My husband has a female colleague, her husband is a single-parent family, because he has been dependent on his mother since he was a child, so he is obedient to his mother, a typical mother treasure man, a person in his thirties has been immersed in the world of games, there is almost no common language between husband and wife, married for seven or eight years, has been unwilling to have children, onlookers know that she wants to leave a way out for herself.
People who may say that the child is husband and wife? Bond, with the child between the feelings between the husband and wife may be good, and I want to say, in the family relationship, the husband and wife relationship is in the first place, if you have experienced several years of husband and wife relationship has not been handled clearly, how to ensure that the child can be handled well after birth!
If a man in marriage does not love you so much, even if he has children, it is likely to be widowed parenting; and after the birth of the child, the new mother may also cause postpartum anxiety because of the change of identity, the hard work of the baby, the lack of care from the spouse, etc., which will only make the relationship between the two worse!
Children should be the crystallization of the love of two people, not the chips you use to save the marriage relationship, and every child should be born in the expectations of parents. If the relationship between parents is not good, even if the child is born smoothly, it is very detrimental to the healthy growth of the child's body and mind, just like "lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are curing childhood all their lives." "Therefore, in order for the children to grow up healthily, those families who do not have a good relationship between husband and wife should still carefully consider the matter of having children."
