Several old classmates got together and talked about the child, and one of the children's fathers said: I said I want another boy, and she said she didn't agree with anything. And Bao Mom retorted on the side: What should my daughter do if I have a boy? Will she have a psychological shadow? I feel that Mom and Dad value sons over daughters.
And another old classmate is a girl who has objections: I think I should have a boy, if I can have a boy, I will not have a second child, if my husband has a girl, then I will definitely have a second child.
Another old classmate of the two children said: "Never have a daughter again." Why are we still so patriarchal as modern people? This question must be asked clearly. However, after listening to everyone's reasons, I understood that the real reason for the original reluctance to have girls was not as simple as son preference.
The first reason is that the older the daughter, the more worried she is
All the mothers who have given birth to girls believe that children are still very easy in the process of parenting, because they are relatively easy to carry, very well-behaved, very sensible, early to understand some things, and it is easy to become a small adult in the family, may understand the state of parents and mothers, but also know how to coax parents to be happy. However, as they get older, the advantages of big girls gradually decrease, after all, they are going to get married in the future, that leaving mom and dad alone at home, may seem very lonely, in addition, girls are older to involve finding a boyfriend to marry, and this series of processes is very worrying for parents.
Especially when a mother, you have to worry about the child, this worry about the child, that worry about whether the child is safe outside, whether the person is guaranteed, and so on. The state of the boys is very naughty when they are young, it is difficult to manage, but as they grow older, they become the pillars of the family, and the manhood can bear more for the family, and it has become the strength of the family.
The second reason is that the daughter's education is not good, and the future will be more troublesome
Many people think that if their daughters are not well educated, they can marry early, but in fact, this is not the case.
Those children who are not well educated in the early days will not get happiness after marriage, and their sad urge is something that every parent does not want to see, so now people will also invest a lot of energy in their daughters, hoping that children will have a special focus on learning or strengths to ensure that their children's families can live better in the future.
Nevertheless, there are still many problems that children may face after they marry, which is a question that parents cannot answer and avoid, so more people, saving themselves the trouble of the future, also prefer to have a boy.
As a boy, the family will do its best to cultivate, of course, take ten thousand steps back, the child has not been cultivated, the child is at most under the protection of the parents to find a job within their ability, as long as they can support the family, they can assume the strength of the family.
In fact, as far as the current situation is concerned, giving birth to a boy and giving birth to a girl is not so important to a family, what is important is the family's feelings and disharmony? This will determine the future direction of the children in the family and their happy experience.
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