As the saying goes, "feelings without material things are like a mess", so how long can a marriage without a fixed house and no children last? Fu Dalong and Rao Minli are the truest portrayals.
Looking at it after a few months of divorce, the marriage has come to an end, whose fault is it? Although the statements of the two men explicitly stated a "peaceful breakup". But fans with hearts will find that these are just "the usual routines of divorce in the entertainment industry". Perhaps there are traces in the daily lives of two people.
Rich Dragon Rao Minli first met
Looking back at the road when Fu Dalong and Rao Minli came, you will find that the problems of the two people are far more than imagined, and it is not surprising that they have come to this day. Rao Minli debuted in 2015, once starred in "Zhenguan Long Song", became famous for the role of the second female "Begonia" in the play, was known as "Little Liu Xiaoqing" by the outside world, and then starred in many works, which also allowed her to gain recognition in the circle, and the film contracts continued.
And Fu Dalong, a child star debuted, is also a senior actor, and then won three film emperors with the movie "Tengu". When the two people first met, Rao Minli felt that Fu Dalong would be very rustic, and his appearance would not be outstanding.
In 2006, under the introduction of a makeup artist, Fu Dalong met Rao Minli. Although the difference between the two people is 8 years, the first impression is not very good, but these do not affect the breeding of love. One is a powerful actor in the industry, and the other is a popular Dan who is constantly in the film. From either point of view, this pair of talented women is a perfect match.
It is worth mentioning that although Fu Dalong is famous, he does not have much income. Because of adhering to the bottom line and principles, Fu Dalong only accepts some "high-quality dramas", which has extremely high requirements for the script, and it is even more to the point of Ning Que and not indiscriminate, preferring not to shoot dramas and not to pick up some plays of poor quality.
You can imagine how his quality of life is. In order to live, Fu Dalong has done a lot of low-level work, delivered takeaways, worked as a teacher, and when he was the poorest, he only had 200 yuan left on his body. Therefore, he was also jokingly called "the poorest movie emperor"
But Rao Minli didn't care, and she wanted to marry Fu Dalong. At the beginning of 2010, the two people walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, for many women, the most glorious moments in life, who do not want the scenery.
But Fu Dalong simply brought the parents of the two families together and simply ate a meal. There is no feast, and there is no so-called ceremony. After marriage, the two people are even more low-key and do not look like star entertainers at all. After getting married, Rao Minli focused on the family, only occasionally made some cameos, and Fu Dalong also took these hidden tolerances as a matter of course.
In the eyes of many people, this is the most beautiful look of love, low-key luxury has connotations. But from a woman's point of view, it seems more like silence and anticipation.
After a few months of divorce, looking at the marriage of Fu Dalong and Rao Minli, people who come over have more say.
Since the two people got married, there seems to be a kind of "injustice" that fills the atmosphere of getting along. On the surface, it looks calm and calm, but in fact it is a dark tide. Sentient drinking water is full, not necessarily can really be "full". No matter how strong the love, it will become another feeling under the infestation of chai rice oil and salt.
Fu Dalong is a man who is at ease with his encounters, and in his eyes, as long as he can maintain food and clothing, this is enough. In Rao Minli's heart, the husband can endure loneliness, as long as people are honest and poor, it doesn't matter, this is the happiest appearance. To the outside world, they also look like a pair of "fairy lovers".
I have to say that the ideal is very full, and the reality is particularly punching the face. Rao Minli gradually discovered that Fu Dalong was still very Buddhist and did not realize the responsibility of the family. Still maintaining the style of the past, only accepting the works they like, and other characters will not look at them more even if they have more money.
For an actor, this is a bottom line and a principle. But for a man in a family, I think most women prefer their husbands to be family-oriented. Two people have not had children after marriage, in the face of the urging of both parents, and then think of the arrival of future children, the money is not enough to support children, Rao Minli feels that life is hopeless.
Her idea is not unreasonable. For fans, Fu Dalong is a dedicated actor and a principled faction. But for Rao Minli, it is more like a distant "dream", and every day she is looking forward to it, and Fu Dalong can suddenly wake up and become the pillar of the whole family.
"Sentient drinking water" but can it last?
But over time, this expectation will turn into disappointment, and after the disappointment, the final result is a breakup. Without a material basis, can it really be long-lasting just by "sentient drinking water"? Fu Dalong and Rao Minli gave an objective answer.
One is content with the status quo, one is prepared, and the marriage concept of two people seems to be a kind of "painting bread to fill hunger" from the beginning. Fu Dalong felt that Rao Minli was not materialistic and was a very virtuous woman. And Rao Minli feels that although Fu Dalong is not popular, he will definitely become famous in the future.
Unexpectedly, the reality is so cruel, and this man's principle of dealing with his career has hurt the stability of the family. Only take on their favorite plays, rarely think about the future, or even have no plans for the future, although the two people have lived together for many years, the quality of life has not improved.
Who is the reason for all this? Why didn't Rao Minli have children? A seemingly harmonious marriage is ultimately defeated by reality. Two people, one chasing fame and fortune, cherishing their feathers, and one longing for a stable family, live the ideal life.
Two people are like parallel lines, not on one level at all. Sticking to it for 12 years and finally breaking up peacefully is also a kind of fulfillment for each other, which is the best choice.
Can you say that Fu Dalong did something wrong? From an artistic point of view, he is not wrong, and even sets a good weather vane. But when it comes to family, he's really not very rational. So did Rao Minli do it wrong? 12 years of perseverance and expectation, she has saved too many disappointments, and there is nothing wrong with longing for a "stable and down-to-earth", which is the wish of many women.
Marriage is a matter of two people, as a man, since marriage should have a sense of responsibility for the family, when the family's life is tight, their preferences are no longer important, and whose efforts are not taken for granted.
We can believe that sentient beings are full of water, but we can't just believe in it and not change the status quo. I believe that after two people are separated, they will find their own happiness, so do you think that the material basis in marriage is important? Welcome to leave a message to discuss
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