Likes, it seems, is also divided into many kinds. Some people say that they like it, but they never show it, and they just stay on their lips.
Some people like, just a little like, can like this person, can also like that person, their own like is just an appreciation, limited to a certain aspect, but also may change at any time.
A like, there has always been a deep and shallow, shallow like, but it is only a superficial phenomenon, it has not been in the heart at all, at that time, even if we feel liked, we will still have various trade-offs. And a particularly deep like, a heartfelt like, we often forget our own principles.
When we are single, when it comes to what kind of object we want to find, we will always have a lot of standards.
Most of the time, looking for the other half, we will often follow this standard, but anyone who is not suitable, will not be willing to give the other party any chance, will only directly screen the other party.
In our eyes, some of the behavior of others will seem very childish and annoying, but if he is making some mistakes, and has some childish behavior, we will not think so, but will only feel very cute.
It is really the lover's eyes out of the West, because like, we like each other's advantages, but also love each other's shortcomings, each other's words and deeds, in our eyes, all of them are particularly attractive.
From then on, we have no other standard, that person is our standard, our only desire.
Whether you fall in love with someone from the bottom of your heart, whether you will feel pain because of the other party, that has always been a good standard.
If we only like a person when the positive energy is full, whenever the other party is not in a good mood, we will only feel disappointed and want to run away, leaving the other party alone to face, then our likes are really not true.
The real like is that it will be very painful for the other party, the unhappiness of the other party, the difficulty of the other party, and the bits and pieces of the other party. Always hope that the other party can be happy, hope that all the things of the other party can go smoothly.
Will use practical actions, to carefully care for each other, will always want to pay for each other, give the best everything to each other, no matter how much, still feel that there can be more, they can do better.
In life, we will meet a lot of people, too many people, once there is any contradiction between each other, what happens, we often feel intolerable, very easy to choose to give up on each other.
Loving someone, and between that person, from time to time, there will also be some unpleasantness, and there will be many problems.
The difference is that when the problem occurs, we are not so extreme, even if one side is sad because of the other party, in the heart, we will also find excuses for each other, let ourselves forgive each other, do not hurt each other's feelings.
We will really be particularly generous, and we will always be particularly tolerant, willing to accommodate each other, and take the initiative to reconcile.
At any time, we will not easily want to give up on each other, but will only find ways to solve the problems that exist between each other, so that each other's path can become more open.
Like a person from the bottom of your heart, that is different from other likes.
Once we really have such a person in our hearts, we will start to be less principled, we will always put each other first, we will be special, and we will want to be able to stay with each other for a long time.
Too much like, in fact, will be so, will be lost, will become unintelligent, will voluntarily become stupid.
From now on, I will still love myself, but I will love each other even more. The degree of care and care for the other party is even far beyond oneself.