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In the world of feelings, sometimes there is a lot of helplessness. Many things can be worked on, but love is hard work without results, all depending on the other party's will.
Like someone who once made an appointment with a whitehead, you never know when you're going to part ways.
Love is the most difficult thing to grasp, sincerity may not be able to get a response, and effort may not necessarily be rewarded.
When a person loves you, he may really love you; but if he doesn't love, that is, he really doesn't love, then there is no point in your efforts to save it.
But I couldn't put it down, so I kept falling into self-denial and doubt, and finally I couldn't hold back and had to force myself to let go.
So, many times, those who block the deletion, often love you the most.
At the beginning of the relationship, it is a matter of two people, but separation is only one person to decide, which is probably the most cruel place of love.
When a person is with you, he will love you and spoil you, but if he wants to be separated, he will try to force you to leave.
In the adult world, there is really no black and white distinction, only love and no love.
No love, you are nothing, your giving, the other party can not see, he will only selfishly satisfy his own selfish desires, desperately want to separate.
In fact, when a person has the idea of leaving, there is no point in how you keep it. You can't touch someone who doesn't love you, just as you can't wake up someone who pretends to be asleep.
Feelings are so unreasonable, and if you don't love the beauty of the past, it will disappear.
Everyone's attitude and way of treating feelings is different, and for people who value feelings, it is difficult to say that they let go.
In a relationship, the person who moved the heart is often the one who loses the most, and it may take a few years to really let go.
But people can't watch the people they love in their own world, indifferent to themselves, so many people have to block and delete in order to force themselves to put down, and want to completely bid farewell to the past in this way.
For those who block and delete, in fact, they often care about you more than any one person.
Because I know that it is impossible, I would rather suffer myself than watch the loved one appear in my life like this all the time.
On the contrary, you can be calm to you, and when you are separated, you can also find you from time to time, and the people who get along with you normally have never really loved at the beginning.
I haven't touched my heart, so I don't have much feeling in my heart. People who have truly loved cannot be friends at all.
When a person chooses to end this relationship by blacking out and deleting, in fact, the other party's heart is a lot of helplessness, seemingly decisive, in fact, more afraid of repeating the same mistakes.
I even want to force myself to recognize reality in this way and force myself to let go.
Some people say that the cruelest way to love someone is to start by adding the other person's contact information and ending with deleting the other person's contact information.
A process from existence to non-existence is difficult to accept and release, but you have to force yourself to let go. Therefore, those who really block and delete are actually the most affectionate.
summary:
Feelings of this kind of thing, probably only their own knowledge, cold and warm self-knowledge, people who have moved the truth will only lose more miserably, the more painful.
Therefore, behind many emotional decisions, there is endless affection and tears. Because the other person gave the best love to each other and kept the pain to themselves.