Family education has a profound impact on a person, affecting the formation of personality, affecting the style of dealing with the world, and even affecting the direction of future life.
If a person grows up in an environment where their parents quarrel and fight, then when they grow up, they will generally become an extremely insecure, but grumpy person. If the atmosphere of a family is very good, the home is full of harmony, and the home is full of happiness and laughter, such a person will also be gentler and healthier in personality, and it is easier to get along with others in a friendly way.
In family education, the role of mothers cannot be ignored, but the role of fathers is also crucial, and both are indispensable. But in many real lives, dads often use busyness as an excuse to be absent from their children's education. Help with homework, find your mother, pick up and drop off your mother for school, find your mother in food, clothing, housing, and transportation. In fact, many families are like this, some women sacrifice their jobs for the sake of the family, full-time with their babies.
Men are busy with work, neglecting the education of their children, and no one will blame them, but women are different, as long as the children have a little problem, it is your business. In fact, the education of fathers is an irreplaceable role in the growth of children.
Father's self-confidence and sense of self-worth are derived from the father, if the child grows up, meets an unqualified father, it will affect the cultivation of good character. If a child becomes inferior and cowardly, timid and insecure, and has many problems in personality, it must have met these types of fathers. To put it mildly, such a child will become more and more unproductive.
1. Unwilling to accompany children
Many male parents with children, basically mobile phones do not leave their hands, especially at home, as long as they watch the children do not run around, do not have accidents, continue to lie in bed and play mobile phones. The child wants the father to play with him for a while, and he is particularly reluctant, and he is not willing to accompany the child to play games, nor is he willing to tell stories with the child, which is actually just an ineffective accompaniment, not only can not play the role of companionship, but also brings negative effects and influences to the child.
Such a father, who has no sense of responsibility, is unwilling to pay a little time for his children, and behaves selfishly. The child will certainly become such a person in the future, because the parents are the mirror of the child, what the parents are, and the child's future disposition may also unconsciously become that kind of person. The vicious circle of generation after generation goes on, it is really a rat, stirring up a pot of soup.
Studies have shown that children brought up by dads have high IQ, intelligence, strong hands-on ability, strong communication skills, good at learning, good at communication, and good academic performance. The premise is that there is a father who is willing to pay for his children. Good behavior habits as the foundation, good living habits as the foreshadowing, children will grow into very good people in the future.
2, deny the mother to pay the father
I believe that there will be a few unqualified men around everyone, who feel that it is natural for mothers to take children, wash and cook, and take care of the family. I feel that all the things that women do for the family are deserved, without the slightest feeling of gratitude and gratitude. Even after encountering things, they will blame and scold women in front of their children.
Dad's behavior is bound to affect the child's cognition, and the father's disrespect for the mother will cause the child to turn a blind eye to the mother's efforts. I don't feel how great my mother is, and I don't feel how hard my mother is. When he grows up, there may be the following situations, boys do not respect their wives, will feel that their wives' efforts are deserved, and will become selfish. Girls can go against the grain in their married life, a vicious cycle from generation to generation. True happiness cannot be harvested from beginning to end.
3. No patience for children
Any needs of the child, will be very impatient to treat, when the child wants toys, push off the next time to buy, but the next time still did not buy, the child needs comfort, full of expectations of the front of the runway dad, but a disdainful face said, what is sad, go to the living room to play. In short, there is no patience for children.
The children raised by fathers who are impatient with their children are also full of problems, and most of the boys raised are only promises, timid and cowardly, which will also have a great impact on the formation of the three views in the future. Such a family lacks the temperature of love, and lacks the attention and care that each other should have before, and all this will be imperceptibly integrated into the child's cognition and three views.
4, often cry poor dad
Many ordinary families do not have abundant economic conditions, which is also a matter of reproach, after all, the pressure of life is on the table? But a man often tells his children that if the family is poor, he can't buy it, and he can't ask for it. Often instill a very poor thought in children, so that children over time, become cautious, become afraid to spend money, spend more money will have a sense of guilt, poor is not terrible, terrible is the heart poor.
If you want your child not to be affected by parents, you can prepare more meaningful books for your children, let children develop a good character from books, establish correct three views, and must be recommended to read more to children, when the time comes, children will have unexpected gains, and parents can also save effort in educating children.
The book "Financial And Business Enlightenment Book for Children" can cultivate children's sense of wealth, and the concept of money, really show money in front of children, and do not avoid, but face money.
Let the child have a step understanding of money, and have a sense of ignorance about making money, saving money, and spending money.
Through the small stories in the text, I understand more about how to make money, spend money, and develop a correct view of money.
The book is illustrated and textual, showing the true meaning of money in an all-round way, how to deal with it when borrowing money, and when borrowing other people's money, there must be borrowing and repayment, and cannot be in arrears.
Let children develop a correct concept of consumption, do not waste, do not spend money and spend lavishly.
How many children grow up to spend money without the slightest rationality, that is, there is no concept of money.
It tells how many celebrities manage money, money makes money, so that children have a preliminary understanding and cognition.
The pictures are very attractive, can stimulate children's interest in reading, and have a strong sense of substitution.
Through the knowledge in the book, children can understand the concept of financial management, which will help differently in their future lives.
In short, this book can make children face up to money and form a good value and outlook on life. Children have strong ability to have three views, as far as parents are concerned, prepare some good books for their children's education, so that education can be twice as effective.
The child is cultivated well, and the financial business is in place to fear that the child will not have the ability to make money when he grows up?
Every parent must not let their neglect and willfulness have a negative impact on their children and cause regrets in life. All need to reflect, always introspect, change themselves, let themselves become a good example for children, and become a guide on the road of children's growth.