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Rao Minli
On February 18, 2022, the famous actress Rao Minli and the well-known actor Fu Dalong announced their divorce, ending a 12-year marriage.
During the marriage, Rao Minli and Fu Dalong did not conceive a baby, and there was no marriage room of their own in Beijing, which is very rare among celebrities.
It is undeniable that Rao Minli and Fu Dalong are indifferent to fame and fortune and advocate the supremacy of love. However, after all, people cannot live in a vacuum, and their love eventually loses to reality. The divorce brought tears and pain to Rao Minli...
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Rao Minli was born in 1984 in Yuzhong District, Chongqing, to intellectual parents, and she danced and played piano from elementary school. At a height of 1.67 meters, Rao Minli is a magnificent style, and her smile is a landscape of its own.
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Rao Minli military uniform photo
In 1995, Rao Minli was admitted to the Dance Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, and after graduating in 2000, she was assigned to the Avant-garde Song and Dance Troupe of the Jinan Military Region as an actress.
Rao Minli feels that the secondary school education is low, which will affect the future development. In 2003, she was admitted to the Performance Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts with honors.
In her freshman year, Rao Minli and her classmates participated in CCTV's first comedy sketch contest, and their performance of the sketch "Advertising and Telling" won the second prize.
This award made Rao Minli, who has a good image and temperament, become famous, and the drama came and went. During her college years, Rao Minli starred in many film and television works such as "Zhenguan Long Song", "Leaving Like the Wind", "Looking forward to the Spring Wind", "Tomorrow Tomorrow", "Blood Mist" and so on.
Moreover, Rao Minli played the female number one and female number two in these works.
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Rao Minli (right) with actress Yao Xingtong
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Fu Da Long
In 2007, Rao Minli won the Beijing Television Film and Television Festival Film and Television Rookie Award.
While filming, Rao Minli also served as the location host of CCTV3's "Happy China Trip". Therefore, during her college years, Rao Minli has a high reputation.
In 2008, Rao Minli established a romantic relationship with the famous actor Fu Dalong. Fu Dalong was born in 1976, 8 years older than Rao Minli.
He graduated from the Acting Department of Beijing Film Academy and won the Best Actor Award of the "Golden Rooster Award" of Chinese Film and the Best Actor Award of the "Huabiao Award" of Chinese Film for his wonderful performance in the film "Tengu".
Fu Dalong was very picky about taking over the scene, and once because there was no drama to deliver takeaways, it was not until the past two years that he returned to the film and television circle to shoot.
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Fu Da Long
Fu Dalong's parents, a native of Beijing, supported the construction of the "Third Line" to Tianshui in Gansu province in the 1970s. Fu Dalong was born in Tianshui, Gansu Province, and when he was in elementary school, his parents transferred back to Beijing and his family moved back to Beijing.
Fu Dalong does not have the "mixed and not stingy" of ordinary Beijing boys, he is gentle as a jade, likes to read, calligraphy, seal carving, is a clear stream in the show business circle, unlike many male actors.
Rao Minli admires the simplicity and indifference of Fu Dalong, and Fu Dalong also admires Rao Minli's beauty, gentleness, elegance and purity.
During the love affair, when Rao Minli went to visit Fu Dalong, he often sat at home and read, and the mobile phone next to him played relaxed and bright music.
Under the influence of her boyfriend, Rao Minli will also pull out her favorite books from Fu Dalong's bookcase and sit on the side to read.
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Rao Minli and Fu Dalong
After lunch at home, Fu Dalong rode his bicycle to take Rao Minli to the movie. They buy two packs of popcorn and watch a movie while eating.
After watching the movie, it was already evening, and Fu Dalong invited Rao Minli to eat Sichuan noodles at a small street shop. After a date, the two spent less than 100 yuan.
In the two years of love, Fu Dalong did not invite Rao Minli to a big meal, nor did he send her a valuable gift.
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Many girls around Rao Minli are looking for boyfriends with superior economic conditions, some of which are 2,000 yuan for a skirt and tens of thousands of yuan for a bag.
Seeing that Rao Minli found a poor boyfriend, many people were puzzled. Some said to Rao Minli: According to your conditions, it is easy to find a "rich second generation" or "official second generation", why do you find a poor boyfriend?
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Rao Minli and Fu Dalong
Rao Minli replied to the other party: whether two people are happy together or not has little to do with material things. I think the spiritual understanding between lovers is more important.
In February 2010, Rao Minli and Fu Dalong registered their marriage in Beijing. At that time, Fu Dalong had a small amount of savings around him, and he could buy a three-bedroom apartment with a mortgage in remote places such as Shunyi, Fangshan and Daxing in Beijing.
However, Fu Dalong and Rao Minli often go out to shoot movies, and it is most convenient to live in Chaoyang District to go to the airport, and he wants to buy a wedding house in Chaoyang District. Rao Minli also had some savings around her, and took the initiative to take it out and make a down payment with Fu Dalong.
