The so-called world is not difficult, the mediocre people disturb themselves, basically it is said that if you can put it down, you will not be lonely, you will be clear when you stand farther away, you will not feel it if you do not fantasize, and you will not care if you do not expect it.
But unfortunately, most people are laymen, many things many people just can't put down, their eyes are not far enough, and they often love to fantasize about some things that are not, and they will look forward to some impossible things.
Although such people will be prone to various troubles in their lives, at the same time, they will also have more different tastes than people who look down on everything.
If you really don't care about anything and don't expect anything, then it doesn't matter whether tomorrow comes or not, and what is the purpose of living?
So whether it is love or life, there must be some expectations and fantasies, not to mention, who dares to be sure that it will not come true in the end, maybe the person you love is also in love with you at the moment.
And those men who are emotional for you will often have these three "worries", do not ignore.
1, worry that you do not love yourself
Even if you have clearly told the other person that you love him and love him, they still can't help but worry that you don't love yourself.
It could be that you are smiling happily while you are talking to other men, or it may be that you are crossing the road with other men and the distance between the two people is relatively close.
These details that you didn't even care about, but they all remembered them, and they began to worry about what they didn't have.
It may even lead to jealousy, small temper, careful eyes, and start listing all kinds of things that restrict you, and you may be bored by this, but you have to admit that this is a manifestation of men loving you.
Of course, this kind of restriction is measured, if it is beyond the scope of your tolerance, you must communicate with the other party in time, and you cannot let them go too far.
The best way to solve such problems is to give them enough security and tell the other party that they are the only one in their hearts.
2, worry that you are not good enough
In the eyes of the so-called lover, you may be just a very ordinary person in the eyes of others, but in the eyes of the lover, you are very good, even good enough for all men to remember.
Therefore, such an excellent you will make them worry that they are not good enough, that they are not worthy of you, that they cannot go hand in hand with you, and that they will be pointed out by others.
At the same time, they will also worry about whether you will fall in love with others if there are people in your life who are better than themselves, and where they will go.
In fact, such men often have some inferiority in their bones, so they will have such thoughts and feel that they are inferior to others.
Even if they are already very good now, they are still not self-aware or unconfident, and if this idea is allowed to continue, it is likely to affect each other's feelings and bring a fatal blow.
Therefore, everyone must encourage and praise each other, let them realize their excellence, help them build self-confidence, so that the relationship can be more stable.
3, worry that the two will not be together for a long time
Sentimentality is often used to describe women, but in fact, some men are far more delicate than women, and such people are often sentimental.
Even if the two are very happy together at the moment, they may think of the two because they have watched a sad movie or a novel with a bad ending, and they can't help but worry that you will not be together for a long time.
To be sure, the men who will have such worries must love you very much and have great expectations for your future.
If you don't love, then the future will only become you are you, he is him, there is no intersection between each other, how can you worry about separation?
In this kind of worry, there are also insecurity factors, so everyone should often show their love, let the other party know your feelings, firm confidence together, and will not produce some unwarranted emotions because of those things that are not there.
Maybe for some women, men who will have these worries are actually quite annoying, feeling that the other party not only failed to take good care of themselves, but also had to take on the role of guardian in turn.
Everyone's personality, there are some parts that cannot be accepted, even the most beautiful people are the same, so don't blame others, don't blame yourself, roses have thorns, will be roses.
Everything is good and bad, and I believe that men who have these qualities will have some advantages in them that attract you at the same time that you dislike them.
We can't just want the good parts of the other party, but not the bad places, so how can such a person be, let you emotional him?
If you figure this out, and then look back at the other party and the relationship, it will become different, and it will also allow you to maintain enough sanity when you encounter other problems in the future, and you will not be easily swayed by emotions, and you will not give up lightly.