Hello everyone, this is Lao Yu.
Some time ago, a mother went to the kindergarten to pick up the second child from school, and an old mother next door came up to greet her: Are you also here to pick up your grandchildren?
This sentence gave this mother a whole thing, and it was also a great blow.
The mother's actual age is 39 years old, while worrying about her two children while taking care of her career, she spends more time on skin care and beauty in her family and career, so she is mistaken for a grandmother.
The comments section makes this a joke.
"There's nothing wrong with me, I think you're here to pick up your grandson."
"More than 50 grandmothers are not wrong."
And just two days ago, Lao Yu also saw a hot search, which was about Cai Shaofen.
On the show, she talks to herself about what it's like to be a mother of three.
"Get up at five o'clock in the morning to arrange food, clothing, and shelter for the children."
"It's like getting up early and going to bed late for ten years."
"Because holding a child for a long time is not very good at shoulder circumference now."
When the host asked her what she would do when she usually relaxed, Cai Shaofen thought about it carefully and smiled helplessly, "There should be no time to relax." ”
Seeing this interview, the mothers in the comments are very empathetic, and when the mother is a mother, the focus of life will be biased towards the child, and it is difficult to have their own time.
What is divided is that under the video of Cai Shaofen posting the daily life of the baby before, there are bars that always like to point.
"Home beauty is amazing"
"Grandma Cai really brings her grandchildren"
This made Lao Yu think that the ridicule of appearance and figure mockery after becoming a mother seemed to be everywhere.
Every mother is not easy, having children and running a family is not a compulsory course for them, it is because of love, so they are willing to pay for their youth, and out of shape or appearance should not be a reason to be ridiculed.
Pregnancy is never an easy thing, pregnancy is puffy and fat, after giving birth to a child, body shape, stretch marks are difficult to disappear is a physiological problem, let people hurt the most, not only is the people around these "side effects" do not understand, and even mock and dislike.
Zhang Xinyi went on a parent-child variety show during lactation and was mercilessly ridiculed as a "steamed bun".
Zhang Ziyi participated in the activity after giving birth to her second child, and her figure was still thin, but some people would still say", "Look at the hairline that moves back after giving birth to a child."
Gao Yuanyuan was promoted to participate in the TV series after becoming a mother, discussing the state of her after giving birth.
"There is no more girlishness in the eyes"
"The face has collapsed, and the face value can't come back."
From the beginning to the end, no one said a word, after giving birth to children and becoming mothers, they are not easy?
As Liu Xuan said, "There is a pathology in society for the aesthetics of postpartum mothers, but in reality, a large number of mothers are in that state after childbirth, sucking milk with a big belly, very sloppy state, you can't see or care, but when you ask women to stand up, they are bright and beautiful." ”
Putting aside the star aura, they are also mothers, and they also have to go through a series of levels of pregnancy and childbirth.
The hardships of childbirth and postpartum recovery are often felt only by women.
When you meet an indifferent partner, he can't fully empathize with these efforts, and he will accuse you of getting old and ugly, and he won't understand respect at all.
There is a real case in "Guardian liberation west 2", the man took his lover to drink in the bar, for the lover to fight and make trouble into the police station, the police contacted the man's family, the result is that his wife came to clean up for him in the early morning, at this time he learned that her husband cheated, and she was still breastfeeding after giving birth to a child. The man saw his wife with a cold face.
Every mother should not be rejected and ridiculed after giving birth.
The most beautiful appearance in the world is the appearance of mother.
I also hope that this society will have tolerance and respect for every mother, and wrinkles and scars are their badges that give life and growth to a child.
If you have pregnant mothers-to-be or mothers with children around you, remember to cherish them.
What is your state after giving birth?
Do you mind if someone points fingers at your image?
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