Renting a house to get married, marriage lasting for 12 years but no children, such a married life can you accept?
Even idealists who shout the supremacy of love, when they encounter such a marriage, they must hesitate for three points.
However, such a thing really happened in the entertainment circle, the heroine of the event is not only 17 years old on the Spring Festival Gala, but also Liu Xiaoqing's successor, she is Rao Minli.
On February 18, 2022, the well-known actress Rao Minli and the film emperor Fu Dalong announced their divorce and ripped off the label of this model couple, and everyone glimpsed the lamentable truth behind it.
It is said that high climbing swallows needles, low marriage suffers sins, marrying poor boys to retire for love, in the past 12 years, is it really Rao Minli who has paid wrongly?
1. First acquaintance: I am old when I was born
Rao Minli has been the kind of child that other people envy since she was a child.
Born in 1984 in a family of scholars in Yuzhong District, Chongqing, Rao Minli grew up in such an environment and began to learn dance and piano at a young age.
When one side of the water and soil to support one side, the children of the same age are still crying because they can't eat snacks, Rao Minli has already come out of the place, the standard melon face, the white skin, the beautiful eyes like a galaxy, and a smile are loved.
In 1995, Rao Minli was admitted to the dance department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, and after graduation, she was assigned to the Avant-garde Song and Dance Troupe of the Political Department of the Jinan Military Region.
Perhaps because the work place is too far from home, or perhaps not satisfied with the secondary school education, in 2003, Rao Minli was once again admitted to the performance department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts with excellent results and began her university life.
Unlike Rao Minli's life, Fu Dalong was just a child of an ordinary worker's family.
His father was very strict with Fu Dalong from an early age, and in his childhood, he was either learning calligraphy, Peking Opera, and guqin, or practicing martial arts, which can be said to be the all-round development of "morality, intelligence, body, beauty, and labor".
However, the reason why Fu Dalong studied so many courses was not to cultivate his emotions, but to make a living.
In 1984, 8-year-old Fu Dalong participated in the movie "Winning the Lottery" for the first time;
In 1985, a year after Rao Minli's birth, Fu Dalong starred in the movie "Young Peng Dehuai" as the male lead, and won the Outstanding Performance Award at the Second China Film Child Cow Awards with this film.
From 1988 to 2006, Fu Dalong shot a total of five movies and five TV series.
If you want to talk about the person who remembers the most in the first half of his life, Fu Dalong may not hesitate to say the three words "Feng Xiaoning".
Perhaps they are all the famous "desperate three langs" in the industry, and the two know each other and have a feeling of pity for each other.
Feng Xiaoning admired Fu Dalong when he first saw him, so after the event, Feng Xiaoning handed an olive branch to Fu Dalong with great interest, and hinted brightly: "I may find you later."
This "later" is not Feng Xiaoning's polite words, a few months later, Feng Xiaoning's film "Meridian of War" started, and the male protagonist he approved was Fu Dalong, who had a one-sided relationship.
According to Feng Xiaoning himself, at this time, he has already begun to conceive of the next cooperation opportunity "Purple Sun".
Of course, Feng Xiaoning did not directly tell Fu Dalong about this idea, but instead warned like a knock: "There is a lot of potential for people who are more suitable than you." ”
In order to live up to Feng Xiaoning's expectations, Fu Dalong did not say a word and moved directly to a small village in Hebei Province, the purpose of which was to better guess the role.
It wasn't until more than a month later that Feng Xiaoning smiled at Fu Dalongzhan that the best film that would win the Golden Rooster Award for Chinese Cinema in the future was finally launched.
In 2007, Fu Dalong won the Best Actor Award at the 7th Chinese Film and Media Awards, the Best Actor Award at the 12th China Film Huabiao Awards, and the Best Actor Award at the 26th Golden Rooster Awards for Chinese Film.
During this period, Fu Dalong also completed his studies at the Beijing Film Academy and graduated with the first place in the class.
It is said that most people have a low degree of effort, and they have not reached the stage of fighting for talent, and that Fu Dalong is the one who works hard enough to avoid his talent.
At this time, Rao Minli, who is at the other end of the scale, has just begun to contact the entertainment industry.
In 2004, Rao Minli, who had just entered her freshman year, signed up for CCTV's first comedy sketch contest, and with her excellent performance in the work "Advertising and Telling", Rao Minli won the second prize, and thus opened up her popularity.
Subsequently, Rao Minli successively filmed many film and television works such as "Zhenguan Long Song", "Gone Like the Wind", "Big Tomorrow", it is worth mentioning that Rao Minli's role in these works is the number of female one and female two.
There are many cases of overnight popularity in the entertainment industry, but as a newcomer in the industry, she has such dazzling achievements as soon as she debuts, and Rao Minli can be said to be very lucky.
