Parents with children at home will know that expecting their children to consciously do housework and learn consciously is really a fool's dream. Indeed, people are born to like a comfortable state, and who is born to love to find bitter food. Therefore, children are not born with the habit of learning, all of which depend on the guidance and cultivation of their parents.
Some time ago, because there were too many things at home and too annoying, I let my daughter in the first grade consciously write homework and review it after writing homework. I couldn't imagine that my daughter could really write her homework alone, and when she was done, she came to tell me that the homework had been written.
I am quite satisfied in my heart, after all, my daughter is only 7 years old, and it is really not easy to do this step. However, after I finished my busy work, I checked the homework written by my daughter and found that the quality of the completion was too poor, and the obviously simple mathematical addition and subtraction method made several mistakes. Usually, when I write with me, I will never make such a mistake.
I was thinking that usually I accompanied my daughter to write homework, and there was a period of time in the middle for her to write by herself, and there was a problem. So, children who have not been accompanied by their parents for a long time, can their homework be written well? Can the assignment be completed?
Therefore, when the child is young, parents really have to accompany and supervise her, so that she can develop good study habits after she goes to the upper grade. Otherwise, when the child is older and does not listen to the parents, it will be too late to go to the sheep to make up for it. And to cultivate good learning habits in children, you can do this.
1. When your child comes home from school, write his homework first
In today's families, parents have to go to work to earn money to support the family, and when the children come home from school, they may be alone at home. Without the supervision of parents, children will not think about writing homework at the first time, but play with toys, or watch TV and so on.
Well, when your parents come home from work, cook and cook, and then eat, the time may have reached about 8 p.m. The child's homework has not been written yet, and he can only desperately rush to catch up with the homework, as for the quality of the homework, the child has not thought about it.
Therefore, parents must make an agreement with their children to come home from school, and they must first write homework. When parents come home from work, they should check the completion of their children's homework. By persevering in this way, the child can develop the habit of going home to write homework first.
2. Register the homework every day and complete it item by item
When my family was in the first grade, I had such a situation. The homework assigned by the teacher often missed that night, and when I came home the next day, I was told what homework was missed, and the teacher asked to make it up.
This happens often, and the mother's heart is very anxious. I discussed with my daughter that every day the teacher wrote the homework that needed to be written on the blackboard and registered it in a special book. For example, in language, 1 is what to do, 2 is what to do; mathematics, 1 is what to do, 2 is what to do.
When I get home from school, I follow the assignments registered in the book and complete them one by one. When one item is finished, put a tick on it, and when all the homework is completed, check whether there are any omissions.
Since using this method, my daughter's homework has not been missed.
3. After writing the homework, check it
As I mentioned above, during the time when I was not with my daughter, my daughter wrote her homework for the sake of completing her homework, and would not consciously pursue the quality of completion.
Then, we can discuss with the child, after each homework, we must check it first before handing it to the mother. Otherwise, the mother will not help the child to read it, nor will she sign the homework book.
The purpose of this is to make children develop the habit of writing homework and checking. When your child enters the upper grades, he will find out how much this habit plays a role.
4, encounter will not do, you have to ask your parents
Even if the child listens carefully to the lessons at school and goes home to review carefully, he will not do some problems that he will not do. I have a lot of experience with that.
Remember a math problem that asks your child to figure out the patterns between numbers and then fill in the space with the correct number. My daughter hadn't been exposed to math at all before she was in first grade, and it was really hard for her to figure out the patterns of numbers. At first, I had the idea of letting my daughter try it out and see if she could make it herself.
As a result, the daughter thought that she couldn't do it for half a day, and directly gave up and didn't do it. I can only patiently guide my daughter on how to find the rules. Then ask the daughter, you can't do it, why not ask the mother? My daughter told me, Mom, I'm afraid you'll call me stupid.
Parents really have patience when tutoring their children to write homework, don't think that such a simple topic, why they will not do it, and blame the child. Friends around me once said that when encountering primary school topics, parents can proudly say that it is too simple, and when they encounter junior high school topics, most parents are confused.
Therefore, when the child encounters homework that will not be done, guide the child to ask the parents. If the parents can't, ask the child to consult the teacher.
Written in the end: The child is like a blank piece of paper, how far he can grow, what learning habits he can develop, all of which depends on the parents. Moreover, we must know that it is not easy for children to develop a good learning habit, which requires us to pay a lot of time and energy. (The picture is from the network, if there is infringement, it must be deleted)