For the future other half, if they can, all women will probably hope to find a man with a mature mind.
Mature man, when he himself is mature enough, he will really be more responsible, can be responsible for himself, make money well, can know how to love women well, and run a family with heart.
With him, the woman really can not have to work too hard, he will directly arrange everything properly.
It is conceivable that it is really a great fortune to meet a man like that.
However, when a man is so mature, he will naturally not be too casual about feelings, but will have his own requirements.
A man who is more mature in himself will know more about what he wants and what kind of woman is more suitable for him. In his eyes, some of a woman's behaviors will be more plus, and some behaviors will be very cheap.
He despises behavior, and women must know how to avoid it.
Soon after we met, we asked for all kinds of things.
I have to admit that there are really some women in life who like to ask men for this and that.
I feel that the other party wants to be with me, you should pay a lot first, and feel that since you are willing to fall in love with each other, the other party should invest a lot in yourself, more than anyone.
With such a mind, even if you have just met a man, you will directly reach out to the other party. Hint at the other party to transfer money to themselves, hint that the other party buys a gift for themselves, and directly send a link to the other party to let the other party buy it for themselves.
When it comes to love, men spend money for women, there is nothing wrong with it, and it is more appropriate, but if you are too snobbish and don't pay attention to your own eating appearance, it will not seem so good.
There is a more mature man, he will be willing to pay for women, but it must be that they really know each other enough, they do identify, will pay a lot, will be willing to pay.
Before that, he may also have some investment, but he will definitely be more measured.
If he pays voluntarily, he will feel that it should be, no matter how much he pays, he will not feel anything, but if the other party looks like he is rushing for money, he will really be very disgusted, and he will have no good feelings in an instant.
He will feel that the other party is particularly tacky, there is no sincerity at all, and there is only money in his eyes.
Too much, especially unreasonable.
In a relationship, women are too sensible, nothing bothers men, of course, this is not good, will appear very angry, but also appear very out of sight, which is not conducive to each other's feelings.
However, if you love to make trouble too much and don't understand things at all, it will also be a headache.
For mature men, he will be more tolerant, able to tolerate a certain degree of woman's pampering, a certain degree of work, will find that very interesting, is conducive to enhancing the relationship between each other.
But if he does too much, he will not be reasonable in everything, he will not listen to his opinions, but he will have to come according to his own wishes, and he will also feel very tired and will not want to continue at all.
When a man can be so mature, he must have his own cognition and his own persistence for everything.
The intimate relationship he longs for will not be coaxed by anyone all the time, but will only hope that the other party can be on a par with himself and communicate well.
It is best to be able to understand each other, to understand each other's thoughts, too many things do not need to be said explicitly, but also can reach an agreement, in terms of thinking is particularly fit, but also at the same level.
Mature men, his own thinking is more profound, he will also hope that a relationship can be more nourishing to himself, get along with each other will be more comfortable, more quality.
Too clingy, not mentally independent.
It's only natural that two people who like each other will always want to be together.
However, even if they are one and the same, in the final analysis, each other is still just independent individuals.
Especially for mature men, he will long for a harmonious family environment, a woman who knows cold and hot, and go with each other to run this relationship well, so that each other can be happier, and he will also want to have some independent space.
He hopes that he has his own things to do, has his own hobbies, and hopes that the women around him also have their own lives.
When a woman is more independent, not too attached to herself, busy with each other when there is something, sometimes sharing with each other, communicating with each other, he will really like such a day.
A woman who has her own opinion and has her own world, he will also be particularly appreciative and feel that the other party is very attractive.
Too dependent on himself, always want to be together, a moment will not be together will be a variety of checks, no matter what happens will only be busy, do not know how to deal with women, he will really feel very bored.
He doesn't like the feeling of being bound, and he doesn't want the other half to put himself too low and always put himself first, so that he really has no way to respect and will only want to escape.
Love or marriage, it is just no reason to say it, but in fact, they will also try something for each other.
We all hope that each other can be a high-quality lover, we all hope that we can get along very well, and we all hope that being together can be mutual achievements.
Men want to find a woman like that, that needs to be good in all aspects of themselves, women want to find a man like that, but also need to be more mature in all aspects of themselves, can be more attractive.
Women are not loved for being good, but when women are good enough, they will also be able to meet a better opposite sex.
You can look forward to finding someone who is willing to give for yourself, but don't start by reaching out.
It can be done appropriately, small fights and small troubles, but there must be a degree, do not distinguish between right and wrong.
In addition, you must be an independent self, you must have your own soul.
Text/Tan Meng
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