It is precisely because of the rapid improvement of Rao Minli's coffee position that two originally unrelated parallel lines suddenly appeared to converge.
Under the introduction of friends, Rao Minli and her 8-year-old fu dalong met, and the relationship between the two was like thunder and fire, and since then it has been out of control.
2. Fall in love: Love is like grass
Generally speaking, the greater the age difference between lovers, the more unequal the social status and monetary treatment, but Fu Dalong and Rao Minli are just an exception - both of them are complete idealists.
For Fu Dalong, acting is not a tool for him to obtain wealth, but more like his "confidant".
Fu Dalong's acting skills are excellent, but at the same time, the requirements for the script are also quite high, and sometimes he does not meet the right role, Fu Dalong would rather refuse to work and stay at home than bow his head to capital.
So since 2006, Fu Dalong has been unemployed for a long time.
The other stars are Nijin Doujin, Fu Dalong pure for "love" power generation, during the filming of "Tengu", his whole body added up, only a hundred yuan in cash.
In order to meet the expenses of daily life, Fu Dalong even did hard work such as delivering takeaways, but even if he was half tired every day, Fu Dalong never thought of moving his own requirements and stuck to the bottom line.
In this regard, friends often ridicule Fu Dalong: In the entire entertainment industry, only you, the film emperor, are the poorest.
Fu Dalong himself is as willing as a glutton, 2l 2010's "Prequel to Detective Di Renjie", 2013's "The Vertical and Horizontal of the Great Qin Empire", 2018's "Entering The Capital", 2019's "Guihong"...
Counting the works that Fu Dalong participated in after 2007, basically returning the awards and the classics of the department, in addition, he has repeatedly served as a judge for major awards, which can be said to be the golden beam of the powerful actors in the 70s.
And since the ancient talent with the beauty, Fu Dalong's first girlfriend, is the circle of small and famous beauty Zeng Li.
When the two met, Zeng Licai had just emerged in the entertainment industry.
One day Zeng Li went to get takeaway, mistakenly regarded the partner who cooperated with the crew as a takeaway brother, so he walked up to someone and asked where her takeaway was, and this "takeaway brother" was not someone else, or Fu Dalong.
Seeing that Zeng Li misidentified, Fu Dalong was not angry, he first showed his identity, and then carefully and humorously resolved Zeng Li's embarrassment, comforting: "I did deliver takeaway before." ”
Movie emperor, takeaway... In just one sentence, Zeng Li aroused his infinite curiosity about Fu Dalong, and the two quickly fell in love.
But life is not only poetry and far away, rich dragon has talent, but also the lonely and proud heart of the talented son.
For the embarrassment of life, Fu Dalong has long been accustomed to it, but now that Zeng Li is with him, Fu Dalong suddenly understands what is called "paper short love long".
Catalyzed by chai rice oil and salt, this surging love finally turned into white rice on the wall a year later.
The choice that Zeng Li once made is now placed in front of Rao Minli, looking at her boyfriend who lived for the ideal and died for the ideal, Rao Minli plucked up the greatest courage in her life and secretly made up her mind: to accompany him through this journey.
For Rao Minli, love is invincible, even if the other party is empty-handed, even if she knows the fate of indulgence.
It is said that platonic love only exists in the movie, but Fu Dalong and Rao Minli try to carry Out Plato to the end.
During the love period, the most important thing the two do is to read books together, every time Rao Minli goes to find Fu Dalong, Fu Dalong is reading books, and over time, Rao Minli also likes to read.
The pages turned, the music whispered, and the cicadas outside the window kept chirping, and the two stayed in the room in silence for most of the day.
When the sun sets, Fu Dalong will ride a bicycle to take Rao Minli to the street to forage for food, plain and warm.
This life lasted for more than two years, during which Time Rao Minli had never eaten a big meal invited by Fu Dalong, let alone received a valuable gift, but the two seemed to have a drink and a happy look.
But not everyone can think like Rao Minli, not to mention how the material basis of Fu Dalong is, just by Rao Minli's own conditions, even if she does not find a boyfriend, her future life will not be worse.
Thinking of this, my friend hates iron not steel, twisting Rao Minli is a scolding: how to find a poor boyfriend?
Rao Minli was not impressed, and firmly explained to Fu Dalong: How can happiness be evaluated on a material basis? The spiritual fit between lovers is the most important.
So when Rao Minli was 26 years old and Fu Dalong was 34 years old, they got married.
Compared with the weddings of other celebrities, the wedding of Rao Minli and Fu Dalong can be described as minimalist to the extreme.
No family or friends invited to the wedding, the wedding night was spent in the rental room... The parents of both sides simply ate a meal, and the wedding was completed.
But when it comes to the absurdity of renting a house and getting married, in fact, it was first proposed by Rao Minli.
