuse to avoid the topic.
Xiao Yan thought that her boyfriend was not ready, but after a long time, Xiao Yan's family also began to worry.
One day, Xiao Yan planned to plan the future with her boyfriend, and the boyfriend said: "My mother thinks that the conditions of your family are not very good, and she does not agree with us together, let's break up!" ”
It turned out that Xiao Yan's boyfriend was a rich second generation, and the family was in business, while Xiao Yan's family was very economically strapped, his father was a factory maintenance worker, and his mother was a hotel waiter.
Hearing her boyfriend's words, Xiao Yan couldn't believe that the eight-year relationship ended with such a fluttering sentence.
Yes, we have seen too many love stories of civilian women marrying into the rich, but the real life is: the people you love the most will also think that you are poor.
Life, never only the wind and flowers and snow moon, but more is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea.
It can't stand up just by the love of two people, and when the passion recedes, all that's left is a chicken feather, and it can't end without money.
Someone asked a question:
"What are some of the truths you only understood after you got married?"
GaoZan replied:
"Don't believe that sentient beings are full of water, the reality is mostly that poor couples are lamenting, and the economic base not only determines the superstructure, but also relates to the degree of harmony of the family."
Yes, when I was young, I always felt that true love was supreme, talking about money was tacky, and when I grew older, I found that all sides of life were surrounded by the "wall of reality".
Mortgages, car loans, children going to school, parents are sick and hospitalized, none of them need money, seemingly stable life, all need money to support, so if you are not married, please think about how to make a living, don't always expect to fish for a rich and handsome, if you are married, then think about how to improve your earning power, you have economic strength, there will be less emotional problems.
03. Money is very tacky, but it is the biggest confidence in life
There was a question on the Internet: "What is the most important thing in life?" ”
In Gao Zan's answer, it is the experience of a netizen.
After the college entrance examination that year, netizens received an acceptance letter, but the family could not afford her tuition.
In order to let netizens go to college, the family sold sheep, borrowed money from relatives around them, and finally scraped together enough tuition.
The food in the school canteen is not expensive, but the netizens are the minimum amount every time they charge the meal card, and the poor netizens must carefully calculate every penny.
Once netizens saw a particularly favorite dress, not too expensive, netizens drank the rice soup provided for free in the canteen for a few days, and then gritted their teeth and bought back the clothes with the money saved.
However, after buying it back, every time netizens see the clothes, they will remember the way their parents whispered when they borrowed money, and their hearts are full of guilt.
Since then, netizens have begun to look for various part-time jobs, others nest in the dormitory to chase dramas and play games, netizens are on the way to part-time jobs, 365 days a year, without interruption.
Later, netizens slowly independently responsible for their own living expenses, to later have savings in their hands to help their parents, life gradually has dawn.
When I graduated from college, my classmates around me were confused about the future direction, but netizens had already received offers from well-known companies, with annual salaries starting from six figures.
Netizens wrote at the end of the story: "Do not seek great wealth and nobility, at least step by step to step on their own future road, those things that can only be seen before, now can also rely on their own efforts to get." ”
Many people think that talking about money is too vulgar, but money is the foundation of life, is a person's pursuit of dreams to help, without economic strength, inner strength is only a flash in the pan.
She likes Liu Yuling's view of money, she said: "I work hard to make a lot of money, and named them Fuck you money, when you are forced to do things you don't want to do, you can gracefully return the 'I can go to yours!'" ’”
Trying to make money is not because of multi-market servants, but because you have the right to "say no" to life at any time.
Yes, and the money is earned by oneself to have confidence, do not pin your hopes on others, because the mountain, the mountain has a day to fall, rely on people, people have a day to run.
You must know that no one can afford your desire for a better life and dreams, your life should be pursued by yourself, and your confidence is ultimately in your own hands.
04. Mei Niang said
There is a question on the Internet: "What is the scariest lack of anything in the world?" ”
A poking answer said, "The most terrible thing in this world is not the lack of love, nor the lack of heart and eyes, but the lack of money." ”
Without money once, you understand that the only people in the world you can rely on are yourself.
There is a saying that goes: "Money can solve 80% of the problems, and the remaining 20% can also be solved by money." ”
Yes, try to make money, the way you desperately make money, although a little awkward, but the way you run with tears in your eyes, it is really cool.
May we all be able to maintain financial immunity and live every day in the torrent of life.
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