"Heart Residence" Feng Xiaoqin refused the house given to her by Gu Qingyu, and the real reason was very sad

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"Heart Residence" finale, Gu Qingyu suddenly decided to buy a suite for Feng Xiaoqin, the house was bought in the same building as her father, the suite was not cheap, but she did not hesitate to decide to buy it, and did not want Feng Xiaoqin to pay, the name of the house written Feng Xiaoqin, equivalent to directly sending her a suite.

Gu Qingyu regarded this as a compensation for Feng Xiaoqin's care for the Gu family for many years, especially in the period before her grandmother's death, Feng Xiaoqin was busy alone, and she finally stopped being hostile to her and saw the kindness in her heart.

On the other hand, it is out of her personal selfishness, because she wants to work in Singapore, worried that her father is alone here, if she buys a house for Feng Xiaoqin to be here with her father, then her father can see her grandson every day, so that her father will not be so lonely.

Buying a house is Feng Xiaoqin's biggest wish in her heart, and she feels that only by having a house that is completely her own can she really settle down in Shanghai, which is what she dreamed of.

Before she went around alone, borrowing money, is to buy a suite, how she borrowed money from Gu Qingyu can not borrow, and now Gu Qingyu took the initiative to give her a suite, she refused, and refused very crisply.

She only borrowed a down payment from Gu Qingyu and promised to pay it off within three years, and she paid off the mortgage herself. Many people think she is stupid, and some people send a room but don't want it. But in fact, she is not stupid at all, she does not want to take care of Qingyu's room, the real reason is actually quite bitter.

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At the beginning, when Feng Xiaoqin tried everything to borrow money from Gu Qingyu, Gu Qingyu always cleverly avoided her, that is, he was unwilling to lend her money.

One of the very important reasons is that this big sister is very defensive about Feng Xiaoqin, she feels that this woman is calculating her money, worried that after she gets the house, she will ignore her father and grandmother, worried that she will pick up her parents and sons from the countryside in the future, and then her brother will suffer.

Feng Xiaoqin knew it, she knew what the eldest sister thought, but she didn't care about this, her goal was very clear, that is, no matter what, she had to get a house, otherwise she would always be a free nanny for their family.

Later, Gu Lei's death completely intensified the contradiction between the two of them, and the two people were very stiff, and even did not speak to each other for a long time. During Gu Lei's absence, her desire to buy a house has become stronger, because living here with her sister has always been unjustified, and she also has to look at people's faces.

At this time, she wanted to buy a house, but it was no longer like before, she only wanted to borrow money from her eldest sister, but wanted to make money to buy it by her own efforts, because she didn't want people to look down on her.

This is also one of the reasons why she later decided to start a business, so desperately, she wanted to make people look good, wanted to rely on her own efforts to make money, buy a house.

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When Gu Qingyu wanted to give her a house, she refused, because it was very sad.

Feng Xiaoqin, who married a Shanghai native from a small place, has always been unworthy, the eldest sister looks down on her, and the relatives of the husband's family do not look down on her.

She has always felt this feeling of not being looked down upon, and this pile of things added up to make her feel very determined in her heart, and she must live her own appearance.

If he accepted the house given by Gu Qingyu, it would indeed make her struggle for ten years less, but if he took her house, he would always be shorter than her in front of her in the future, and she still could not sit on an equal footing with her.

Not only was she short in front of her, but in front of those relatives, she might not be able to get up, because she had never been looked down upon. But she is particularly concerned about this, she hopes that she can be looked down upon, she hopes that she can sit on an equal footing in the Gu family, rather than being looked down upon forever.

If she relied on her own ability to buy this house, then she would be able to really stand up in the Gu family in the future, which was one of the main reasons why she rejected Gu Qingyu.

Gu Qingyu did look at her higher because of this, and felt that this woman was not simple, and it was her own villain's heart that was a gentleman's belly.

Feng Xiaoqin had suffered so many years of cold eyes in the Gu family, of course, she knew what it meant to accept this gifted house, so rejecting it was the first step for her to stand up. At this moment, she exudes the brilliance of an independent woman, she finally no longer relies on others to give her the life she wants, and she finally lives herself.

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There is also a very main reason, she is giving Sissi, the big year and the little tiger as an example.

Her fear of not being looked up to has extended to them, in the past she has been staring at the little tiger's study, worried that he is not good at studying, the future will not be looked up to, but also worried that if the big year is not a tool, the future will not be looked up to, as for Sissi, it is even more that she hates iron is not steel.

She has always been a very traditional kind of woman, and she feels that if she sets a good example, the people below will learn from her, and she uses her backbone to teach them by example.

She felt that she had lived a hard life in order to make her family become like her, and it turned out that she had done the right thing, the little tiger did indeed change from not loving to learn in the past, and later became fond of learning, and the big year did not have the same hanger Lang as before, and studied his work products well and became more sensible.

The above is the reason why Feng Xiaoqin stubbornly refused to give her the house given to her by Gu Qingyu, now it seems that her choice is very right, she has lived the life she wants, and when she is more capable in the future, she will also change to a bigger house, take her parents from the countryside, and live a decent and happy life together.

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Article illustration | Stills from "Heart Dwelling"