A lifetime is short, like a white colt crossing the gap, fleeting. But this mood is very long, such as high mountains and rivers, endless.
This is the answer of Lu Xiucai in "The Tale of Wulin" to talk about "falling in love with someone".
It's just that canned sardines expire.
How long can the shelf life of love really be?
Adults who have experienced the grinding of the world have their own answers in their hearts.
But is there a scenario that allows people to break down pessimistic expectations? For example, after 20 years of forgetting each other, on a casual occasion, suddenly reunited with the person you loved and could not help, will you be together without hesitation?
Perhaps, big S flash marriage first love With Junye, has given a realistic model of success.
However, this wave of official announcements of the nursery rhyme Feng Shaofeng.
Once again, the life drama of cinnabar moles and rice grains has more topics to discuss:
First love, is it really unforgettable?
01
Two days ago, Mr. Li wrote the scene of Haiqing buying a house in "Heart Residence".
In fact, the emotional drama of the eldest sister-in-law Gu Qingyu is also quite exploratory.
Gu Qingyu, played by the nursery rhyme, is a native of Shanghai, and Shi Yuan, played by Feng Shaofeng, is their first love. Just as the so-called bamboo horses go around the green plums, the two play small is the neighbor who grew up playing with mud in the alley.
As the saying goes: what you don't get is always the best.
The two people who were white moonlight to each other had not been in contact for more than ten years.
Through the sandpaper of memories, memories are always shimmering. Gu Qingyu's affection for Shi Yuan is similar to that of many young girls who have just opened their hearts, Shi Yuan looks white and pure, Su Ri loves to wear a white shirt, wears a pair of black-rimmed glasses, and plays the piano.
The glowing young man in his memory always made Gu Qingyu remember it.
Perhaps it is the projection psychology, in each boyfriend who gets along in the future, Gu Qingyu always can't help but ask the other party to wear a white shirt and black-rimmed glasses, artificially interfering to continue the taste of youth, and obsessing deeply.
Elder Yue was also kind to Gu Qingyu, a red thread tightly held the two, and after years of indissoluble reunion, a spark was sparked again.
At this time, Gu Qingyu was already in the financial circle, with a car and a house.
On the other hand, Shi Yuan is really unsatisfactory.
The college entrance examination failed to read a secondary school, worked as a tour guide to earn a living, and lived in an old house with his elderly parents in middle age. According to secular standards, men are almost confused, and mixing into such a look is a proper loser in the marriage market.
No one can understand that the head of the analysis of the relationship between the sister-in-law is the eldest sister-in-law of the Tao, the shrewd and capable strong woman in the workplace, but when it comes to her own lifelong events, she has made a mistake.
How crazy is she?
In order to be able to get married, he not only took the initiative to propose marriage, but also concealed his parents from his evidence.
In the end, the plot of reunion and flash marriage is staged.
However, such a good daughter-in-law who is "upside down" is still unable to look at it horizontally and vertically. Whether life after marriage can grow old in vain, the TV series has not yet given the answer.
This plot is neither reasonable nor reasonable, who watches it and does not feel dog blood.
But back to the beginning, the big S flash marriage first love Gu Junye, the absurd plot of the stone breaking the sky, shocked all the melon-eating masses at that time.
Everyone's first reaction was that she was crazy, and marriage could not be a child's play!
Wang Xiaobo said: Don't be afraid of the disappearance of everything beautiful, let's let it exist first.
Inside and outside the play, Mr. Really sighed:
It turns out that there is really such a person in life, even if they have been away for many years, if they have the opportunity to meet, they still can't help but want to look at each other more, and even run to each other desperately.
02
What is more dramatic than the TV series is that when Big S agreed to Gu Junye's marriage proposal, the two did not even meet each other.
An old phone number, someone who has been separated for more than twenty years connects again;
A Weibo statement is like a happy post.
The whole network boiled, and then the unfamiliar name "Gu Junye" was frantically exposed on the Chinese network. At the same time, the man's past has also been pickpocketed by netizens. Obviously, the comments from the viewers were not satisfactory:
He is six years older than Big S, has a blessed figure, and exudes a greasy smell;
He is in his fifties, but he is like a giant baby who needs to be cared for by his 75-year-old mother;
His mother broke the news that she was looking for a first-time marriage who could "pick a fish thorn" for her son;
His savings are limited, and he is unemployed when he leaves the circle, even if he has swept the Korean network...
Each of his slots does not meet the criteria of a virtuous son-in-law;
All his black materials have stepped on the thunder point of marriage and love.
Some people say that Big S is gambling, some people say that she is retaliating, and some people say that she is accurate poverty alleviation...
From the perspective of netizens, if the man is not the icon blessing of the former idol, he has dissuaded many people from the image alone, and the big S has not retreated, and the comments of netizens seem to be unreasonable.
What does Big S say?
When the news of the flash marriage set off a bloody storm in the media on both sides of the strait and the three places, she said in an interview with the media that it did not match her age, "He was still the same as he was then, disillusioned, because raw rice has been cooked to maturity, can not manage so much, first love and then say." ”
A good sentence "love first and then say" ah!
Is this confusion, is it a love brain?
In the face of first love, people outside the play, once again for love, without hesitation.
Reality did not make her look ahead, and the criticism is still rain or shine. Fortunately unhappy, not suitable, I believe that Gu Qingyu and Big S have already had their own plans and commitments.
Some people can't help but say sad things about this, marriage is not a matter of getting a certificate. Continuing the frontier, or to face the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, a place of chicken feathers, these life trivialities, and the first love together, what is the difference?
In Mr. Mister's view, it is not just the setting of "first love".
The most valuable thing about the whole thing is:
In the era of love collapse, they still have the ability to dare to love, and do not harshly end.
03
In life, Mr. Li has also met some friends who have a deep love for their first love.
This phenomenon is called the "exposure effect" in psychology, also known as the "proximity effect".
The big vernacular is that people will always prefer what they are familiar with. Because things often appear, it will increase people's favorability, the more contact, the more likes.
Even if the time is short, there will be an obsession with "love you don't need a reason".
In today's "feelings come and go quickly", the purest feelings are probably the stage of first love. That kind of heartwarming, cautious and romantic and cautious feelings are unconsciously buried in the heart field...
Today, in this world of temptation, online you may fall in love with the fast food era of people 1,000 kilometers away.
People's individual consciousness is getting stronger, and there are fewer shackles that bind feelings.
Unfortunately, it's harder to truly fall in love with someone or be deeply loved by someone.
Zhang Ailing said that it is not uncommon to meet love in feelings and encounter sex, but it is rare to meet understanding.
Many people have not had time to understand the other half deeply, and love is shattered when the difficulties are budding.
"Where is the end of the world without herbs" "Why do you have to love a flower alone", it is appropriate to be together, and it is not suitable to break up, which is the love script of many people at the moment, very free.
Similarity brings the two closer, but many people quickly turn around when they find the difference.
If you lose the beauty of your first love, please try to cherish the person in front of you; if you are with your first love at this moment, please try to cherish and don't wait to miss it.
It doesn't matter if his red rose turns into mosquito blood or a white rose turns into a rice particle.
Whether the person around you is a first love or not:
Believe that when all the good is transformed into rice, there will be fewer regrets.
Don't wait for the years to pass, and then regret that it has always been a guest's heart, but it has become a person in the play.