There is a sentence:
Who comes from the mountains, rivers, lakes and seas, but confined to day and night, kitchen and love.
Perhaps, if a person loves you, the fireworks of life will always surround you, just like the aroma wafting out of the kitchen every day, lingering on the tip of the nose and touching the taste buds.
It is said that men love to nag, it is a kind of nagging, but why not a kind of fireworks that surrounds you all the time, hiding love and pampering?
He is within your reach, looking at you affectionately, he stares at everything about you, afraid that you will be wronged, afraid of your health problems.
Nagging is the love hidden deep in the heart, the love that overflows from the eyes, and the undisguised release from the bottom of the heart.
He will care about you and you in every detail from the daily trivialities of life to the big things and small things at work; from what happens around you to what happens to you; from what you eat and do today, to the choices of life.
He seems to be your tree hole, when you are happy, when you are unhappy, he will accompany you and give you unlimited tolerance.
It can be seen that the love of men is hidden in this one by one.
Women are always too sensitive, and always insecure, always worried that they have done too much, disliked by men, and always worried that they have done less and let men complain.
In fact, whether a man loves you or not, from his one by one nagging you, you can feel, is he sincere or false to you?
Nagging you "don't depend on him"
The most obvious characteristic of a woman falling in love with a man is that she will seek dependence from a man.
And, the most obvious feature of a man falling in love with a woman is that he will want to use everything he has to protect a woman and give her a dependency.
Therefore, when a man really loves you, your deepest feeling is that from now on, there is a person around you who can protect you, keep you safe, shield you from the wind and rain, and resist the long years.
However, if a woman is too strong, always carrying everything by herself, and digesting everything by herself, then men are likely to feel that you don't love him so much.
Faye Wong has a lyric: We owe each other, we have to break the thread...
This means that two people can only continue a relationship if they are pulling each other and indebted to each other.
And, in this debt, the most obvious confession is that men long for women to rely on him and to get close to him.
There will always be some men in life who meticulously protect women, do not fight back, scold and do not return the mouth, so that women are incomparably infatuated, so that she has a feeling of being protected and hurt, in fact, this is the deepest love.
He will do what you say, calm in the face of things, just like a mountain can withstand the wind and rain, even if you encounter unexpected events, you can stand in your point of view, think rationally, help you solve problems, will not shirk responsibility, when you avoid things, he will nag you again and again, tell you again and again: Don't be afraid, there I am.
A man's love is so simple, because he loves you, so he has the courage to bear, dare to be bold; because he loves you, he is more tolerant and more stable.
Chanting "You don't spend his money"
It is said that the poor couple Pepsi mourns.
It can be seen that a person's attitude towards money is mostly also an attitude towards you.
In "To Youth", Chen Xiaozheng's family is poor, but he and Zheng Wei are in love with each other, it is difficult to give up, in the graduation stall in order to get a place to go abroad, he chose to break up with Zheng Wei, Zheng Wei angrily asked him: Maybe I am willing to suffer with you.
But he cried and said, "I don't want to."
Life is long, most men in life, will treat the importance of money and the importance of women equally.
In many blind date shows, you can see that a man is not willing to pay for a woman who cannot be matched at a glance, even if he invites guests to eat a meal.
So, when a man always nags you not to spend his money, he must be sincere with you, really for you.
Once a woman has identified a man, she will always find ways to save money for the other party, and the clothes dare not wear too high-end, and the cosmetics only dare to use ordinary brands.
And all of this, if you know that you have the ability to maintain the status quo, but the man still feels that you are in luxury and waste, so many and a half of this man he does not love you so much, all he needs is a woman who can accompany him through the difficulties and live a life.
A person who truly loves you, if he has a certain economic strength, will be generous and happy to spend money for you.
On the screen, we will always see Zhang Zhilin complaining that Yuan Yongyi buys bags too often, but whenever he has a new bag, he will immediately offer it to his wife.
In love, there are some illusions of having feelings to drink water and be full.
A good woman does not covet a man's money; a good man is reluctant to let his lover save money.
A man loves you, he will definitely aspire to be a family with you, share the fate, share the life, pay the salary will be handed over to you for safekeeping; with dividends, you will save. He loves you and will surely make you feel his sincerity and warmth towards you.
Where the so-called man's heart is, where the money is, the person who truly loves you will definitely put his heart and his money, as well as his people, in front of you.
Nagging you to "take care of yourself"
In this life, people are not bitter or tired, and they are not called life.
No matter what your status is, what status you have, whether you have money or not, there will be some troubles, some pressure, let you carry on your shoulders, press on your heart.
Therefore, taking care of yourself is to take life seriously.
And, at this time, if there is a person around you who has been thinking about you, staring at you all the time, and taking care of you, then this person must be the person who has put you deeply on the tip of your heart.
Remember there is a saying that good men take care of women's lives, and bad men take care of women's feelings.
It can be seen that the person who truly loves you will not take care of you with his dancing appearance and a sweet mouth, in a clever tongue.
Instead, down-to-earth, undistracted, concerned about your life, concerned about your health, want to live this life with you.
Together, together for a lifetime. Not a simple sentence, but a real responsibility and responsibility, a kind of simplicity and affection.
True companionship, not so romantic, not so many gifts, is the ordinary day, he and you snuggle together, but warm and timeless.
His love for you is never a simple "drink more saliva" when you are sick. Instead, be the first to show up for you, buy you medicine, boil water for you, and cook you a delicious meal.
His love for you has never been, and when you need him, you can never find him, but when he needs you, it appears at the right time.
To you, he is practicing the poetry of the wedding: whether you are poor or rich, whether you are sick or healthy, two people must love each other and support each other.
Man's life is full of ups and downs, and a person who can take good care of your life must be: treat you as his dearest relative; and even more as his lover in this life.
Conclusion:
A lot of love is easier said than done.
Many men are in the mouth of the honey oil, but it is really difficult to be able to do something real for you.
Remember, there is a saying on the Internet: people who love you will spoil you as a daughter, and people who don't love you will use you as an old mother.
Therefore, a man who really loves you, these three nagging, he will definitely use his actions to truly spoil you and hurt you.
Summer is afraid of your heat, winter is afraid of your cold, if you encounter something related to you, he will immediately come out to protect you, do not need you to pretend to be strong, he will give you to rely on.
Some people say: Men don't talk about love mostly pretend.
Deeply believe it, but please believe that men have to "these few nagging", absolutely not pretending.
Because he cares about you, he will nag you and not rely on him; because he loves you deeply, so he will nag you and not spend his money; because he always reassures you, he will nag you and not take care of himself.
Happiness never comes at the door automatically, so be sure to cherish this person who loves you deeply.
You know, there are people in this world who are willing to bear for you, some people who are willing to endure for you, some people who are willing to worry about you, and some people who are willing to worry about you all the time... All this is because He keeps you in mind all the time.
So, please be sure to grab his hand well, because if you miss it, it is likely that this person will never come back.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!