Presumably, only parents who have really tutored their children's homework can know where their emotional bottom line is, when they do not write homework, it is a mother's kindness and filial piety, and writing homework must be a scene of chickens flying and dogs jumping.
Many parents would rather work overtime than tutor their children to write homework, which is simply more headache than work, and they must take a deep breath and silently recite the three words "biological" every time they accompany their children to do homework.
Some naughty children are beaten when doing homework, and they can't finish their homework without eating a "stick stew".
Comparing the homework before and after the primary school students were beaten, the second pulse of Ren Dou was opened, and the writing was smooth
As the old saying goes, there is filial piety under the stick, and the existing stick serves the job. A mother posted her child's math homework and language homework, and the contrast between the homework effect before and after being beaten was really too strong!
Before the elementary school student was beaten by his parents, his math homework was completely free to play, and the numbers were drawn outside the frame.
After being beaten, the math homework was neatly arranged, almost like a print, even the horizontal lines of the operation were all aligned, and the obsessive-compulsive disorder was very comfortable to see.
Before the language homework was beaten, not a single Chinese character was written clearly, and the handwriting was blurred.
After being beaten, the writing of the language homework is completely reborn, not only the phonics is written beautifully, the pen edge of each word is clearly visible, the contrast between before and after is too big, and the homework after being beaten is really pleasing to the eye.
Should such a "punch" operation model be emulated?
Many netizens saw the homework before and after the primary school students were beaten, and they couldn't help but sigh that it was indeed the second pulse of Ren Dou that was opened, and the handwriting began to become clear, and some parents ridiculed that this was really a word to be beaten into the box, and even empathy said that the child did not beat the instrument.
However, some parents said that there is no difference between what to do before and after the beating, and more parents expressed envy, and the homework written by this primary school student before being beaten is stronger than that written by their own children.
Is conscientious or not doing homework really just a bad beating? The child is beaten and written well immediately after he is beaten? Isn't that more useful than a calligraphy class?
Parents should be clear that some children can obviously write well, but do not seriously complete, this is the attitude of improper, parents can carry out criticism education, but try not to do anything to the child.
There are also some children who do not write homework well, it is not that they are not serious, and parents should not indiscriminately punch and kick their children.
Stick education in modern times is not a way worth advocating, parents still have to understand the child's situation, and then targeted for the child's problems to solve one by one.
Elementary school students are not good at writing homework for a million reasons
Parents are most troubled by the child's homework problem, the child is not good at writing homework is not a lack of play, or to analyze the causes to have a countermeasure, generally speaking, primary school students do not like to write homework Problems are attributed to the following
Procrastination: Many primary school students have no concept of time, and they are very procrastinating about the completion of homework, and if no one urges supervision, they may not complete the homework before going to bed.
Learning problems: There are also some children who do not complete their homework because they do not have enough grasp of knowledge, writing homework is a difficult thing, naturally it is rejected or confused, and some children are also because they do not like certain subjects, so they also hate to write homework in this subject, if they are not guided, the future will be serious.
Eager to be paid attention to by parents: Primary school students do not write homework in fact, there is another reason is to find a sense of existence, they want the teacher or parents to pay attention to him, so to do these things to win attention, he will continue to repeat these bad behavior habits, in fact, want parents to care more about themselves.
Personality problems: There are also some children who do not take homework seriously and personality are also related, some children who are born with chronic children love to grind foreign workers, so some parents of acute children are very angry when they see their children rubbing when they are learning. There are also some careless children, the error rate of homework will be very high, sloppy and not rigorous will cause problems. There are also some children who cannot concentrate, often playing while doing homework, which is a problem that parents need to pay attention to.
Environmental impact: Learning requires an environment, family atmosphere is also very important for children, and poor family relations will also make children unable to devote themselves to learning. If parents ignore the supervision and management of their children and do not pay attention to homework, they will naturally not get good homework quality.
In addition, some parents are too demanding of their children, and the standards for children in homework are also more expensive, and sometimes they will cause negative confrontation with children, there is no time to play, and children's resistance to homework is getting thicker and thicker, so parents still have to give their children some free and relaxed space, do not push their children too tightly.
Every family education has its own way, but the best education for children is love and freedom, and I hope that every parent can find a suitable way to help children complete high-quality homework.
【Today's Topic】
How do you think parents should tutor elementary school students with their homework?