The two have seen a number of houses in Chaoyang District, but even a one-third down payment is not enough. Both parents are ordinary people, and Fu Dalong and Rao Minli can't bear to increase their burdens, and they don't have the financial ability to help their children buy a marriage house in Beijing.
Fu Dalong's parents have a small two-bedroom apartment in Beijing, and they intend to vacate the house for their son to make a marriage house and go out to rent a house by themselves.
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Rao Minli
Rao Minli firmly disagreed: Mom and Dad, if you go out to rent a house, I will live at home uneasy. Dalong and I are young, or let's rent a house and get married.
It is rare for celebrities to rent a house to get married, and everyone around them says that Rao Minli is married. But she didn't think so, feeling like she was married to love.
Rao Minli was 26 years old when they got married, fu Dalong was 34 years old, and the couple reached the best age to conceive a baby. Both parents kept pushing each other, and Rao Minli didn't want the baby to be born in the rental house, and wanted to buy a house and then consider pregnancy.
She laid out the reasons, and both parents felt that they had a reason and supported her choice.
In order to make a home in Beijing, Rao Minli frequently took over the role. From 2010 to 2013, she took over many film and television dramas such as "New Jade Guanyin", "I Want a Home", "Camellia", "Wangchun Wind", "Banner" and so on.
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Rao Minli and Li Qiang stills of "New Jade Guanyin" (2011)
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Rao Minli and Gao Yunxiang stills of "New Jade Guanyin"
Among them, the "anxin" she played in "New Jade Guanyin" was considered by many viewers to be more flavorful than Sun Li's performance.
In order to own a house, Rao Minli did her best as a girl. However, the actor's salary is not as high as the outside world thinks, often with the agent team, Rao Minli can not get much money.
Of course, the most important thing to buy a house is to rely on Fu Dalong, but Fu Dalong is still unwilling to lower the standard of receiving plays and is unwilling to compromise with the world.
From 2011 to 2015, he only took over 5 TV series of "Four Young People in New Capital", "Tang Shisheng", "Sui and Tang Dynasty Yanyi", "The Vertical and Horizontal of the Great Qin Empire" and "Dalian Story", and only took over one TV series per year on average, with an extremely limited income.
The couple had a hard time accumulating a little money, but the house price rose again, and the speed at which they earned money was far from catching up with the rate of house price increase.
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Rao Minli
There is a lot of bitterness behind the rent, Rao Minli and Fu Dalong often move, and once they move home, they have to shed a layer of skin. Every time Rao Minli arranged the home well, but after living for more than half a year and moving away, a lot of decoration was wasted.
Rao Minli couldn't help but sigh: it was good to buy a marriage house at the beginning, even if it borrowed money to make a down payment, it was better than renting a house.
In fact, if Fu Dalong can take on more drama, buying a house will not become so difficult. Originally, the middle-aged actor's drama contract was limited, and Fu Dalong set up rules and regulations, and it was even more difficult to take over the play.
Rao Minli is a kind and simple woman, who never forced her husband to buy a house and never put pressure on her husband. She felt that in marriage, one party could not put shackles on the other party, otherwise the marriage would suffocate people.
Sometimes Rao Minli goes out to parties, and her peers cleverly inquire into what neighborhood she lives in Beijing. Rao Minli truthfully said that she and her husband had not yet bought a house.
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Rao Minli and singer Ann Yi
Everyone began to talk about it, and on the surface praised Rao Minli for not being worldly, but inside and outside the words were regret and sympathy. This made Rao Minli feel different in her heart.
When she got home, she couldn't help but talk about it in front of her husband. Fu Dalong said, let's live our own lives, don't care about people's discussions. Suddenly, Rao Minli's heart became a little heavy.
Because they did not have their own house, Rao Minli's parents rarely came to Beijing, and some immediate family members came to Beijing and did not contact Rao Minli.
In the face of reality, Rao Minli feels more and more how important a house is to a woman and a family!
In 2015, Rao Minli was admitted to the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts for graduate studies. Because of the heavy academic tasks, Rao Minli can no longer take over film and television dramas. The task of buying a house and raising a family is all on Fu Dalong.
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Poster of Fu Dalong's Mule and Gold
After living in a rental house for so many years and moving so many times, Fu Dalong is also tired and eager to have a home of his own.
From 2016 to 2019, Fu Dalong took over many film and television dramas such as "Entering the Imperial City", "Mule and Gold", "Great Prospects", "The Rise of the Great Qin Empire", "Kangzang Tea Soul", "East Fourth Arch Building East", "Guihong", "Entering Beijing" and so on.
But most of these film and television dramas are not big productions, and Fu Dalong is not an absolute male number one, and he can't get much paid, so he still can't buy a house.
In 2018, after graduating from graduate school, Rao Minli was left to teach at the Military Culture College of the National Defense University (the predecessor of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts). At this time, Rao Minli was 34 years old, and her parents on both sides began to urge her to have a baby, and Fu Dalong also hoped that his wife would get pregnant as soon as possible.
