1. Rao Minli and Fu Dalong's married life and the reasons for its breakdown
Back in 2008, Rao Minli, who had entered middle age, was 35 years old at the time, and met the 42-year-old Fu Dalong, who had also gone through half of his life. The first time they met, the two were like old friends reunited, and they were full of enthusiasm and dedication to their careers, and they quickly fell in love. Although there is a full 8-year difference between them, they firmly believe that they can support each other and pursue their dreams together. So, in 2010, the couple finally tied the knot.
The first time was undoubtedly a happy one. As a film and television investor, Fu Dalong went all out to support Rao Minli's acting career and gave her great creative space. Rao Minli also devoted herself to filming and learning without slackening, and her career is thriving.
However, as the years passed, contradictions gradually surfaced.
As a professional woman, Rao Minli is well known for her love and dedication to her career, but it also makes her often neglect her family responsibilities as a wife. Fu Dalong originally expected his wife to share the heavy responsibilities of the family, but Rao Minli often devoted a lot of time to work.
Once, Rao Minli missed an important gathering of her family due to her busy filming tasks, which made Fu Dalong angry, and the two had a fierce quarrel. Fu Dalong felt that she should learn to find a balance between career and family, rather than putting personal pursuits above everything else.
However, for Rao Minli, who only thinks about fighting for her career, this is tantamount to a fool's dream.
In addition, due to the huge difference in the educational background and values of the two, it has also led to many disputes. Fu Dalong came from a traditional family and adhered to traditional values, while Rao Minli was relatively independent and open-minded, advocating equality between men and women. She resolutely could not tolerate any form of restraint.
Although the two have tried to repair their relationship several times since then, in the end, these differences will be difficult to bridge. Rao Minli painfully realizes that they don't seem to have a common pursuit of life from the beginning.
After 12 years of bumpy married life, they finally announced their official divorce in February 2022, and this relationship finally lost to the cruel reality.
2. Review Rao Minli's acting career and the peak moment of her career
Rao Minli has had the dream of becoming an actress since she was a child. In 1995, she was finally admitted to the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy as she wished, and since then she has embarked on a journey to realize her dream.
When she was studying at school, Rao Minli has always been diligent and dedicated to her studies, with excellent professionalism and a strong enterprising spirit, after successfully completing her studies in 2000, she successfully stepped into the field of film and television. In the beginning, her role was mostly insignificant, but she was never discouraged, but always diligent, dedicated and courageous.
Opportunity is always in favor of those who are prepared. Finally, in 2003, Rao Minli won the first prize in the college's first short film competition for writing, directing and acting, which is not only the best reward for her hard work, but also a strong proof of her emergence in the circle, laying a solid foundation for her status in the film and television industry.
In the years since, Rao Minli's works have emerged one after another, and her popularity and strength have grown day by day. The TV series she participated in, such as "Journey to the West" and "Women's Fragrance", all of which have a good reputation. It is particularly worth mentioning that in 2007, she won the "Hundred Flowers Award" for Best Actress, and her career entered a new stage.
From 2008 to 2015, it can be said that Rao Minli had a brilliant period in her career. She starred in a series of popular film and television dramas such as "Condor Iron Horse" and "Song Family Dynasty", which not only received enthusiastic responses from the audience, but also won many important awards such as "Golden Rooster Award" and "Hundred Flowers Award", with an average of one classic every year.
Not only that, Rao Minli also won the admiration of the famous actor Fu Dalong. The two hit it off at first sight, hated each other late, and quickly fell in love. As a senior film and television investor, Fu Dalong is full of confidence in Rao Minli's career, not only generously funded her to shoot movies, but even set up a family-style operation team for her to provide all-round support.
At that time, Rao Minli and Fu Dalong could be called a "model couple" in the film and television industry: he had a successful career, wealth and power, and her career was booming and famous. They seem to have stood at the pinnacle of their lives and are destined to spend the rest of their lives together.
However, married life is not all smooth sailing. With the passage of time, the contradiction between Rao Minli and Fu Dalong gradually emerged.
As a representative of professional women, Rao Minli's dedication and dedication in the field of career are all remarkable! In her work, she is courageous and dedicated, and even shows a fascinated work state on many occasions, devoting herself to the acting career and the learning process of continuous self-improvement.
Being on the go all year round, often not being able to reunite with family for most of the year.
However, Fu Dalong is also a successful person, but he cherishes the importance of family life even more. After getting married, he looks forward to his wife being able to spend more time with her family and share the joy of family.
However, Rao Minli often devotes a lot of time to work, which undoubtedly makes Fu Dalong feel disappointed and angry.
Once, Rao Minli was unable to attend an important family gathering due to work reasons, which made Fu Dalong angry and almost on the verge of exploding. The two had a heated argument over this, and Fu Dalong blamed her for putting her personal pursuits above her family, and Rao Minli insisted that career was undoubtedly crucial for a person who was on the rise.
The two sides have irreconcilable differences over this issue. Fu Dalong believes that she should learn to find a balance between career and family, but for Rao Minli, who is dedicated to pursuing her career, this is undoubtedly a luxury.
