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There is a lyric like this: "Men love to be dashing, women love to be pretty." ”
Obviously, as a woman, she is naturally beautiful and more attractive.
There is always a gap between reality and ideals. When a woman reaches a certain age, her beautiful appearance slowly disappears, along with it, the waistline becomes thicker, the face becomes worse, and the eyes are less radiant.
A writer once said: "The temptation of appearance can make people fall for a while, and the charm of people can make people fall for a lifetime." ”
A good woman, like a glass of wine, the longer it is left, the stronger the aroma. As the saying goes, the aroma of wine is not afraid of the deep alley. Before we met, I already knew the charm of "wine" and already liked it.
Therefore, it is recommended that women do the following to enhance their attractiveness.
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First, being a person is flexible, can flex and stretch, and lives without entanglement.
Li Shi, the mother of the Ming Dynasty thinker Yuan Yifan, lived a very happy life in the first half, with husband and wife and children fighting; the second half of life was very difficult, the husband died, and the children were waiting to be fed.
However, in the eyes of everyone, Li Shi is always consistent, not happy with things, not sad with himself.
Yuan Yifan described his mother in the book: "My father saved the day, the guests filled the door, and there was no time for socializing, and I did not see his busyness; and the father did not, the hengmen quietly, hanging in the shadows, and I did not see his escape." ”
The house is full of friends, but it will not be crowded, it will not be exaggerated; the top pillar of the home is gone, the guests rarely come, and the days are still the same as before, and they will not feel deserted.
There is a saying: "The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor have no one to ask in the downtown." ”
He cares too much about "inflammatory tendencies" and often complains about the suffering of life. Such a woman can easily live as a resentful woman.
As a woman, you must be flexible, withstand all kinds of pressures, and even if there are major changes in your life, you can calmly get through it. Don't dwell on foreign objects and people outside, and live your own life.
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Second, speech has a spiritual nature, empathy, and understanding the minds of others.
Li Qingzhao, a talented woman of the Song Dynasty, wrote many poems in her lifetime. Many sentences describe their own mood, as well as their thoughts and admiration for their husband Zhao Mingcheng.
"Flowers float from zero water. One kind of lovesickness, two places of idleness. "Thoughts are like invisible threads, one is Li Qingzhao, the other is Zhao Mingcheng. Although they were separated, they were idle and connected again.
Because of the endless tenderness, the husband and wife are not tired of getting along, no matter what they encounter, they can try to consider each other.
For a time, Li Qingzhao and his wife settled in Qingzhou to collect antiques.
In their spare time, the husband and wife wrote poems and painted together, and there were as many as fifty poems. Zhao Mingcheng asked his friend Lu Defu for advice.
Lu Defu said that there are three best sentences - Mo Dao does not lose his soul, the curtain rolls in the west wind, and people are thinner than yellow flowers.
How do couples get along and how do emotions express? From the verses, you can see the clues.
As the saying goes: "Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and men are afraid of entering the wrong line." ”
The most lasting charm of a woman is that husband and wife do not get tired of getting along and achieve each other. Spend a lifetime to understand the husband's difficulty, be a good helper, so that the power of love will be reflected in the woman.
Out of the family, a woman can be empathetic, then she can easily meet sincere friends and get help from others.
Understanding others with your heart is actually the power of gentleness, pushing yourself to the good.
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Third, the body and mind are very healthy, exercise and enrich the spirit.
"Three points are born, seven points are dressed", as a woman, pay attention to her appearance, will definitely enhance the impression score.
However, no matter how you dress, you can't hide the appearance of "sickness" and can't cover the wrinkles on your face. Only by insisting on exercise can we continue to be "beautiful".
Actor Li Ruotong has taken sports photos of himself many times, wearing a vest, tied with ponytail hair, and sweat on his face. She and Zhang Fengyi met during the filming of "And Try the World" and then shared their fitness experience together.
Why a woman will not grow old, as Li Ruotong said: "Self-discipline and hard work are equal to infinite possibilities." ”
Of course, when exercising, we must also understand that "the belly has poetry and bookish self-glorification", do not live into the appearance of five big and three thick, the exit is very vulgar.
Read more books, let the heart become healthy, the spirit is very full, so that the inside and outside are very healthy. Refreshed look, it will be very attractive.
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Fourth, the family has a vision, lives a simple life, and gathers wealth for the family.
We often hear the phrase "hair is long, knowledge is short". The woman has long hair, but the vision is small.
Times are changing, and women are no longer the ones who stick to embroidering in the attic, but the people who go down to the kitchen, go to the workplace, and do big things.
From a realistic point of view, women can manage their own homes, make the family clean and tidy, and continue to get rich, which can make the family more and more attractive.
The woman who can really run the family, the husband takes the initiative to give the money to the family, the child receives the mother's teaching, and the old man receives the care of the daughter-in-law. All the family members are actually revolving around the woman, which is the root of the gathering of wealth.
Being a good housekeeper, life is very trivial every day, but the future days will be more and more blessed.
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Zhang Xiaoxian wrote in "Happiness Cake in March": "A woman can do without fire, but she cannot do without water." ”
A woman is becoming more and more attractive, not that she demands something and instructs others to do something, but to see anyone pleasing to the eye, with tenderness in her eyes, good intentions in her heart, having an opinion on how to do things, and having a way to do things... It's like flowing water – good is like water, and water is like water.
In this life, people come to the world in a slippery way, and if they want to have something, they must exchange it with sweat and wisdom, rather than waiting for others to send something, let alone relying on others.
You know, waiting hard is often an empty space; take the initiative to set off in order to reach the other side of the dream.
The writer Bai Yang once said: "The most upside-down sentient beings in the world is not a beautiful woman, but the most attractive woman." ”
From now on, be a person with a magnetic field, love what you love, and become what you have become.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.