Rao Minli also wants to be a mother, but she feels that she has just entered the school to teach and give birth to a baby, which is somewhat inappropriate, and she wants to talk about it after the work is stable. Fu Dalong was considerate of his wife and respected her choice.
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Rao Minli's stills from "When the Mountain Flowers Are Full"
In 2019, Rao Minli joined the civilian phalanx and achieved "secondary enlistment". In April of that year, she and her team members rushed to a military academy in Tianjin for 45 days of military training.
These civilian staff are admitted from elites across the country, 100% of them have a bachelor's degree or above, of which 75.9% have a postgraduate degree or above, and some are doctors or even postdocs, which makes Rao Minli feel great pressure.
Among these civilian staff, Rao Minli is the only actor, everyone regards her as a star, and she chases those doctors and postdocs as stars.
After the training, Rao Minli still returned to teach at the Military Culture College of the National Defense University, and wrote a number of papers such as "Talking about the Importance of "Bringing Voice with Emotion and Emotion" in the Art of Recitation and Teaching Countermeasures" and "Careful Investigation, Careful Thinking, and Careful Doing - Finding Roles from details", which were published in key academic journals.
Because the unit does not divide the house, Rao Minli still rents a house with her husband, and Fu Dalong seems to have adapted to the rental life and has no determination to buy a house in the backwater war.
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Fu Da Long
When he was not filming, he would hide at home to read, practice calligraphy, engage in seal engraving, and write novels. His seal engraving and calligraphy works are quite accomplished, and the Wutai Mountain Tibetan Scripture Pavilion has a collection of his calligraphy works.
After the publication of fu dalong's novel "Ji Hongmei" and the film script "Waste Qin", it attracted some attention. His published poetry collections "Miscellaneous Poetry Album" and "Pastoral Song" also caused repercussions in the circle.
It is undeniable that Fu Dalong is an actor with a fairly deep cultural heritage. Because of this, he is particularly picky about taking over the scene and is reluctant to make bad scenes. The number of excellent works produced every year is extremely limited, and even if there are, they may not be suitable for him.
Although he bears the title of film emperor, Fu Dalong's heart is painful and tangled, and he can't receive the role he wants to play. A man in his 40s who still refuses to bow to the world is indeed respectable, but it is also a bit tragic.
In 2020, with the outbreak of the new crown epidemic on a global scale, Fu Dalong's drama basically stopped, and Rao Minli was also isolated at home.
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Rao Minli
It is inconvenient to isolate in the rental house, and the good mood of both of them is greatly reduced. Coupled with the collision of personalities in the day and night together, the distraction of various trivial matters made Rao Minli and Fu Dalong also stumble.
In the past, the two people gathered less and left more, and some contradictions were covered up, but now that they get along every day, these contradictions are highlighted.
And without children to do the bond, the two have less common topics and less cohesion. In this case, the two hearts go farther and farther.
From 2020 to 2022, for more than two years, Fu Dalong only took over two film and television dramas, "Poisonous Bee" and "Stone Blossom". Apart from keeping his family running, he didn't have much of a balance.
Rao Minli works normally at school and lives on a salary, and the couple has lost the motivation to buy a house and has no intention of conceiving a baby. Once the two have no common goal, marriage becomes dispensable.
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Stills from Fu Dalong's "One-Armed Fighter"
On February 28, 2022, Rao Minli and Fu Dalong broke up calmly and friendly. Because there is no division of the house, no custody entanglement of children, the separation of the two is simple.
It is undeniable that in the 12 years of marriage, Rao Minli and Fu Dalong have had many good pasts and experienced a life of hardship. Those bits and pieces are carved into the bones. Now the marriage disintegrated, bringing tears and pain to Rao Minli.
Combing through her emotional journey, Rao Minli has loved, hurt, been happy, and troubled, and every day is very real, and it is the display of her own life. She didn't regret her choice, she didn't know when she would get out of the pain of divorce.
"Taste celebrity" comments: We do not advocate that love succumb to the material, but love is attached to the material. Because people can't live in a vacuum after all.
In this article, Rao Minli and Fu Dalong are a pair of good actors who are indifferent to fame and fortune and advocate love, and the two are very in love. But as the days passed, they fell apart.
Marriage room, children, feelings, is the hardware of a happy family, the lack of one is a pity, the lack of two is very dangerous, if all three are gone, marriage can only disintegrate.
Although life is very realistic, it is cruel. But Rao Minli and Fu Dalong can also carry out the marriage to the end, if they have a child early, buy a house with a mortgage early, maybe life is another ending.
But even if you don't buy a house and continue to live in a rental house, as long as the couple's feelings are still there and they have the idea of living a good life, the marriage can still continue. There are many couples living in rental houses in Beijing, and the days are still full of taste.
Therefore, what crushed Rao Minli and Fu Dalong's marriage was not the house and children, but their inner determination was not enough, and they did not keep love fresh in trivial days!
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