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Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon says, "Hold your hand tight, there's nothing inside; let go of your hand, you have everything." ”
Life is only a few decades, there are gains and losses, there are love and hate, you can't have everything, you can't have nothing.
No one lives easily, but don't be pessimistic, let go of the hand, let the come, let the go go, let the stay stay.
If you have been empty-handed, don't complain, after all, there is still a ray of sunshine, a breeze, wandering in the palm of your hand. God, never let a person who is obsessed with the good, disappointed.
For the rest of your life, learning to let go is a pattern and a kind of wisdom.
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If you are doomed to be unable to hold it, then put it down, and you can also preserve your strength.
There is a myth in the Classic of Mountains and Seas: Father Kwa kept running in order to catch up with the sun.
He was thirsty, drank all the water in the Yellow River and weishui, and went north to look for the lake. Before I could see the lake, I died of thirst. Later, his cane became a peach grove.
No one knows why Father Quack can't stop, why he can't wait for tomorrow's sun. There is a way that the authorities are confused and the bystanders are clear. Father Kwa only cared about chasing, and did not think of the law of the sun rising and the moon setting and the moon setting and the sun rising.
The things of the ancients, we can not empathize, we can only grasp, is today's days, tomorrow's hope.
To be a human being, you can't have a tendon, you need to turn. Too many things are "good things and more grinding", and if you don't turn a few corners, you are doomed to be unable to arrive.
No one laughs at those who turn a corner, only those who "keep hitting a wall."
The German archaeologist Schliemann, in his twilight years, said: "I want to end my life's labor with a great work, that is, to find the prehistoric palace of the kings of Knossos in Crete." ”
In his life, he turned many times, but in the end, he realized his dream and found the ancient city of Troy in his dream.
When he was a child, he saw pictures of the ancient city of Troy from the books handed over by his father, as well as fragmented written records. But there was no way he could get to where the book said.
As a teenager, he went to work in a grocery store and then to do chores on a sea boat. When going out to sea, the ship encountered a storm and almost couldn't come back.
As an adult, he became a businessman and translator. It wasn't until I had enough money in my hand that I really started chasing my dreams.
We always use sentences such as "hold on to the green mountains and do not relax, and the roots are in the broken rocks" to encourage ourselves, as everyone knows, there are also sentences such as "mountains and rivers are doubtful and there is no way, willows and dark flowers are bright and another village", which is also full of positive energy.
When you can't hold back, let go, this is not weakness, but awareness of current affairs.
People who really have a pattern are "able to put it down and take it." Let go of today, rest all night, tomorrow will be energetic, you can still start over. The premise is that you can't fall down today.
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If you are destined to get it, then let it go and accept that it is counterproductive.
We often comfort others, don't think about it, and get together and disperse.
Yes, if you comfort others, why can't you comfort yourself? If you understand life thoroughly, you can "comfort yourself".
The Ming Dynasty writer Ling Maochu wrote such a story: During the Song Dynasty, there was a person who raised a person, Ding Xiang, who met a Xiangshi before the scientific expedition.
Xiang Shi said, "Look at your appearance, you can be in the middle." ”
Ding Xiang was very happy, that day, found a few fellow travelers, gambled once, and won a lot of money.
The next day, Ding Xiang met Xiang shi again. Xiang Shi said, "Oh, I got ill-gotten gains, and it was even more difficult to go to high school in one fell swoop." ”
Ding Xiang was taken aback, quickly returned all the money to his fellow travelers, and swore to "quit gambling". As a result, he finished sixth.
The ancients said, "The power is inexhaustible, and the blessings are not exhausted." ”
One cannot possess all the benefits, and if one has to, one falls into "greed," just as one uses possessions, status, etc., to build a high wall and imprison the mind in it.
Understand that God gives you something and you lose it. If you grasp something and don't let go, then you can't hold anything else in your hand.
Money and status complement each other, but they cannot all be "first people". In the same way, people who hate each other late, wives of chaff and first love, cannot all have, and they must make trade-offs.
Since it's not yours, let it go. Although the moment of loss will be painful, after many days of loss, you will live a light life.
There is no such thing as everything in life, you can only smooth your mood and accept that things are contrary to your wishes.
Let go of everything you can't get. Then what you let go, others can get, this is the "generosity" of being a person - disobeying you happens to be obedient to others.
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If you are destined to lose, then let it go and simply send "it" for a ride.
When the Ming Dynasty thinker Yuan Yifan was young, his father died. Mother Lee pulled five children alone.
Yuan Yifan's older brother Yuan Peilu was well-behaved and sensible from an early age, and studied hard. Not long after starting a family, I fell ill.
How cruel is it for a weak woman to send her husband and a white-haired person to send a black-haired person?
Li Shi cried, but quickly put away his tears and said, "Your father had long expected that his life would not be long. Sure enough. ”
After speaking, Li Shi took the two children left by Yuan Peilu with him.
In the "Yuan Family Training", it is said: "People's hearts are like fire, fire will be limu, and hearts will be beautiful." ”
If the human heart cannot settle down, it is like a fire igniting wood. If there is fire in the heart, it will disturb everything.
There is a saying that goes: "How big the heart is, how big the stage of life is." ”
The key for a person to enlarge the pattern is to control the heart and let the heart accommodate the whole world, not just himself.
What is destined to be lost, then put it down, send it away, and feel at ease. Although, at the moment of sending away, the heart is empty, but it will soon be filled by other "happiness".
Man, send away the troubles, you live steadily; send away yesterday, you see today's sunrise; send away the wind and rain, you usher in the rainbow; send away the pain, you get the sweetness; send away the "reluctance", there is "willingness"...
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Life is impermanent, a thought is let go, everything is at ease.
Someone said, "Find the only thing that binds my soul in life, and I am blessed to have it, and I have lost my life." ”
Really don't embarrass yourself, you are always unhappy, always can't see "tomorrow", in fact, you can't get out of "yourself".
Let go, let the past pass, let the future come.
As far as the eye can see, it is the pattern, but also the poetry and the distance.
The direction of the heart is a dream, and it is also a yes or no.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.