Soon after the wedding date was set, Fu Dalong began to plan to settle down, although the pocket was shy, but if you do not consider the location, the economy can still bear it.
However, the nature of the work of the two people often need to go to other places, Rao Minli suggested that if you want to buy a house, it is better to buy near the airport in Chaoyang District, and take the initiative to take out your savings and discuss with Fu Dalong to make a down payment.
Looking at Rao Minli, who was so sensible, Fu Dalong's parents could not sit down.
The wedding can not be done, the marriage room is not some of the words can not be said, so they decided to take out the house for the newlyweds to make a wedding room, go out to rent a house to make up.
After Rao Minli learned of the two old men's plans, how dare she accept it naturally? She immediately refused: I and Dalong are so young, we want to rent a house, how can we work hard for you?
In this way, the wedding was successfully held.
It's impossible to live in a rental house all your life, right?
Rao Minli thought to herself, but thinking of the strict requirements of her husband Fu Dalong to take over the drama, she patted her legs again and decided: More drama, she is not impossible to buy a house!
From 2010 to 2013, Rao Minli has participated in many film and television works such as "New Jade Guanyin", "I Want a Home", "Zhu Family Garden", "Sister Bride" and so on, of which in 2010 alone, Rao Minli took over three plays.
Rao Minli's efforts and hard work were all seen by Fu Dalong, but he still could not persuade himself to change the principle of taking over the play, and after repeated struggles, he chose to maintain the rhythm of the previous year's play and save money to buy a house.
House prices in Beijing are the same every day, and although both of them have been desperately saving money at work, they still can't make up for the down payment of the house.
3. Separation: Love goes with the wind
With the advent of the traffic era, the market for middle-aged male actors is gradually moving towards a cold winter.
Unless it is like Chen Daoming, who coexists with appearance, strength and reputation, the opportunities of other middle-aged actors can be said to be visible to the naked eye, of which Fu Dalong is one of the most typical examples.
It's one thing to know acting, it's another thing to know whether you can be remembered by the audience.
Fu Dalong's strict requirements for the script have led to his name gradually being forgotten by this generation of audiences, coupled with the fact that Fu Dalong's own appearance is not very distinctive, and over time, the film emperor will slowly disappear in the entertainment industry.
But at this time, Fu Dalong was still unwilling to bow to the world, and when there was a play, he would go to filming, and when there was no drama, he would stay at home and read books, practice words, and occasionally write novels.
Gold always shines, even if there is no drama to shoot, Fu Dalong still relies on the published poetry collections and novels to attract a certain degree of attention in the circle.
Friends may be sad or confused, but there is no doubt about one thing: Fu Dalong deserves admiration.
Indeed, Fu Dalong did not live up to his ideals in this life, nor did he live up to himself, but emotionally, he failed Rao Minli, who had accompanied him for twelve years.
Although Rao Minli faded out of the entertainment circle after marriage, but also indispensable to the gathering between classmates and friends, whenever someone asks where Rao Minli lives, Rao Minli will sincerely answer, saying that she is still renting a house.
The former students have long been famous, hearing Rao Minli's answer, some people were surprised, some people mocked, Rao Minli looked in the eyes, and her heart could not help but ripple.
Rao Minli will share these feelings with Fu Dalong after returning home from the party.
But for Fu Dalong, the house is not a necessity - there are dramas, books to read, there are novels published, all this is enough.
Perhaps it was her husband's long silence, or perhaps Rao Minli was fed up with the pain of moving, and all the dissatisfaction and grievances completely exploded at this moment, and she slowly began to examine the necessity of this relationship.
Without a house, their parents cannot come to Beijing to raise their children; There are no children, the husband only has ideals in his heart, and the couple is too shallow...
I don't know how long it took, but when Rao Minli came back to her senses again, her mood had already changed from anger to numbness.
Yes, about Fu Dalong, about this wedding, Rao Minli has paid too much, and the beautiful fantasies about the future seem to be just her singing a monologue.
On February 18, 2022, after 12 years of marriage, Rao Minli divorced Fu Dalong.
In fact, the end of this marriage was revealed as early as 2016.
During that time, the news of the two suspected divorces was full of news, some people said that fu dalong and Rao Minli began to separate after five years of marriage, and some people said that the two did not have children because fu dalong could not forget his old love.
But in any case, the truth may be like the two divorce declaration copy "everything is better, cherish each other", is the end, but also a new beginning.
What's wrong with Fu Dalong? He simply obeyed his heart and chose the path that he thought was more important.
What's wrong with Rao Minli? She just sees the truth and chooses to achieve Fu Dalong's ideals and ambitions.
The fate is shallow, the love is far-reaching, not so much that it is not love, but that Fu Dalong and Rao Minli have tried their best.
After 4 months, after looking at the divorce of Fu Dalong and Rao Minli, I realized that divorce was the best choice.