Perhaps, in love, the happiest moment is the right time, the right place, meeting the right person, two people saying the right words, and then, once entangled, from then on, stay together for the rest of their lives.
Let the world be complicated, let the floating world flutter, will cling to each other's hands, until one day, leave this world.
But, life is realistic.
Chen Xiaozheng in "To Youth", his family is poor, and Zheng Wei does not fight and does not know each other, the two people love deeply, but in the graduation stall, in order to get a place abroad, they chose to break up with Zheng Wei.
Zheng Wei did not understand, and angrily asked him: Maybe I am willing to suffer with you?
He cried and replied: I don't want to.
Perhaps, he really loves this girl, and he really does not want this woman to accompany him to endure the life of "poor couple Pepsi Lament".
However, he also forgot the determination of a woman to accompany the person she loves and endure hardships.
At the end of the story, he came to ask for a reunion, but everything was too late, and missing it was a lifetime of missing.
It can be seen that in a man's heart, his attitude towards money is his attitude towards you.
If he has true feelings for you, he will tie his fate to you, his money, is your money, is the life he wants to give you; he does not love you, then you for him, is at any time, he will pursue money and can give up a thing.
Only when you can afford to talk about money can you afford to give sincerity, and only then can you move the truth.
As the saying goes: Where a man's money is, his heart is.
People who love you will be generous in "talking about money" with you
In life, we will always see some scenes like this:
The two men divorced and confronted each other in court. The man angrily slapped the table: You eat me, drink mine, and want to share my money?
The woman cried and replied, "I will bear children for you and serve you three meals a day."
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Similar scenes are not uncommon.
It can be seen that when two people are together and in love, they must talk about money well in order to avoid future troubles.
The more generously you can negotiate money, the more you can manage your love well, and the more you can live a good life.
Perhaps, before we were together, you felt that as long as he loved you, it didn't matter, but life was expensive, raising children costly, and human nature was fickle.
The man who truly loves you, when you have an intimate relationship, he will put his property and money, openly and honestly let you know, will want to plan the future with you, will want to give you a warm home.
The man who does not love you, perhaps, when he pursues you, he will please you in every way and pay everything, but once the relationship occurs, he seems to have changed as a person, no longer has patience for you, will no longer think about making you happy, and even feel that you are more and more moved by his true feelings, he will become more and more bored with you.
Just because his purpose has been achieved, your value in his heart is only in his efforts to you before the relationship, and when it is in hand, you are just an item waiting to be replaced for him.
Therefore, girls, if you love someone again, you must also be cautious.
If a person never talks generously with you about money, but always coaxes you with all kinds of sweet words, "I raise you", "I have money in my family"... These intoxicating words, or less listen to it is better, cherish yourself, in order to wait for the people who are sincere for you.
People who love you will happily "spend money" on you
Remember a few days ago there was a hot search, Zhang Zhilin gave his wife Yuan Yongyi a cup of milk tea "purple potato taro puree", which made people shout to see the sweetness of love.
On the screen, we will always see that in the show, Zhang often complains that Yuan Yongyi likes to buy bags too much, but whenever a new model is released, he will offer it to her for the first time.
To love someone is to nag in the mouth, but the body is very sincere, and the heart is very sincere.
Sanmao once said:
If feelings can't fall on dressing, eating, counting money, these real little things, it will not last long.
Sentient drinking water is illusory.
A good woman does not covet men's money and will understand men's difficulty in making money, but she will also measure the depth of men's love for themselves through men's attitude of spending money for themselves.
Once saw a video.
After a couple of men and women live together, two people go to the mall, the woman took a fancy to a coat, tried it, it is really good-looking.
The man said: You just gave me that pair of shoes, I will send you this dress.
Saying, looking at the price tag, his face immediately changed, and said: You usually wear such expensive clothes.
The woman saw that the man was in danger and said: Almost, I bought it myself, you have been so nervous lately.
The camera turns, two people invite friends to dinner, it's time to check out, the man said I don't have enough money on hand, you pay first.
The camera turns again, the man asks the woman to borrow money, saying that there is something in the family, and it will be repaid in a few days, and the woman thoughtfully agrees.
And when women need money, men reply: Don't you use thousands of dollars? Every day I urge it to return.
Let people watch, a big speechless.
In life, such things abound.
Most women choose to live with men and go for the rest of their lives. She would feel that since the two people were already walking together, those who could understand each other would help each other. However, some men are holding a "play" mentality, fighting women's sincerity to themselves, do not want to pay, and want to get benefits from women.
Perhaps, the beginning of love is beautiful, and two people are running in both directions.
However, affectionate people tend to become more and more engaged, while thin-hearted people will become more and more realistic. Therefore, women must see the person in front of them clearly, you have paid one hundred percent, the other party must at least return to you to the inner passing line, if not, grasp and let go.
You can be happy about receiving cheap gifts from the other person, but whether he is perfunctory and indifferent to you, you must recognize it.
Don't spend the rest of your life on people who don't deserve it.
People who love you will frankly and honestly let you "manage money"
Two people have a relationship, and the most sincere performance of men is to start handing over their own money to you to check.
Because in his heart, you have become a family, he will want to share the fate of the future with you, will want to have a good future with you.
Paid salary, will be handed over to you for safekeeping; with dividends, will be happy to show off with you; more performance, will be happy with you to celebrate... If he loves you, he will make you feel his sincerity and let you see his determination to give you peace for the rest of your life.
Where his heart is, his money is where it is. The amount of money is not so important, what is important is that he has entrusted his life to you for safekeeping.
In the "Beijing Women's Picture Book", when the heroine and her boyfriend live together, the man is never introduced to his family and friends, the woman wants to get married, and the man always says: He is an unmarried.
After the two people broke up, not long after, the man married a rich woman.
The heroine's friend told her: where he doesn't want to get married, he just doesn't want to marry you.
In fact, from the details of the two people getting along, we can see that the man loves her and gives her many gifts, but the man never lets her know how much money she has, what work she does, and never let her participate in her family and circle of friends.
Love or not, really obvious.
A man takes the heart to you, he will not have a relationship, take a small gift to coax you, and when you propose that you want to get married, but take care of him.
The person who truly loves you will put his money, along with his heart, in front of you. There may be hardships and difficulties in the future, but as long as you are by my side, I will have the courage to create a blue sea and blue sky for you.
Conclusion:
Feelings, for women, are mostly like a big gamble.
Gamble wins, peace of mind, happiness, sweetness, gamble loses, loses your future and youth.
Maybe before getting you, he was a person who was willing to spend for you, but after getting you, he was the one who loudly rebuked you for spending money indiscriminately.
Therefore, don't keep yourself, love sweetly, the other party is thoughtful to you, and don't casually sacrifice yourself.
We always say that when we look at a person, we must look at his character, but money is the most able to see a man's character.
In love, what is afraid is not that men have no money, but that they are afraid of the warmth and coldness of human feelings.
Loving someone is not obsessed, but to be sober and have your own bottom line.
Truly mature love, talk about feelings, but also talk about money.
Loving someone is not to calculate, but we must be clear about each other's specific situation, and then after coming together, we can understand each other, pay each other, help each other, and only then can we encounter any wind and rain, and we can not dislike each other.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!