In addition, due to the differences in their educational backgrounds and values, many differences have also emerged. As a child of a family, Fu Dalong is more conservative and respects traditional values, while Rao Minli is more independent and open, advocating equality between men and women and emancipating the mind. She is adamantly opposed to any form of nepotism.
The contradiction between the two gradually escalated and intensified. Although there have been many attempts to resolve the issue through communication, these deep-seated differences have not been resolved.
Rao Minli painfully realizes that they seem to have difficulty in having a true common life pursuit from the beginning.
After 12 years of ups and downs in their married life, the two finally officially announced their divorce in February 2022, ending this marriage that was destined to be full of tragedy. At that time, Rao Minli was only 34 years old, and Fu Dalong was 42 years old.
Facing the media camera, Rao Minli's eyes revealed a hint of melancholy and sadness, as if she was feeling deep regret and helplessness for the end of this relationship.
Divorce is a huge blow to Rao Minli. At the grand press conference announcing the divorce, her irrepressible pain was clearly visible, and her face was gloomy. She admits to the camera with a sincere face that her divorce from Fu Dalong has plunged her into deep pain, but this is an inescapable reality.
As an independent and brave professional strong woman, Rao Minli did not lose her fighting spirit due to divorce, let alone give up on herself because of this. On the contrary, she chose to devote herself to education and film and television creation with a more focused attitude, and went all out to get out of this shadow.
Whenever someone asks about the reason for the divorce, Rao Minli always tells her frankly that she and Fu Dalong have some unavoidable conflicts from the beginning, and the root cause is that the two have failed to find a true common life goal and values. After 12 years of struggle, they finally understood that they could no longer tolerate and understand each other.
Although divorce was a difficult decision, Rao did not feel resentment or self-defeating, but instead took on new challenges with a positive and optimistic attitude. She is convinced that although love is ultimately defeated by the cold reality, at least they have bravely chased their dreams, which is enough to make them proud.
After the divorce, Rao Minli still adhered to her duties as a public welfare ambassador, actively participated in various social activities, and devoted herself to teaching and film and television careers. Although she still feels a hint of melancholy at times, more often than not, she steps into a new chapter of her life with a resolute and sunny attitude.
5. Attitude towards work and life
Whether in career or life, Rao Minli has always adhered to a positive and courageous attitude.
With the dream of being an actress since she was a child, she devoted herself to research at the Beijing Film Academy, was diligent and studious, and finally realized her ideal and stepped into the film and television industry. In the years that followed, with her perseverance and fighting spirit, she gradually rose to prominence in the industry and gained a firm foothold.
Even after marriage, Rao Minli's love and focus on her career are still the same. She threw herself into her work, even sacrificing her family's responsibilities for the sake of a successful career.
It is this dedication and dedication that has ultimately helped her achieve remarkable results in her career.
Undoubtedly, she suffered a heavy blow for this - the deep relationship with Fu Dalong finally suffered a heavy blow. However, even though fate played tricks on people, Rao Minli never regretted her choice.
She resolutely said that everyone should be brave enough to chase their dreams and do their best, no matter whether they can achieve it in the end, it will be worthwhile!
In the face of life, Rao Minli always adheres to a positive and optimistic attitude. She knows that life is like this, and the joys and sorrows between gains and losses, joys and sorrows are always with us. The key is to learn to face the challenges of reality, deal with the joys and sorrows of life rationally, and always maintain that optimistic attitude.
Rao Minli firmly believes that as long as she has enough courage and determination to unswervingly pursue her dreams, she will one day be able to overcome all difficulties and obstacles, win a brilliant career and a happy life.
From her short but rich life journey, it is not difficult to see that this optimism and courage have been deeply integrated into her life beliefs.
6. Reflection and summary of divorce
The years have passed, and the pain caused by the divorce has gradually dissipated in Rao Minli's heart. Looking back now, she still feels a lot of emotion about that unforgettable emotional experience.
Rao Minli confessed that her love with Fu Dalong originated from falling in love at first sight. The two had a common career ideal and admired each other's achievements, so they entered the palace of marriage with confidence.
However, who would have predicted that this couple, who was once hailed as a "model couple," would come to the brink of breaking up? Rao Minli admits that the root of the problem lies in their irreconcilable differences in many aspects.
The huge difference in educational background and values makes them often conflict in their daily lives. To make matters worse, the lack of a common purpose in life ultimately leads them to become the biggest obstacle in each other's path.
As a professional woman, Rao Minli does not hesitate to put her career first, while Fu Dalong expects her to take care of the family like a traditional housewife.
Both sides were too stubborn and lacked the mind to tolerate and understand each other, which eventually led to the breakdown of the relationship. Rao Minli deeply regrets that if communication and understanding could have been strengthened at that time, perhaps their relationship story would not have ended so hastily.
However, she did not resentment or self-indulgence about marriage because of divorce, but admitted in a more determined and proud posture that in any case, the two had the courage to persistently pursue their dreams and happiness in their hearts, although they ended in divorce, but in the process, they stuck to the original promise, worthy of their hearts!
Now, Rao Minli has restarted her single life and devoted herself to her career and public welfare. She said that although she still believes in the existence of love, she will be more cautious in her next relationship, carefully selecting the person who can really connect with her heart.
After a failed marriage, she learned the lessons so deeply that she was determined not to repeat them.