-01-
Perhaps, women will have some sensibility in their treatment of feelings.
For example, when breaking up, even if you are hurt by a man, you will comfort yourself and say to yourself, "I love him, not because of who he is, not because he treats me, but only because I love him."
From ancient times to the present, women's attitude towards love is often the most praised by the world.
Just like "If you do not leave and do not abandon, I will live and die together", "May I have one heart, and the white head will not be separated", "The mountain has no edges, the heavens and the earth are united, but I dare to be with the king"... They are not stupid, nor are they unaware of some men's vows, but they are just "coaxing themselves", but they are so serious about their feelings, they are so obsessed.
Because of love, so, where can you still take care of the reason.
Therefore, when I miss you, it is even more so, lingering with pity and full of sorrow.
When she thinks about you, you will find that she seems to have suddenly become your confidant, what you say, she understands, what you ask, she agrees, she gives you a signal, is a word: understand.
-02-
Once, Li Qingzhao wrote a poem to her husband Zhao Mingcheng, who was an official in a foreign country:
Mist thick clouds worry eternal day, Rui brain dispels the golden beast. Festive and heavy sun, jade pillow yarn kitchen, cool in the middle of the night, the east fence put wine after dusk, there is a dark fragrance full of sleeves. Mo Dao does not lose his soul, the curtain rolls in the west wind, and people are thinner than yellow flowers.
A sentence "People are thinner than yellow flowers", it can be seen that Li Qingzhao, who is free and bold like a boy's personality, is also so haggard and uneasy when he misses his husband.
Drunken eyes, with a variety of styles, in the deep love, hidden warm acacia, people can't help but marvel at the love of these two people.
Missing, visible, is a sweet pain for a woman.
Therefore, when you are not around her, she will think through the time you have been together, and she will touch your words and deeds back and forth several times, so that you seem to have become a "small transparency" in her eyes, and her soul is running after you.
So, when a woman thinks about you, you will inadvertently find that she understands you more and more, and understands you more and more.
Understand that you are "cold and warm" and want to take good care of you
In modern society, there will be many more ways for women to miss.
Send a message and tentatively ask you: What are you doing? It's raining, and I'll call you and ask you: Is it cold? Do you have an umbrella? Before going to bed at night, I will also advise: go to bed early, don't stay up late.
You will feel that whenever you think of what you are going to do, her advice will follow, and the words of concern will be as loving as when she is by your side.
Just like Li Qingzhao, in her poems, she all exudes the desire to become an ordinary woman, to simply live a lifetime with her lover, ordinary and trivial, without those worries and troubles, and to spend life together.
But, unfortunately, the era in which they lived did not allow them to be so tied up. Therefore, only in the letters, I can tell again and again, again and again, the pain of parting from each other.
So, in life, when a woman misses you, she will always pay attention to the weather in your place, will give you something in a timely manner, afraid that you will suffer, afraid that you will be sick, afraid that you will not adapt when you are out of town... Even if she wants to see you for thousands of miles, she will not be able to resist the impulse in her heart, and she will only want to be quick to your side, to be able to look at you, to be able to accompany you.
In this life, the encounter is short, but the thought can be infinitely continued, so if a woman comes to your side, "understand your cold and warm, want to take care of you", we must cherish this rare fate.
Knowing your "sorrow and joy" has become your "confidant with a red face"
Life is long, how much love, from the familiarity of acquaintance, finally becomes a name.
How many loves, obviously very much love, but in the end they all went to both ends, saying "accompany each other to old age", but finally became falling apart.
Emotional things, always a person can impress you, but not necessarily able to enter your heart, a person loves you very much, but may not be able to understand you.
Therefore, a woman's "understanding" is precisely a signal that she misses you.
Because I think of you, I will understand and tolerate you, and because I think of you, I will exchange hearts with you, I will want to pay you seriously, and become your "confidant".
So, when you find that she does not know when, become your confidant, every time you say anything to her, it will bring you a little warmth, whenever you and her spit something, she can comfort your heart, then she must be thinking about you, so will be so gentle to you, so considerate.
Many times, the emotions between men and women are nothing more than a companionship.
A lifetime is not long, and when you say the words, she loves to listen, your heart, she wants to understand you, her heart must be full of you.
She wants to be in the same boat with you, cold and warm.
Think, it seems to be a "verb", but more than that, it is an exclamation. Because I miss you, I understand you, because I understand you, so I want to have you all my life.
Love what you love, what you like, she loves
Perhaps, two people together, if it has always been a wind and snow moon, it is estimated that it will soon feel tired.
Love, always more human fireworks, each other to show their greatest tolerance, in order to last.
In life, two people are often more together, the more they will feel that the other party has so many shortcomings, the original his temper is not so good, the original will also burp and fart, will also put socks, shoes ...
And the strange thing is that you will find that when you are separated for a short time and you think of him, the stinky problems that made you "unaccustomed" before him seem to have become a sweet memory, and have become some "little secrets" and "small privacy" of him that only you know.
Remember, the girlfriend said that once, her husband was on a business trip for half a month, just in time for the ball game, usually the girlfriend almost did not watch, and even a little hated the noise of men watching the ball game, but that day it was surprisingly a video of her husband, although the two people were separated by distance, it seemed to be reliving the sweetness of being together.
It can be seen that a woman misses you, and your habits have become the things she wants to do most when she misses you.
The so-called love has never been romantic infinity, but it is that they are accustomed to each other, each other is assured of each other, and each other can adapt to each other's everything.
Two people together, each other can become each other's warmest harbor, because, the thought has always been there.
-03-
Every woman, no matter how much she whistles in her daily life, no matter how hot and furious, after meeting the person she likes, she will have some inner shyness and give birth to a hundred charms.
Even if it will not hurt the spring and autumn, there will be a hint of pity, a hint of worry.
Missing is like a flower, she wants to pick it, but she is afraid that it will wither, so she will hide that love in her heart and remember you back and forth.
Her "understanding" is her love, her lovesickness.
She will be eager to be with you, Xiao Beisheng is newly married, that joyful mood, sweet and full of hope, so she will look like Li Qingzhao, "people are thinner than yellow flowers", but the heart is because "understand you", and full and satisfied.
Time can make a love more and more shallow, but it will also make a love, the more "understand" the deeper.
When I think of you, the air is sweet, although it is difficult, but it will be like a cold night, the moon is cool as water, and the warm sky has your breath.
Life is long, so if your woman has already signaled "understand" to you, be sure to respond to her.
Waiting, although it is a beautiful word, may also hurt the bones because of the loss and not getting your response.
Finally, I wish that all lovers can "have someone to accompany you to the dusk, someone to accompany you to the porridge can be warm", accompanied to the white head.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!