Life is fast-paced these days, and many people don't find the right partner for a variety of reasons. Some are because of personality reasons, and some are because of small circles. So there are a lot of "older leftover women", at this time there are many blind date platforms to spawn, intervene in the marriage market, and help the elderly leftover women and leftover men find a partner. No, such a business is not easy to do.
Ms. Yu of Ningbo is more than 30 years old this year, doing education and training industry, there is still no one who can be entrusted for life, and her family is anxious about her marriage. A few days ago, she saw an advertisement for a red bride company in the elevator of the community, so she went to find out.
Ms. Yu said that Red Niang claims that she is an old red bride in the industry, much more professional than other institutions, and there is a "precise and high match" service. Ms. Yu paid 16,000 yuan and signed a marriage introduction service contract with the other party, which did not write the length of the service period, saying that she would effectively meet 6 to 8 men.
The man turned and left, feeling inappropriate
First of all, let me explain that Ms. Yu's personality is relatively strong. The first meeting was a bit frustrating for Ms. Yu. Ms. Yu reacted, and talked with the first man for less than 10 minutes, and the boy inexplicably left. She said that she didn't know what was happening, and she forgot what she talked about, which was something very ordinary.
Therefore, Ms. Yu went to Manager Yang of The Red Lady Company and asked what was wrong.
Manager Yang said that after the first boy met with Ms. Yu, he felt that it was not a very call, and there was a period of silence between the two sides, so the boy felt that there might be nothing to talk about, so he felt that it was like this first, and then he left.
The two have different concepts, but they are not happy and dispersed
Later, HongNiang introduced a lawyer to Ms. Yu, who looked good, but after communication, Ms. Yu felt that the two people's concepts did not agree. The lawyer said that boys over the age of 30, if the annual income is OK, basically do not have to consider that there must be something outside.
Ms. Yu was very uncomfortable listening to this at that time, and felt that the concept of men must be wrong. Ms. Yu said that she is very clear that the object should be positive and full of expectations for marriage.
In response to this, Hong Niang said that the lawyer's comprehensive quality is still relatively high in all aspects, and he may say that he feels some views, not that he expounds these views, and he will actually do so.
With an annual salary of eight figures, both sides are strong
Ms. Yu said she was not satisfied with meeting five men in a row, and the sixth man was said to have an annual salary of 8 figures. After Ms. Yu met with him. The first thing the boy said was, "You didn't make my eyes light up." ”
Ms. Yu felt at that time that a person with an annual salary of 8 figures really should not say this, nor should she say this kind of paragraph. Ms. Yu put up with it at that time, wanting to see what other highlights he had. Ms. Yu retorted that the Red Lady said that you are usually quite able to say, how today's state is not very good, a sluggish look. The man said ms. Yu was the most direct girl he had ever met.
Ms. Yu then asked the man, "Is this person sitting opposite the wrong person?" Later, the boy said that it may not be a very good call, it is not over, and there is no follow-up.
Emphasize that men must be positive
Ms. Yu said that there was not even one person with the intention of communicating in the 6 meetings, and felt that the company did not have an accurate match.
Manager Yang explained that Ms. Yu's appearance is good, the blind date requirements are not high, they are constantly adjusting according to the meeting situation, but it is difficult to control the matter of finding a partner.
Manager Yang said that some people who look for objects will become one, and some who see 60 will not be successful. Accurate matching is to filter out some of her conditions, such as having a house and a car. Because Manager Yang's personality will be relatively independent and stronger, some boys may be weaker and feel inappropriate, and finally boys are relatively strong, which is not appropriate.
Ms. Yu said that the company does not understand her real needs, she has said many times, it is really not a house and car problem, but that boys should think positively, she feels that the difficulty is not very high, "I feel that I have spent money here and suffered a crime, this is the feeling." ”
Ms. Yu hopes that the company can terminate the contract and refund part of the money, Manager Yang said that at present, ms. Yu has not introduced ms. Yu to a satisfactory men's company has certain responsibilities, so it can help him continue to introduce, the two sides communicate again, and finally reached an agreement.