Text/Xiao He Social Theory (Original article)
A relationship wants to be long-lasting, and in addition to learning to tolerate and understand each other, both parties must be loyal to their feelings, which is both the basic requirement of love and the final bottom line.
But in today's age of temptation, it is not easy to do this, and it is human nature to like the new and dislike the old after all, and few people can be consistent.
Even couples who have entered marriage, they rely more on responsibilities and obligations to maintain the family, and feelings can only be regarded as part of it.
That being said, it's wrong to do so, no one wants to accept an unfaithful partner, and to love someone you have to resist temptation for him.
The woman knelt down to her boyfriend in the early hours of the morning on the street
In a dark alley, a woman grabbed her boyfriend's hand and held it, and the two had a fierce argument at the scene.
From the conversation, we learned that it was suspected that the woman made a mistake and asked her boyfriend for forgiveness, but the boyfriend seemed to be heartbroken, and he was not at all moved in the face of the woman's begging.
Perhaps it is to see the boyfriend's attitude is very resolute, the woman is in a hurry to kneel on the spot, but this can not calm the anger in the boyfriend's heart.
Kowtow and apologize and slap yourself for forgiveness
In order to prove that she really knew that she was wrong, the woman first knelt down and prostrated herself and then slapped herself, trying to win sympathy, but to her surprise, her boyfriend still did not react when she saw this scene.
Just as he was about to turn his head and leave, the woman suddenly got up and changed her attitude and yelled at her boyfriend: "I know it's wrong, what else do you want?"
In the woman's view, she has done this job, and the boyfriend should be angry and forgive himself, but she still underestimates the mistakes she has made.
Netizens revealed the truth: she got into someone else's Mercedes-Benz car
According to informed netizens, the woman had previously boarded a strange man's Mercedes-Benz car, and the boyfriend did not pull around and watched her leave in despair, which may be the origin of this love tragedy.
Since she has already made a choice, she should not go back to keep it, not only to appear humble, but also to make others look down on her.
"Discard when you are tired, and keep it when you regret it", the woman did not consider her boyfriend's feelings from beginning to end, but just regarded him as a spare tire that was about to come and go.
Even if she apologizes, she is also a righteous look, where is the confession of mistakes, obviously forcing the other party to forgive herself.
Author Comments:
In my opinion, the boyfriend's choice not to forgive is correct, the woman obviously does not really recognize the mistake, and her kneeling is just a saving in a hurry.
There is a first and a second time for something like this, so we must stick to our principles and never forgive us if we are unfaithful for the rest of our lives.
In addition, I also hope that the woman can deeply reflect on herself, since she knows that doing so will break the heart of her boyfriend, then why did she insist on going her own way in the first place, some things cannot be recovered, and stalking will only make the faces of both sides look bad.
And kneeling is also an act of self-esteem, which is undoubtedly a moral kidnapping, if her parents see what to think.
Therefore, I hope that everyone can cherish the person in front of them, and do not wait for the bad things to be retained, such feelings will leave a mustard even if they are reconciled, after all, this experience cannot be forgotten.
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